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Female Led Relationship - is this you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare yourself!

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hi

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love this term!! Never heard it before but wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the conversation had with Ginger earlier yep that's us

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

If anyone really wants to understand FLR; read a book by Georgia Ivey Green. She really understands the dynamic. It is not Cuckolding, or sub/dom, it is more the bloke handing over the controlling aspect of the relationship.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare yourself!"

It’s not just sex, it can be everything all the big decisions in the relationship to what restaurant and we going for dinner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare yourself!

It’s not just sex, it can be everything all the big decisions in the relationship to what restaurant and we going for dinner"

Hmm. I had a marriage like that. Unfortunately I was forced into it and the rewards were few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi x

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By *andy_CaneCouple
over a year ago

Orgasm Quay

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi x"

Welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello "

And welcome to you!

I’m hoping some FLR lovers will be along soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare . I yourself!"
I arrange all our meets ,I want to feel an attraction of a confident woman , the same as myself who is into me as much as im into her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare . I yourself!I arrange all our meets ,I want to feel an attraction of a confident woman , the same as myself who is into me as much as im into her "

Great photos!

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

An FLR level 3 to 4 relationship is what I would ultimately love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never hear of for b4 sounds Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that's us, although I do let him feel in charge sometimes

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say we fall in into that category.

I choose when we go to chams, I decide if we're going to play or if he can go do his own thing, I look after this profile and I do all the interacting with potential play mates.

Go me

Sin.

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By *arried Bi KinksterMan
over a year ago

North West

We’re certainly familiar yes x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I play a major part of FLR. Altough we are a full time D/s couple. I'm the sub, those who know what a real D/s knows what a sub is.

On the orther hand, I decide where and what we're doing on holiday. My fella is is always booking hotels / events at work. So in time off, I book it to give him a break. I decide the itinary too. I decide places to eat ect too.

For 90% of swing plays I look / find and decide. Just a time factor thing. I have more time to look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always tried to give total control to the women I’ve been with but I’d say 80% either didn’t want it or saw it as week and abused it.

Definitely something I’d like to develop and be a part of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is us!

I manage our profile, choose which pics go on, and decide who we meet. As a bi woman I'm fed up with wading through the BS from male partners where the female half hasn't even seen our profile.

In our marriage we are a very strong team. In our swinging life I know what I'm looking for and my hubby supports me totally. He certainly doesn't have any complaints!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think most relationships swinging or vanilla are FLR, there is a good reason for the old saying, happy wife happy life.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Very much the opposite here. Sometimes I'll encourage her to decision make but she'll find a way to put the onus back on myself, guess we're both wired this way. Funny thing is she's the boss at work and very much a leader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is us too. I very much make the decisions and set the boundaries

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well I'm submissive, so love FLR or even FL friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to either. A FLR would be fun but most of my relationships have been led by me in that department.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"I’ve just found out this is a recognised acronym: FLR. A relationship where the woman takes responsibility for organising the adventurous sex. I LOVE FLR couples. I know the woman is up for whatever we do because it’s arranged with her. And the men tend to be easier going. So, FLR couples and FLR lovers, declare yourself!"

Yup, I've been in FLR's in the past.

IMO if it stops at sex it's not a FLR though. FLR's are about embracing a particular lifestyle, and it will touch all parts of your life together (and apart).

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Hi

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