FabSwingers.com forum: The Other Side

By *sLillyMrWolfe OP Couple
over a year ago

near you...

Here's a thought experiment:

Every guy who complains (out loud or to themselves) about their messages not being read or just read and deleted should sign up as a solo woman and see how many messages they get even for a very vanilla profile.

Every women who complains (out loud or to themselves) about being sent identikit messages from single guys or messages which lack any semblance of grammar, politeness or reality, should sign up as a single guy and try to get a meet with a solo woman.

I'd be genuinely interested in the results. Mx

(PS Complaining out loud is a natural and delightfully purgatory response to the shit we all get on here but it doesn't often add to the compassion in the world or empathy for what other people go through.)

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been on the other side. Basically until I joined Fab, I was terribly shy. My looks are girl next door. I don't seem the type. My libido is crazy and always has been. When I was forward I was often mocked, my experiences sexually were poor, I didn't think I had any chance.

I joined Fab expecting more of the same.

I have never, ever taken it out on someone else.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a thought experiment:

I'd be genuinely interested in the results. Mx

I think half of them already have