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" do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all? " +1 I gush, and yes it feels good when it happens but absolutely nothing like an orgasm. An orgasm for me has always been a full body experience, leaving me very sensitive all over and quite often shaking for some time after, but I get none of these feelings from gushing. | |||
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"ok ok i know the qushing/squirting subjects been done to death but i just wanted a honest opinion from women who do this Was having a convosation last night with a guy i meet and after he commented on me cumming and i said that i hadnt cum, well because i hadnt lol and he was shocked at this as i had gushed a few times while playing with him and he saw this as me cumming Now i really dont see gushing as having a orgasum, because i truely believe its not, when i gush i get not feeling or sensation of cumming at all, infact it feels of nothing really except a hand moving rapidly down there and a feeling of wetness, my orgasums are always clit stimulated, not g spot and i loose no fluid when i cum I think this is a common thought of men tho that when you gush you have cum so they then dont bother trying to make you really cum as they think you already have We got into a bit of a heated debate about this as he was sure that when you gush you was having a orgasum etc but as i do not get any pleasurable feeling from gushing i dont see how it is So i guess my question is, is gushing an orgasum? am i wierd and do other women get this great sensation when they gush? or do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all? " I'm completely with you about the gushing not being an orgasm, I'm exactly the same, I do gush lots with the right stimulation but it is definitely not the same feeling as an orgasm. I enjoy it but all my orgasms are through clim stim and they are very different!! And I want both, gush and orgasms lol. So guys work a bit harder and you will be rewarded | |||
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"I'm quite stunned that there was a heated argument over the fact he insisted he knew mire about your body and the way it was feeling than you did " well to be honest thats why i started the thread as ive heard a few people say gushing means you have cum, so i just wondered if i had something wrong with me and the not feeling you have cum when you gushed was something only i experienced, but seems not seems most women feel the same way as me I was genuinly interested to know how it felt for other women | |||
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"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also. I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time" PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is????? | |||
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"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also. I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is?????" i dont gush when i orgasum, when i have a proper orgasum, which takes lots of tongue to clit stimulation lol i never gush, i get wet but not like when im g spot stimulated where i just flood, tho most guys would sooner see that as they can see the fruits of their work it does not feel like having a orgasum, im not actually sure what it is to be honest, still yet to work that one out lol | |||
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"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also. I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time PS She never gushed or squirted either just got wet and then something about a deep orgasm or something what ever the fook one of those is????? i dont gush when i orgasum, when i have a proper orgasum, which takes lots of tongue to clit stimulation lol i never gush, i get wet but not like when im g spot stimulated where i just flood, tho most guys would sooner see that as they can see the fruits of their work it does not feel like having a orgasum, im not actually sure what it is to be honest, still yet to work that one out lol" I aint worked out the answer my self on that one yet hun. I was nearly there with it last week but the strong wind blew the tent down and she lost interest after that and was more concerned about chasing after her new shoes through the park instead Grrrr some people hey its all me me me me me aint it! haha | |||
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"ok ok i know the qushing/squirting subjects been done to death but i just wanted a honest opinion from women who do this Was having a convosation last night with a guy i meet and after he commented on me cumming and i said that i hadnt cum, well because i hadnt lol and he was shocked at this as i had gushed a few times while playing with him and he saw this as me cumming Now i really dont see gushing as having a orgasum, because i truely believe its not, when i gush i get not feeling or sensation of cumming at all, infact it feels of nothing really except a hand moving rapidly down there and a feeling of wetness, my orgasums are always clit stimulated, not g spot and i loose no fluid when i cum I think this is a common thought of men tho that when you gush you have cum so they then dont bother trying to make you really cum as they think you already have We got into a bit of a heated debate about this as he was sure that when you gush you was having a orgasum etc but as i do not get any pleasurable feeling from gushing i dont see how it is So i guess my question is, is gushing an orgasum? am i wierd and do other women get this great sensation when they gush? or do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all? " no i don't i can gush but actually not keen on sensation and prefer an orgasm xxx | |||
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"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time ." nor do i to gush i need very rapid hand movement to cum i ned very rapid tongue movment and not many can do both at the same time for long enough lol | |||
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"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time . nor do i to gush i need very rapid hand movement to cum i ned very rapid tongue movment and not many can do both at the same time for long enough lol" I would know if i did both at Same time as feel so diffrent ... it somthing i may now have to work on after reading this post , | |||
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"no i don't i can gush but actually not keen on sensation and prefer an orgasm xxx" Same here. Too many chaps seem to think they 'have to' make a girl gush. I now give advance notice not to try (Katy) | |||
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"These a two different things which can coincide... Some guys haven't a clue have they? Bless " | |||
