FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting separately

By *2trouble OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from"

Just be open. Have the power to "veto" if someone has a change of heart and isn't comfortable. Send your partner an "everything is ok" text shortly after you arrive at your destination so they don't worry. Debrief when you get home. Have reclamation sex! As always communication is key.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No we don't do it,but lots of couples do. But from what we see it's mainly the male half that meets. Very rare we see a post of a couple and it's the lady wanting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from"

Hey op. Yes I do. We have a couple's account and was playing together.. This is a new adventure for my husband and I. We spoke alot about it and considered all the possibilities of 1 or both not liking it etc.. it took us a while to decide to give it a go and see. So I made my singles account up and the rest is history. Only I meet my husband has no interest in meeting others alone (as of yet)

Make sure you talk about it thoroughly and be open and honest. If one of you are unsure then stop/don't do it.

It's very exciting though if you can

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By *2trouble OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We'd both be meeting separately. We have the fantasy of me (Ali) meeting a guy and telling Dan about it afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd both be meeting separately. We have the fantasy of me (Ali) meeting a guy and telling Dan about it afterwards"

If your both happy and comfortable with trying it then go for it. I was unsure at first but we tried.. we loved it.. so now he gets random photos and videos sent to him while he's at work

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By *2trouble OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

That's so hot, and just what we're thinking of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from"

Yes. My husband doesn’t meet at all, but I do.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from

Yes. My husband doesn’t meet at all, but I do. "

Snap!

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I admit I could be wrong lol

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

We have just started doing this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from"

Do it

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well if any of you wonderful ladies fancy joining a couple

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

My wife and I have almost always played that way, meeting separately. It's how we started out, attending parties where we'd each find someone to play with in different rooms.

We have no problem seeing each other being intimate with others, but just tend to seek out people separately. It doesn't seem a big deal to us.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have done unlike previous reply has said wife has had more solo meets, but only with guys I have met and can trust I have only met with one woman solo as not many will play with married guys, but I personally prefer playing with a woman with her partner watching a I know as well as giving the lady a good time. I know from personal experience watching wife with guys what a turn on it is

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

We do sometimes with updates every few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few ladies separately from their partner... always chat with the guy first to make sure he is happy and then she sends him updates and pictures of required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from"

We do from time to time, everything is agreed we before hand. For example If only oral is agreed then that’s all what the other one does.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

We certainly had a weird experience.

Got a message from the female half of a couple saying that she was looking for another woman for her husband to meet on his own.

They had verifications as a couple and had been on the site for a while.

We (all four) met for a social in a pub and agreed to proceed.

Beth then met him as agreed, a few days later, at their house whilst his wife was at work. All fine.

Then had a message on here the next day from his wife saying that he wouldn't be meeting anymore as they were splitting up as a couple and would be removing their profile.

What was all that about? Other than perhaps a last ditch attempt to save the relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife only meets separately all the time. As hubby isn't allowed to meet anyone. But it doesn't bother me. If she wants to bring a guy home any time thats fine too.

Its one sided but it works well for us. You do what feels right for you as a couple. Not knowing what your partner is doing with someone else and knowing he or she will fill you on their return is very exciting. Might not work for all but works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wife only meets separately all the time. As hubby isn't allowed to meet anyone. But it doesn't bother me. If she wants to bring a guy home any time thats fine too.

I guess if it genuinely works for you

Out of curiosity if at some point you decided that you would like to play with other women / people like your partner does would she allow it?

Cheers J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit I have fears with separate meets.

There are some unsavoury characters as horrid as it is to admit, and I do worry one of us will make a bad judgement call, and meet a wrong un. Someone who may become too clingy/ not respect our partner/ not respect our boundaries/ lie about events.

We don't live together so the "reclaim sex" is unable to happen, and that's something I believe to be incredibly important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I have been swinging together for around 9 years and said we would never meet separately. However kids and commitments make it almost impossible for us to get any time together these days. I've always enjoyed seeing my wife with other men, and suggested last year I'd be happy if she met up with someone. She said she would take it on board but is incredibly picky when it comes to finding a guy that pushes all her buttons. Around the same time she said she was happy for me to meet someone alone. I met up with a mutual female friend of ours, everything went fine no issues! Earlier this year we went to a club and she played with the male half of a couple whilst I watched. A month later I met another lady and had a great time, my wife didn't mind at all.

Then shortly after she went on a girls trip to London to watch Magic Mike. The following morning she called to say she had pulled that night, kissed someone and swapped numbers. We talked for ages and I said it was up to her what she wanted to do. That night she went to his hotel and they fucked.

Bit of a whirlwind but we are enjoying exploring our boundaries and finding out what we enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and hubby have both a cpl and single profiles on here.

Works for us

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By *its n cheekynessCouple
over a year ago

chorley

Miss N met someone on her own for a while. I found it very horny and loved her coming home to me.

We had met as a couple before and no issues but one night this particular person she had met on her own was invited to see us both i initially said no as i wasnt feeling overly confident about meeting with said person. I hated the meet. I cut the meet short and made it very awkward for all 3 of us(unintentionaly). Since then we only meet as a couple, as we do this for us both not just one of us. I feel bad because the guy seemed really nice and probably someone i would get on with. Maybe it would have turned out different if i was feeling extra confident that night?? Maybe if wed never met as a 3 things would be the same?

I guess my advice would be to try it!! You have to decide wether you like it as a couple or not though. If 1 likes it but the other doesnt then you dont try it again. Find what your both happy with. If one gives in and lets the other be selfish the relationship probably wont last.

Ps i still find the thought of it horny

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"No we don't do it,but lots of couples do. But from what we see it's mainly the male half that meets. Very rare we see a post of a couple and it's the lady wanting a meet "

As a hotwife it’s me that indulges not my husband

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"Hi, do any couples have experience of meeting separately? We fantasize about it and are considering it, but don't want to make a mistake we can go back from

This is excellent advice. The veto is really key in my experience and the other partner should 100% respect that decision!

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