FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold(humiliation) vs Stag(pride)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering what the ratio is here? How many of ya'll do the

Cuckold thing: let your wife go away to get fucked or let her lover humiliate you.

Stag thing: non humiliation, sex in front of you or as a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag n vixen cpl here

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By *he FiftiesCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Stag and vixen here

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

I'd love to be in this dynamic!

but unfortunately I'm not so it will stay on my Kinky bucket list for a while... If I was tied and bound I'd even have to jump on the cleanup duties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lean towards meeting the cuckold/hotwife teams but do love a MMF

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We do both

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We are equal in our play with others like to see him having as much fun as I do

Molly

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Stag for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot husband/cuckqueen dynamic here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stag and vixen here

Cracking pics guys

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Both, but more Stag & Vixen, but with FLR

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley

Whats FLR??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife and cuck here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a case of he "Lets me" I can do what I want ha..... not into humiliation though

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Whats FLR??"

Female Led Relationship. Male has high pressure exec job, so happy to had over Fab life to the female to take the lead. More details on her single profile;

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/curiousvixen

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Stag and vixen here.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Stag and vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and vixen here too

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By *orkscouple2003Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

Stag & vixen here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience Stag and Vixen is WAY more fun than cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag & vixen here!

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Stag and Vixen, though S can play alone in clubs if I've set the ball rolling.

I'm under no illusion that she's the hot one that people want to play with in our relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in our name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def stag we are both strong people so cuckold not for me I would not put up with the humiliation thing at all well.

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By *andy_CaneCouple
over a year ago

Orgasm Quay

Stag and vixen here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stag and vixen here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats FLR??

Female Led Relationship. Male has high pressure exec job, so happy to had over Fab life to the female to take the lead. More details on her single profile;

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/curiousvixen"

Ooh we need that as a search criteria. I lurve FLR couples.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s a bit like like being a Cuck, but without humiliation

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

I want to be a cuckold humiliation and watching her enjoy herself

Also have a kik group for anyone who is interested in cuckolding if any couples or females here want to join pm your kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and vixen couple here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what the ratio is here? How many of ya'll do the

Cuckold thing: let your wife go away to get fucked or let her lover humiliate you.

Stag thing: non humiliation, sex in front of you or as a threesome. "

We do it where the boyfriend arranged everything but isn’t allowed to be at the meet itself

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

Stag here.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Stag and Vixen and male led.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Stag, love to watch wife fuck in her collar

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Hot husband and vixen here.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Bi couple both take turns in cuck or vixen , we just love bi mmf with a bit of role play thrown in

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By *uckoldandnaughtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Done vixen now want to try cuckold

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Stag and vixen

Kiki x

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always an education in here...

So is the term "hotwife" linked to cuckolding only, or mainly?

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Stag and Vixen for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always an education in here...

So is the term "hotwife" linked to cuckolding only, or mainly?"

No is another term for vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not of both but mostly stag and vixen.

K (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to explore being a cuckold but I don't think many (most?) women would be keen to be involved with men who were submissive to them in a relationship.

Seems to unnerve them.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Hotwife couple here

Flames

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

Hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to explore being a cuckold but I don't think many (most?) women would be keen to be involved with men who were submissive to them in a relationship.

Seems to unnerve them."

Depends how you approach them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for us.

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford

Stag I suppose lol x

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Both are great fun, and we enjoy playing both ways lol. Xxxx

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I predominately set up meets, play etc

We love 3sums both ways, as we both love watching the other one fucking someone else.

I always have to finish off with hubby though, it’s just feels like amazing having him give me a final intense orgasm. Then I’m tingling all the way home excited about the reclaim sex we’ll have when we get it cx

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By *aceandHimCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Older stag and vixen!

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Cuckold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and vixen on couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone wanna chat about my missus pm me for my mumber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag n Vixen

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By *b3467Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Cuckold couple here

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I've helped a few couples with cuckolding and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think both ways can be fun. my wife and i both fantasize about her being with other guys, its a big turn on for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he was stag for many many years now 100% cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do both "

This !! Why choose ??

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Hoping to one day be a cuckold in a FLR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to try both

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

"I'd love to try both"

Agree. We like both. Depends on mood. Guests. Etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male led stag and vixen here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hotwife, now single

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By *andR Staffs cplCouple
over a year ago

here and there

Stag for us. New to it and loving it.

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Stag and vixen always.vixen does meet alone though. However we never do cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and vixen mostly. But don’t mind a little cuck play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not a sharer far to competitive of giving orgasms to let another guy have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to brush up on these terms of swinging haha!

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By *eaches85Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Stag and Vixen here, it's all about the sharing and joining in

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By *llycplCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

stag n vixen but coming around to a bit of cuckold fun ,

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We do both "

So do we!