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" The reason men don't bother trying to bring a woman to orgasm and only roughly thrust their fingers in and out until a rush of fluid appears and then that's job done, is because a large majority of women on these forums tell them that's an orgasm. Men learn from women, if there are those who continually tell them squirting is an orgasm, when it absolutely isn't, then they won't bother trying to stimulate in any other way. This thread doesnt really support that though - out of the 10 or so women that have posted only one says that it is the same as having an orgasm. And I personally can confirm I have never said to anyone that it was " They watch too much porn and get it confused with real sex! | |||
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"I am a lucky girl, since sexual maturity I have orgasmed through clitoral and vaginal stimulation. During the sexual act and nearing and during the point of orgasm I am very wet because I am aroused. This is perfectly natural and normal. I have never gushed or squirted. The reason men don't bother trying to bring a woman to orgasm and only roughly thrust their fingers in and out until a rush of fluid appears and then that's job done, is because a large majority of women on these forums tell them that's an orgasm. I've noticed that in clubs more and more men are favouring this rough type of fingering, coupled with pressing down on the outside of the vagina in an attempt to get her to gush. They seem to think all women gush or want to. All down to either the porn they've watched and they've mistakenly attributed porn sex to real life sex, in which case I feel great pity for them, or because they've heard it said on forums and in clubs that all women try to gush and the sign of a good lover is being able to get a woman to do that. My advice is try and brush up on real sexual technique on how to stimulate the clitoris and g spot. Women on here seem to be obsessed with gushing. Lots seem to find it an achievement to squirt the highest, be the messiest, need the most rubber sheeting. Men learn from women, if there are those who continually tell them squirting is an orgasm, when it absolutely isn't, then they won't bother trying to stimulate in any other way. Ill carry on with my tried and tested but seemingly old fashioned non gushing/squirting but lots of clitoral and gspot stimulation cos I'm having a great time " you are as usual right lol I have read it many times where women say how great gushing is and for years i kept my gob shut because i thought my body was wierd in that i didnt get all these sensations women tell you they do As i said i know gushing threads have been done to death and i didnt want to bore you all with another i genuinely was interested if other women, like me, found gushing no big deal really and found proper clit stimulation better than having some guys thtusting his fingers about in you It seems i am not alone and im glad i have asked as now i know its not just me i will get more assertive with guys who think that they have done their bit lol | |||
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"ok just a question for the ladies , i know you are all different so can a lady gushing be an orgasm as my wife floods like a pee as she cums and says it was a orgasm so is she faking it , ? or can some ladies cum as they gush this is different to the clitorial cum she sometimes has from confused dot hubby" when you say floods like a pee is the fluid coming from her vagina or where she pees from? confused too lol | |||
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"Gushing is very diffrent to cumming nothing like each other ..... and i never do the same together . For me i gush loads ... after i may cum .. but not the same time ." For me Jo, I usually gush after I have cum, but there has been occassions when I have had the absolute pleasure of both at the same time. I think alot depends on how sexually aroused you are at the time and the situation you may find yourself in, especially for me anyway. | |||
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"ok just a question for the ladies , i know you are all different so can a lady gushing be an orgasm as my wife floods like a pee as she cums and says it was a orgasm so is she faking it , ? or can some ladies cum as they gush this is different to the clitorial cum she sometimes has from confused dot hubby" I can gush like a tsunami when I cum, depending on the man and/or position. There are everal different tyopes of female orgasm (aint we lucky?), one being clitoral, and one being vaginal. They feel different. I don't gush with clitoral orgasms, but usually do with vaginal orgasms. | |||
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" do other women, like me not really see gushing as cumming and not get any real sensation from it at all? +1 I gush, and yes it feels good when it happens but absolutely nothing like an orgasm. An orgasm for me has always been a full body experience, leaving me very sensitive all over and quite often shaking for some time after, but I get none of these feelings from gushing. " That happens to me too! It feels great, and makes me want to keep very still, but a orgasm from clit stimulation and having my partner in me and me on top makes me shake all over for ages! And I love it! | |||
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"I had a bird cry on me once when she came was an awsome experience and feeling for me also. I had to check to see if I had hurt her or not or trapped her foot or something but na she had cried through sheer pleasure Never had that experience again but was really strange yet good at the same time" I've had that and you're right it was a wondeful experience and so intimate to show ones emotions after so much pleasure, and I'd only known her for a couple of hours too.... But back to the original post, I adore gushers, but if anyone supposes I'm going to sit back and light a cigar after bringing about a nice healthy gush, they can think again. One gush-coated beautiful sex is all the sweeter to eat....in fact sometimes after actual orgasm I have to be coaxed away from licking as it becomes to sensitive... It just so happens that one of a lady's greatest pleasures is also one of my greatest pleasures and I have every intention of taking full advantage of that... | |||
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" Orgasm is a feeling experience for women. So, gents, please do not ask "Did you cum?" . " no cause the last guy who asked me that got told no and this thread was born lol | |||
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"These a two different things which can coincide... Some guys haven't a clue have they? Bless " And it's smug patronising attitudes like that which don't really help at all. As has been said by numerous women here, you're all different, which means that us guys have to watch, listen and attempt to perceive what is happening with the lady we're with, while she simply lies back and decides whether the ceiling needs doing again!! | |||
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"Well i've actually stopped guys from making me gush as they seem to put so much more into it when i dont " I too tell guys to stop trying to make me gush... it's not an orgasm. I have gushed and not felt a thing and they seem to think it's all over and they have done a top notch job. | |||
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