FabSwingers.com forum: Do poeple get offend by peoples usernames

By *itch N Kunt OP Couple
over a year ago

Salford

hello people we was wondering if many people actually got offend by a username in th chatrooms or even in the forums and would you give them crao about their choice of name ..... hope to see peoples replies

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Offended, no. But it says something about the person/ couple, quite often. That may not always be good. (I'm speaking generally not specifically)

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Not offended but sometimes bemused by their choice of descriptive username bur no pics in their profile to back up the claim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended no. But i wouldnt want loves2lickclit on my veris

*Disclaimer* Not a real username... i hope!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not offended no. But i wouldnt want loves2lickclit on my veris

*Disclaimer* Not a real username... i hope! "

And BangYaBakDoorIn (not real I hope) would have to be exceptional to get over my

reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended no. But i wouldnt want loves2lickclit on my veris

*Disclaimer* Not a real username... i hope!

And BangYaBakDoorIn (not real I hope) would have to be exceptional to get over my

reaction "

Im searching

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not offended but I’ll be honest, I wouldn’t reply to someone with a username that I found a bit cringe or a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non have ever offended me but some witty ones have definitely impressed me enough to read their profiles, even when they are of a different sex / orientation to my preferences.

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By *oolsGoldxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not offended but some are a turn off that’s for sure d

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It takes a lot to offend me and I haven't seen a username that'll do it yet.

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Not really just a name love mine tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why someone needs to be offended by a name unless it's something abit out of line

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Likewise not offended but how some people chose their user name bemuses me!

I love to see the amusing ones clearly given some thought, avoid the ones with absolutely no thought and I suppose as it’s a swinging site there will always be those who feel the need to dig into the crude or vulgar box!

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

First impressions count, especially on a site like this where the shop window is busy

Personally crude names make us skip past.. it’s up here with the toilet in the back ground or the empty beer cans and ashtray profile pics

It’s different for everyone of course

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I can't recall ever seeing a username that actually offended me, nor any that were even mildly irritating. I've seen plenty that are a bit crude for me, and a few cringe-inducing ones, but generally a name wouldn't put me off someone. I'm sure some folk think my name is daft, I don't mind!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

not offended but some are quite revealing, and send warning signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended no. But i wouldnt want loves2lickclit on my veris

*Disclaimer* Not a real username... i hope! "

I have had loves2lickclit message us!!

He wants to know why won’t you show his veri!!

He said he left out the pigeon costume and was very complimentary

Poor guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offended, no. But it says something about the person/ couple, quite often. That may not always be good. (I'm speaking generally not specifically) "

This

A username can often give you an instant idea of a persons outlook or attitude to the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t set much store by a username. Far more important is how they interact in real life, face to face. I often think to much store is set by what people write here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get offended personally but I do cringe at some of them and think really your really going with that lol

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Never offended it's their profile and user name, some of them I've seen on here I just think 'really' you have actually chosen that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get offended by usernames, but if someone messages with a username I find distasteful the message would be instantly deleted.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"hello people we was wondering if many people actually got offend by a username in th chatrooms or even in the forums and would you give them crao about their choice of name ..... hope to see peoples replies

Never been offended and would certainly never give anyone crap over what's their choice, but might give some a bit of a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like ours

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We've been put off by several usernames as they suggest we may not be er compatible. Flip side is that we've also msgd a few people where we thought their name was funny and/or clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been put off by several usernames as they suggest we may not be er compatible. Flip side is that we've also msgd a few people where we thought their name was funny and/or clever. "

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"First impressions count, especially on a site like this where the shop window is busy

Personally crude names make us skip past.. it’s up here with the toilet in the back ground or the empty beer cans and ashtray profile pics

It’s different for everyone of course"

Totally agree with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never offended but often amused, but anything too aggressive and I wouldn't click on their profile.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not offended there are some that we perhaps wouldn’t want showing on our profile though haha, makes me think why some people chose their names

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not offended there are some that we perhaps wouldn’t want showing on our profile though haha, makes me think why some people chose their names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not offended but some just don't appeal...horses for courses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended but some definitely a a swift turn off. Amazing the effect of one or two words can have.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Not been offended, but it has put me off before..... even blocked too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended at all but does denote whether I would talk to a person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended at all but does denote whether I would talk to a person or not "

I think your name has to be one of the best on here!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some types of usernames have been highlighted in the past as being off-putting to people. I'm fairly open minded, trying to focus on the person instead and realise some people perhaps don't like mine.

A lot of single guys seem to fall into the position of using explicit but off-putting names, perhaps assuming it makes them a draw.A bit like some think over-revving their car makes them more masculine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offended? Naw

I've seen a few that have made my tummy flip tho, and not in the butterfly way

Yes, it may only be words but to me it says a little about their way of thinking and it had absolutely put me off people. First impressions and all that jizz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder whether a person’s username is a sobriquet rather than a pseudonym.