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

We love both..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom stag and sub vixen here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and Vixen, love the mutual experience.

Any arrogance or disrespect would be a total turn off.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Cuckold play with a couple is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love cuckold play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are equal in our play with others like to see him having as much fun as I do

Molly

XX"

This for us, works best for us.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

R hotwifed with her ex, who didn't even want to watch, but I always want to be involved rather than observing. Agree with the above, we both love watching the other one with someone else.

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

I (dan) am too alpha male to be a cuck, but I adore other men worshipping kim.

She can be very dominant with other guys, so I’m not even sure what you’d call us to be honest

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By *heer_sussexcplCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

"Just wondering what the ratio is here? How many of ya'll do the

Cuckold thing: let your wife go away to get fucked or let her lover humiliate you.

Stag thing: non humiliation, sex in front of you or as a threesome. "

Stag & Vixen couple … Mrs Sheer is a natural Hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so hard to find single women who want a cuckold relationship, it's crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a big of both but it really depends on the other male and how much we trust him so we always start with Stag unless the other male doesn't know that Mr thexcouple knows.

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By *3xycuckcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

A lot of stag and vixen couples in the thread. Seems more popular than Hotwife / cuck. Our username gives our preference away

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Well!!! Up until 2 days ago we were more Stag & Vixen... but she’s now earned her Cuck BBC wings

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Mainly cuckold for us love the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cuckholding i feel that im helping out x is that wrong x

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By *aise-moiCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Stag hotwife with a cuckold twist.. complicated but rocks our boat

shame there’s not more guys that understand the dynamics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stag hotwife with a cuckold twist.. complicated but rocks our boat

shame there’s not more guys that understand the dynamics "

This 100%

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

The OP waaaaaay over simplifies things suggesting there’s only 2 dynamics and it’s that clear cut between the 2 of them.

If you want to get into specifics we identify best as a contemporary cuckolding couple with NO HUMILIATION. My husband is an Alpha Cuck.

To keep it simple I normally just say I’m a hotwife!

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"I (dan) am too alpha male to be a cuck, but I adore other men worshipping kim.

She can be very dominant with other guys, so I’m not even sure what you’d call us to be honest "

Why are you too Alpha Male to be a Cuck?

You can be an Alpha Cuck you know. My husband is incredibly Alpha but loves to worship me, gets off on me getting off and likes to be submissive to me and me alone in the bedroom. Humiliation is abhorrent to both of us.

Have a google about Contemporary Cuckolding and Alpha Cucks and you might find you identify with it!

People seem to think the weak minded can’t fuck their wives wet lettuce cucks portrayed in Porn are a real thing when it most cases the actual reality couldn’t be further from the truth!

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I love mmf.....mmmmn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually allow my wife to go out and check other guys but she doesn’t want to! How fucked up is that!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what the ratio is here? How many of ya'll do the

Cuckold thing: let your wife go away to get fucked or let her lover humiliate you.

Stag thing: non humiliation, sex in front of you or as a threesome. "

Either for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant thread , great so many enjoy this sort of play

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich

I’d say both for us - if playing with a single guy can equally enjoy just sitting back and watching or joining in as a threesome; likewise I do enjoy being a cuck and having Mrs and bull humiliate me

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

"Hot husband/cuckqueen dynamic here"

Same here!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Hot husband/cuckqueen dynamic here"

^^^This is us too^^^

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By *ovely kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We do both and are a female let relationship.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I (dan) am too alpha male to be a cuck, but I adore other men worshipping kim.

She can be very dominant with other guys, so I’m not even sure what you’d call us to be honest

Why are you too Alpha Male to be a Cuck?

Have a google about Contemporary Cuckolding and Alpha Cucks and you might find you identify with it!

People seem to think the weak minded can’t fuck their wives wet lettuce cucks portrayed in Porn are a real thing when it most cases the actual reality couldn’t be further from the truth! "
Exactly this...and the only way for a guy to find out what both partners enjoy is through chatting to them both and exploring what they both like with them..

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

Wife and I love our hot wife/ cuckold relationship. I really love the humiliation!! Took lots of discussion over many years before we tried it - and now we have two regular guys she sees and we could not be happier. Love watching her with them knowing she is being so totally satisfied!! Experience has brought out her dominant side too which I love.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We do but in the opposite genders.

I love watching beast with another woman. Definitely a pride thing. No humiliation. I just like to see/feel every move her body makes while he's pleasuring her.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I (dan) am too alpha male to be a cuck, but I adore other men worshipping kim.

She can be very dominant with other guys, so I’m not even sure what you’d call us to be honest

Why are you too Alpha Male to be a Cuck?

