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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

During my time on FAB I've known and met a fair few women who have come on FAB and gone within 6 months or a year. To whom this has been a bit of sex fix between relationships or an adventure in a lonely time, but never really embraced the lifestyle or stay in it. I'm sure there are men who are the same too. Nothing wrong with it and I'm all for people knowing what they want at that time and seeking it. I just wondered how many of us on here are here for a short-term fix and how many here for the long haul?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I am an old shrivelled prune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im single and looks like i always will be so im going to be here long term

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I was on the swinging scene for a brief but extremely intense six months, ten years ago. I left and thought would not be back.

Been back for a year now and thoroughly enjoying it. so I will probably stay for the long haul...

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I’m here years but of late I’m really not engaging in it.

Not sure why but I literally can’t be motivated to meet anyone these days..

think I’ve had my fill of BS...

I have enjoyed the whole lifestyle in the past but it’s morphed into something else now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single and looks like i always will be so im going to be here long term "

I love being single, but want sex without the relationship commitment. Fab suits me fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single and looks like i always will be so im going to be here long term

I love being single, but want sex without the relationship commitment. Fab suits me fine "
most of the time i love being single but there are times i would like someone to be there for me wanting a relationship putting me first....but thankfully that passes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single and looks like i always will be so im going to be here long term

I love being single, but want sex without the relationship commitment. Fab suits me fine most of the time i love being single but there are times i would like someone to be there for me wanting a relationship putting me first....but thankfully that passes x"

It only crosses my mind when I have to put the bins out, clean the windows, brush the yard up. All the things my other half did when I was married. It very soon passes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im single and looks like i always will be so im going to be here long term

I love being single, but want sex without the relationship commitment. Fab suits me fine most of the time i love being single but there are times i would like someone to be there for me wanting a relationship putting me first....but thankfully that passes x

It only crosses my mind when I have to put the bins out, clean the windows, brush the yard up. All the things my other half did when I was married. It very soon passes too "
my late other half never did that so thats the norm for me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Long haul sunny, I've been here about 8 years and I have no intention of going anywhere.

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By *ubiaWoman
over a year ago

Manchester/ Portugal

I’ve chosen to be single for a while but have a massive sex drive so this is perfect. I’ve also discovered how much I love making groups of men extremely happy so it’s rather useful for that too.

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I’ve chosen to be single for a while but have a massive sex drive so this is perfect. I’ve also discovered how much I love making groups of men extremely happy so it’s rather useful for that too. "

Is the fun of the FAB life a choice because your not in a relationship or because you prefer it over a relationship? What if you could have both, in a swinger relationship where you can fully indulge and share your adventures with that person. Is that something that could work for you or are you purely monogomus when in a relationship?

Tell me to get lost if I'm being too nosey. It's just I get the impression for many that it's either a committed relationship or FAB, not possible for them to have both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here years but of late I’m really not engaging in it.

Not sure why but I literally can’t be motivated to meet anyone these days..

think I’ve had my fill of BS...

I have enjoyed the whole lifestyle in the past but it’s morphed into something else now. "

Same here. Been here some years but it's just not the same as it used to be. I find a lot of guys that are coming on don't understand what swinging is all about. O I'm slowly loosing interest having to deal with the rude arrogant people who just think they are sex gods lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

How are used this site during the time I've been on has changed massively, I used to meet offhere, but due to trying to make best use of my time, I only use it now to keep in touch with friends I've met in person and see what events and clubs to attend.

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By *ubiaWoman
over a year ago

Manchester/ Portugal


"I’ve chosen to be single for a while but have a massive sex drive so this is perfect. I’ve also discovered how much I love making groups of men extremely happy so it’s rather useful for that too.

Is the fun of the FAB life a choice because your not in a relationship or because you prefer it over a relationship? What if you could have both, in a swinger relationship where you can fully indulge and share your adventures with that person. Is that something that could work for you or are you purely monogomus when in a relationship?

Tell me to get lost if I'm being too nosey. It's just I get the impression for many that it's either a committed relationship or FAB, not possible for them to have both."

I’m living between two countries at the moment so don’t have the time and space to commit to someone emotionally. But that would be the ideal one day. To have someone who loves sharing me.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Long haul for both of us. We're old school swingers.

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