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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can see a few people with the same I, I get guy after guy viewing my profile and fabbing my pics but very low messages from women or couples, am I doing something wrong? Any recommendations to change this would be appriciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've noted the other threads like this - you will have noticed that age is going to be one factor. Folks with children your age would not be looking to mix with people so young.

Patience, being proactive and using the chatrooms/forums to let folks get to know your personality will bring results - but time is your major resource here.

Let the connections develop - it's not "Inst-A-Shag" here, like some seem to think! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, makes sense. Fingers crossed lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Can see a few people with the same I, I get guy after guy viewing my profile and fabbing my pics but very low messages from women or couples, am I doing something wrong? Any recommendations to change this would be appriciated "

Why not use your filters to block single guys? Then they won't be bothering you.

You could look at some of the hundreds of profile advice threads for hot to make your profile more appealing. And maybe redo you photo's with a smile, a smiling face is officially 120% more attractive.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have blocked them and will do thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can see a few people with the same I, I get guy after guy viewing my profile and fabbing my pics but very low messages from women or couples, am I doing something wrong? Any recommendations to change this would be appriciated "

You’re just one of many guys.

That’s it.

You have to sell yourself & make an effort.

Just as you would make an effort in a job interview, or similar.

Give yourself a good description including all the relevant information such as what you like, what kind of person you seek, the experience you want, and lots of good photos.

May take a while, but you’ll suceed.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You've not asked for profile advice OP so I shan't offer any, but that is often where people look first before replying to, or sending a message, so make sure yours is the best it could possibly be - not only the text but the pics too - as has been suggested if you need advice search out some of the profile advice threads which offer very good generic advice, or take a look at other well verified single guys profiles for inspiration of what might work for you.

There are also any number of ways to approach the site, it doesn't have to just be about sending cold messages in the hope of getting a response, the forums/chat rooms are good ways to get to know people and get yourself known as has been said, or group socials and clubs are another way, so if you find one way isn't working for you, consider how you can change things so it does, or at least improves your experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, will do that. Very much appriciated

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Lol you ain’t the only one mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I noticed lol ??

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