Have a google about Contemporary Cuckolding and Alpha Cucks and you might find you identify with it!

People seem to think the weak minded can’t fuck their wives wet lettuce cucks portrayed in Porn are a real thing when it most cases the actual reality couldn’t be further from the truth! "

I think this description fits us in some aspects, I have been the male in other couples role play and also enjoy being in the reverse but humiliation etc are a huge no no for either of us..

End of the day a lable is just that and some are too not broad enough to cover the different scenarios or role play that people enjoy..

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Always happy to help couples in either scenarios

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By *eachcoupleswCouple
over a year ago

near exeter

She rules and it is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key part of the fantasy for me lies in knowing that P is enjoying watching and participating. Definitely not into the humiliation element at all - it’s him choosing to share that’s the turn on

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

What's the difference in hotwife/hothusband Vs stag and vixen ? Just curious

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"What's the difference in hotwife/hothusband Vs stag and vixen ? Just curious

The hot bit generally refers to humiliation and lording over somebody that you are shagging somebody's other half because they are not good enough.

Stag/vixen is much more positive. It celebrates seeing your other half and another person having pleasure together. It has been described as like an out-of-body experience for somebody seeing their other half doing to somebody else what they have experienced themselves.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Certainly don’t do the humiliation thing but have to put ‘cuckold’ as an interest as there is no ‘hotwife’ option. That being said he likes to watch her and has enjoyed listening and would like to explore that boundary with the right person but defo not into humiliation.

He prides himself on being able to have her anytime, any place and anywhere therefore enjoys her playing too.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"What's the difference in hotwife/hothusband Vs stag and vixen ? Just curious

The hot bit generally refers to humiliation and lording over somebody that you are shagging somebody's other half because they are not good enough.

That’s really not an accurate definition of a hot wife. And you’ll offend an awful lot of hotwives on here suggesting that.

Stag & Vixen - Normally Male led. Think of a proud stag. The Male will often be the one to seek out other guys to join them for a MFM. Very positive.

Hot wifing - a guy who thinks his wife is hot and wants to share her but doesn’t necessarily want to partake in other partners himself. The most broad of all the labels. Hot wives are rarely interested in a longer term relationship with their fuck buddies.

Traditional cuckolding - the Cuck likes to watch. May involve humiliation such as clean up duties.

Contemporary cuckolding - no humiliation. Very positive. Often something that attracts “Alpha Cucks”. The cuckoldstress is in control. May watch or let her meet alone. The Cuck is more than capable of satisfying his Cuckoldstress but they like the added bonus of her experiencing other partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stag & Vixen - Normally Male led. Think of a proud stag. The Male will often be the one to seek out other guys to join them for a MFM. Very positive.

Traditional cuckolding - the Cuck likes to watch. May involve humiliation such as clean up duties.

in a nutshell this

i/we would class ourselve's more traditional but its that thing as in everything in life weare al;l different and all want different so we modify thing to suit us.

i do think there;s a bit of a stigma towards trad cuckold as we know quite a few couples who would not dare to admit they like the humilation side of things due to being judged but balls to em we will do what makes us feel good as should everyone else no matter what or who you are.

not my fault my hubs has a useless dick that only looks good in knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have enjoyed a few cuckold meets that don't fit any definition perfectly. But the more traditional aspects have always played a large part each time.

This began as ticking off a box rather than lacking satisfaction, but found the experience worth repeating every so often.

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

"Stag & Vixen - Normally Male led. Think of a proud stag. The Male will often be the one to seek out other guys to join them for a MFM. Very positive.

Traditional cuckolding - the Cuck likes to watch. May involve humiliation such as clean up duties.

in a nutshell this

i/we would class ourselve's more traditional but its that thing as in everything in life weare al;l different and all want different so we modify thing to suit us.

not my fault my hubs has a useless dick that only looks good in knickers

Jen my wife so agrees - as she says it’s not her fault I was born with a little clit instead of a cock!! Love watching her with a real man!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Stag and vixen here, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely stag and vixen couple here as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag n Vixen

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Username says it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone briefly explain the differences between cuck, hot wife, male/female led and whatever other terms are used please?

Can someone explain what we are?

Every one of our meets have been with guys. Hubby doesn't play he likes to watch or take pics if guy is ok with that, or just be there but not actively watching if they are really uncomfortable.

We select guys together, either he okays them, writes them off (like they ignore him in messages + only talk to me), or probably suggests guys to meet more than I suggest to him.

Considering meeting guys alone + leaving him at home make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone briefly explain the differences between cuck, hot wife, male/female led and whatever other terms are used please?

Can someone explain what we are?

Every one of our meets have been with guys. Hubby doesn't play he likes to watch or take pics if guy is ok with that, or just be there but not actively watching if they are really uncomfortable.

