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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and the missus were chatting the other day and just wondered, is there a shelf life to swinging as it were, we are both in our early 50's and cant imagine doing this in our 70's or 80's, too wrinkly lol, what are your thoughts?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So long as you are both happy to carry on why should age restrict you?

One of the loveliest sights I saw in a club was a couple who must have been in their 70s or 80s who appeared in the play area with a "young man" - the husband cradled his wife while the guy very lovingly and respectfully played with her and she him - was one of those real "joy to watch" moments that re-affirmed everything I thought about this lifestyle and when it works right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So long as you are both happy to carry on why should age restrict you?

One of the loveliest sights I saw in a club was a couple who must have been in their 70s or 80s who appeared in the play area with a "young man" - the husband cradled his wife while the guy very lovingly and respectfully played with her and she him - was one of those real "joy to watch" moments that re-affirmed everything I thought about this lifestyle and when it works right."

This . Thats sweet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

sex, fortunately, is not just for the young. Why should wrinkles stop anyone enjoying swinging?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Shelf life? I'm not a loaf of bread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still trying, slowing down a bit but still eager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m loving this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 55 and have no intention of slowing down. I know one woman who is 68 and very active.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah I'm done now,not with sex but meeting random people for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod! "

You have a great body

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

There was a guy at the pandemonium party at Club SX... I’m pretty rubbish with ages but he must have been 70. He looked amazing in his leather and from what I saw he didn’t have a problem with performing. He was wrinkly too (as some of us are already and we all will be one day).

Long may our sexual freedom continue... not bound by age, gender, sexual orientation and everything else

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod!

You have a great body "
Awww thank you so much. Here's a confession, I've been looking at you 2 for ages! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a guy at the pandemonium party at Club SX... I’m pretty rubbish with ages but he must have been 70. He looked amazing in his leather and from what I saw he didn’t have a problem with performing. He was wrinkly too (as some of us are already and we all will be one day).

Long may our sexual freedom continue... not bound by age, gender, sexual orientation and everything else

V x

"
Seconded! X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

My dad was still swinging in his early 80s. And there is a couple I've spoken to once at chams were I believe he is early 90s.

I've been swinging 23 years next weekend... and don't see any reason to change

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod!

You have a great body Awww thank you so much. Here's a confession, I've been looking at you 2 for ages! Lol "

well there ya go.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We intend to grow old disgracefully, everyone should carry on regardless of age and enjoy it while you can.

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We are in our fifties now and still going strong, although we do find it harder to get meets as we get older, anyone else find that? X

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York

56 here and not really started it’s difficult to get meets I’ll just soldier on

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod! "

Looks good to me.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

60 is the new 45, 50 the new 40 ... just saying ... it is body, mind and personality plus some skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

56 feel in my prime....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when others stop meeting you/us because of age..that's probably when it's time to stop.. We are in our mid 50's and still having fun..but admittedly, sometimes, we could just not be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re just getting into our stride.

No intention of slowing down, were having way too much of a good time!

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

I am almost 66 and having loads of selective fun.

Men seem to like my assertive, confident and straightforward approach.

My swing is flying high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod!

Looks good to me."
Thank you! Definitely reciprocated! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this sums it up

When the people you fancy don’t fancy you and when the ones who fancy you it’s a no

Age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are in our fifties now and still going strong, although we do find it harder to get meets as we get older, anyone else find that? X"
Yes me definitely! X

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford


"My dad was still swinging in his early 80s. And there is a couple I've spoken to once at chams were I believe he is early 90s.

I've been swinging 23 years next weekend... and don't see any reason to change "

Have you ever met Pete in chames he's 80+ and still going strong,he goes on naked holidays and swingers holidays

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Got talking to a very over the top drag queen one night, looked absolutely stunning in her dress and makeup.

I couldn't believe she was over 60, as she said 'it's all in the application (of the makeup) dear'. So after that, as long as there's great foundation I'm going to be around for a bit longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod! "

U dnt have a grandad bod or even a dad bod u look in your 40's from those pics

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"We intend to grow old disgracefully, everyone should carry on regardless of age and enjoy it while you can. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62 this year, I still live in hope that someone will like a grandad bod!

U dnt have a grandad bod or even a dad bod u look in your 40's from those pics "
Thank you so much! Have to say I don't feel this age, and you look rather yummy too lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are in our fifties now and still going strong, although we do find it harder to get meets as we get older, anyone else find that? X"

Yeah we do find it increasingly difficult to find meets too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We intend to grow old disgracefully, everyone should carry on regardless of age and enjoy it while you can. "

We wanna grow old as disgracefully as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much my age, but I’ve been thinking this site has a shelf life in that everyone I’m interested in has been contacted with little success. Rather that lower standards, seems my time is done. Thankfully there is still the Forums!

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I'm 61 and still going strong.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on shelf life or sell buy date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on shelf life or sell buy date."

Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I'm done now,not with sex but meeting random people for sex."

After 5 yrs I'm the same. I think it gets old after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think the shelf life is based upon your age; there are some ancient swingers that are the life and soul of the party and actually get some pretty serious meets in some cases. Big shout out to the charming BobbyTupper in this regard.

I do however think that people do have a shelf life in regards to their target audience. I think that the longer you are on a site like this the less likely you are to meet going forward. This is primarily if you are seeking to meet females. If you are seeking males or couples this is less so, the shelf life is pretty long there.

But having been on the site a couple of years it seems pretty clear we won't be seeing the sort of success we have previously enjoyed any time soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think the shelf life is based upon your age; there are some ancient swingers that are the life and soul of the party and actually get some pretty serious meets in some cases. Big shout out to the charming BobbyTupper in this regard.

I do however think that people do have a shelf life in regards to their target audience. I think that the longer you are on a site like this the less likely you are to meet going forward. This is primarily if you are seeking to meet females. If you are seeking males or couples this is less so, the shelf life is pretty long there.

But having been on the site a couple of years it seems pretty clear we won't be seeing the sort of success we have previously enjoyed any time soon. "

Exactly this x

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By *9biglicks69Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

How long to carry on swinging is personal. We have said that we will not go beyond 60 ourselves but then have seen and spoken to couples who are nearly 70.

Some very good friends of ours have just left the site after only 3 years and it has made us question our desire to continue as they were the reason we are still on here as we were going to leave when they asked us to meet them.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Late 60s and early 70s here. Why stop if you still enjoy it and can still do it?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I turned fifty in September. I still seem to be doing ok! I doubt i’d swing as a single in another decade but I’d love to swing as a loving couple eventually!

As to when I’d stop - I’ll stop when the people I’m attracted to are no longer attracted to me - but even then I’ll still enjoy the social side of swinging for as long as I have friends on the scene!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the missus were chatting the other day and just wondered, is there a shelf life to swinging as it were, we are both in our early 50's and cant imagine doing this in our 70's or 80's, too wrinkly lol, what are your thoughts?"

According to fabswingers the shelf life is 99

Till then you're good

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No shelf life - everyone wants something different, interests change and there's no law that says that once you've started something that you must continue for ever, without taking breaks etc. If you want and enjoy it, others like you, then follow your interests.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"Late 60s and early 70s here. Why stop if you still enjoy it and can still do it? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"According to fabswingers the shelf life is 99

Till then you're good "

Hahaha xx

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