In case of the former, depending on the name, one’s reputation may be quite interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended at all but does denote whether I would talk to a person or not

I think your name has to be one of the best on here!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some usernames can be imaginative and clever....but some are just tragic and obvious.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

I was thinking of changing ours too scratch my snatch and Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/05/19 15:34:21]

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Ours has a story behind it

So hope we hope it's not offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended but put off by some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/05/19 15:34:21]"

Since you ask, the short version of your user name conveys a clever Star Wars enthusiast. The longer version emplies your selected orientation might need tweeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are offensive or derogatory then yes. No big deal though - just tells me a lot about them and s out undesirables

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We’d be offended if we understood what ours meant.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Not offended at all but does denote whether I would talk to a person or not

I think your name has to be one of the best on here!

Thanks

There's two of you on my Hotlist with very similar usernames - confuses the heck out of me when you both post new pics/status updates around the same time

As for the original question - nope usernames don't offend me as such, make me cringe and would put me off conversing/meeting them though.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"We’d be offended if we understood what ours meant."

_icentious

/l??'s?n??s/

adjective

promiscuous and unprincipled in sexual matters.

"the ruler's tyrannical and _icentious behaviour"

synonyms: dissolute, dissipated, debauched, degenerate, salacious, immoral, wanton, decadent, depraved, p

igate, impure, sinful, wicked, corrupt, indecent, libertine;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended at all but does denote whether I would talk to a person or not

I think your name has to be one of the best on here!

Thanks

There's two of you on my Hotlist with very similar usernames - confuses the heck out of me when you both post new pics/status updates around the same time

As for the original question - nope usernames don't offend me as such, make me cringe and would put me off conversing/meeting them though."

Lol luckily my profile is nearly always hidden though you are on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but I’ll be honest, I wouldn’t reply to someone with a username that I found a bit cringe or a turn off."

Same here x

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By *reeneyes1983Man
over a year ago

Hyde

Yeah gotta agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

User names with DOM or sir etc are a delete, same with silly immature ones like big lash etc. It to me shows how they are as a person to choose that user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like names that have had a bit of thought into them. It does reveal a bit about the person in Most cases.

I didn't choose my name, but it just kind of stuck lol. I'm quite happy with it now tho, it still suits me.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Offended no but some make me giggle.

Creative bunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get offended, but a crass username = auto delete in my inbox...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended but wouldn't meet someone with a unplesent one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always use an email or user name that you can relay on the phone or not feel embarrassed about!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)"

I can imagine you get loads lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can put me off, others just reveal negatives about that person. I do have more concerns though about gaping spread arse pics as main pictures on profiles it makes me heave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more information I get from the profile the better.

Sometimes a username alone can make that decision for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)

I can imagine you get loads lol x"

At the club when people check in I'm like "Sorry, could you say that a little louder please? I can't hear you very well". Some cringe. One guy said "Fuckinghell, I really need to change my username. It's awful"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but I’ll be honest, I wouldn’t reply to someone with a username that I found a bit cringe or a turn off."

agree x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)

I can imagine you get loads lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get offended. But I've judged you by yours and wouldn't interact with you purely because of it. Even without looking at your profile I'm guessing you aren't the sort of person I want to be around.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Not sure about mine now

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I don’t like it either, but I find the shouty capitals in the profile write up more offensive :/

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Not offended, but it gives a first impression and if that isn't good I wouldn't bother going any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)"

I used to co host a Saturday lunchtime pub social and had the same thing happen. I encouraged them to write it on a piece of paper if they went bright red. Was rather amusing at times

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine works better spoken than written, but as I usually am in a swing dress, I occasionally feel like a bit of a twat

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Can't claim any credit for mine. Just from the rest of the builders gang I worked with. All 6ft+ so when the steel beams were being lifted into place, I was always excused 'cos I'd have just been hanging on while they lifted.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We never get offended by their choice of name. However, if it is an insight into them that we don't like it will put us off arranging a meet. Yes, we know it's superficial, but if someone has taken the time and thought to want to be known as Mrrockhardveinydickwithcumspurtingoutofit, then we know more than enough to make a decision

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Not offended but anything mentioning 420/heavycummer/smasher/destroyer tends to put me off.

I've had some rather amusing ones add themselves to guest lists. It's funny when they arrive and sheepishly mumble "pussysmashingstud*" to you when you ask them their username.

*similar example/not an actual username (hopefully)

I can imagine you get loads lol x

That's exactly the criteria that I think people should go by with their names; if you can't proudly state your name to peopled without getting the

face, then you need a serious rethink!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm assuming that your question isn't just idle curiosity OP...

In your specific case, I would probably be thinking about a change...

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By *uan KnightMan
over a year ago

Rugby

I just tried to be witty with mine. But I do sometimes wonder if it’s sending out the wrong message about me.

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