We select guys together, either he okays them, writes them off (like they ignore him in messages + only talk to me), or probably suggests guys to meet more than I suggest to him.

Considering meeting guys alone + leaving him at home make a difference?

Sounds like a mix of Hot wifing - a guy who thinks his wife is hot and wants to share her but doesn’t necessarily want to partake in other partners himself. The most broad of all the labels. Hot wives are rarely interested in a longer term relationship with their fuck buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before tonight I will admit I would have classed all the same thing...cucolding lol

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Can someone briefly explain the differences between cuck, hot wife, male/female led and whatever other terms are used please?

Can someone explain what we are?

Every one of our meets have been with guys. Hubby doesn't play he likes to watch or take pics if guy is ok with that, or just be there but not actively watching if they are really uncomfortable.

We select guys together, either he okays them, writes them off (like they ignore him in messages + only talk to me), or probably suggests guys to meet more than I suggest to him.

Considering meeting guys alone + leaving him at home make a difference?

Lol that you literally copy and pasted my definitions from an above post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and Vixen for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stag and Vixen for sure"

You are or you were answering my question?

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Can someone briefly explain the differences between cuck, hot wife, male/female led and whatever other terms are used please?

Can someone explain what we are?

Every one of our meets have been with guys. Hubby doesn't play he likes to watch or take pics if guy is ok with that, or just be there but not actively watching if they are really uncomfortable.

We select guys together, either he okays them, writes them off (like they ignore him in messages + only talk to me), or probably suggests guys to meet more than I suggest to him.

Considering meeting guys alone + leaving him at home make a difference?

You are whatever you want to be! Have a read of how I defined them in my previous post.

You could argue you are partially Stag & Vixen, Hot Wife or contemporary cuckold.

One thing I’d say you are probably not is traditional cuckold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stag and Vixen for sure

You are or you were answering my question? "

Sorry, meant we are. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both depends who we're with lol x

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Done both depends what mood we are in x

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By *rs Classy SlutCouple
over a year ago

selby

Really glad I read this forum. I wasn’t aware of the stag and vixen description but it fits our fetish (I think).

We have a great day to day sex life and my wife also loves to meet younger men. I watch or record and humiliation does nothing for me personally.

She loves to be adored and spoiled by a fit young adonis.

I love to see her turned on and love that she is the fantasy of other men.

The build up and the memories/footage is something we share.

You can’t choose your fetish, it chooses you and we are very lucky that everybody gets what they came for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone briefly explain the differences between cuck, hot wife, male/female led and whatever other terms are used please?

Can someone explain what we are?

Every one of our meets have been with guys. Hubby doesn't play he likes to watch or take pics if guy is ok with that, or just be there but not actively watching if they are really uncomfortable.

We select guys together, either he okays them, writes them off (like they ignore him in messages + only talk to me), or probably suggests guys to meet more than I suggest to him.

Considering meeting guys alone + leaving him at home make a difference?

You are whatever you want to be! Have a read of how I defined them in my previous post.

You could argue you are partially Stag & Vixen, Hot Wife or contemporary cuckold.

One thing I’d say you are probably not is traditional cuckold"

Thank you. I think you are right, cuckold just doesn't feel right. There is no humiliation, there is no actual denial, there is no "cleaning up" etc that often cucks do.

So what's the difference between hot wife VS drag and vixen, why are people one and not the other?

These are just labels at the end of the day, it's more about understanding oneself and who you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there somewhere in Between? In our case, it’s a pride thing but also with a small amount of cuckold, in that I clean up and assist him fucking Karen in any way he wants.

We don’t feel we fit strictly in either

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By *oeSouthMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Username says it all.

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nice photos on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and vixen here, I love the attention

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We love to play both ways enjoy cuckold play when the mood and occasion suit.

But also love sex too much to go total chastity cuckold. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both. Bf arranges everything so he knows and there’s no humiliation, so he’s a Stag then hands over and is not there in the meet, so he’s like a cuckold. Best of both ways for us both....

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Stag x with real life partner x miss it as recently single

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Stag here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I don't play together but he's definitely a stag. He prefers me to go off and do my thing and tell him about it afterwards when we have 'reclaim' sex. It's definitely not a humiliation thing for him.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Stag/Vixen when we meet singles.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When we first started out we thought we were a cuckold couple however as our swinging journey has continued we realise we are much more stag and vixen as hubby not into humiliation at all from either myself or whoever I am playing with he just enjoys watching me have fun and put on a show for him

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Stag n Vixen, but I'm not always there. (I'd quibble with the OP's definitions.)

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Hmm it's tough to put us in a particular box... More cuckold but Mr S gets a say in who and when I meet. If he's dead set against its a no

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