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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it wet and treat it like a lollipop

D.

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By *iking-RaiderMan
over a year ago

suffolk

When a lady licks the tip. Jerks it and plays with the balls at the same time, that feels amazing

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think genuinely enjoying what you do, as well as remembering that (some) men like other areas getting attention is best.

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

Nice wet deep blowjob, one hand cupping my balls playing with them and wanking my thick shaft up and down whilst your toung rolls up and down my hard cock licking the head till I blow my hot tuck load of cum were ever you want it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m making notes. No one so far seems fussed about sucking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady has the good grace to do it, I’m not going to nit pick

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

Rarely ever cum from a bj. Need more practice ??

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Nice wet mouth around the knob sucking licking,also licking it up and down then sliding it down into your wet mouth

Should do for starters

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Nothing better than a sloppy bj deep throat hit the back n bounce back lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!"

Yeah sucking is good but a lot of guys say when girls suck often they do it too hard and get their teeth caught I tend to use sucking action with the tip against the roof of my mouth with my tongue pushing against it massaging it while I suck it makes it much easier creating a rhythm

Practice making clicking noises see the rhythm and movement your tongue is making it’s the same as that only slower I tend to spend a lot of time doing that and then wanking them with only my tongue flicking the end and circling the tip and then go in for a few deep throat strokes and then back to the tip, keeping it wet and then wanking them while I’m sucking on their balls and then repeat changing the rhythm and grip all the time soft grip hard grip two fingers gently on the end when a guy isn’t cut pulling his foreskin back and forth over the tip

Seems to get a lot of guys going as well there’s so many techniques but mixing them up and changing them and making them unpredictable is good most guys only like hard and fast when they’re about to explode and always after a guy has come keep going until he starts giggling and don’t stop that’s the creme de la creme, I’ve found most guys aren’t expecting that and discover a little mini mind blowing orgasm they’ve never experienced before

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston

When you feel that tell tale twitch make sure the cock is to one side of your mouth or you may Gag on a salty deposit x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a lady has the good grace to do it, I’m not going to nit pick "

You know me, put a bacon frazzle on it and I’m down there..

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

If I dip mine in g&t or vodka would I get more offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

Yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many uve met say 'i give the best bjs' ect ect, ive found them to be very much set in a standard and disappointing way that has perhaps worked for someone in the past... but not for me. The best ive had are those that are a little shy at first but those who read my responses and body, i like the treat it like a lollypop, lots of head play from light blows to kisses to hard sucks and pulling out out (like a lolly).

Dont get too obsessed with with how good you are as what works for one doesnt for another. My otherhalf gives them like a pornstar... this does nothing for me and has never made me cum, my xfwb was gentle unhurried and could make me cum in minutes.

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

Yes expert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!"

Why don’t we meet up and I’ll show you? And no I don’t mean practice on mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m making notes. No one so far seems fussed about sucking.."

Well I did say to treat it like a lollipop lick, suck, slurp and enjoy (if you are a person who has one suck of a lollipop and then crunch straight into it, then probably don’t treat it like a lollipop ) as for hands, If they are always busy, that improves BJs for me personally

D.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!

Why don’t we meet up and I’ll show you? And no I don’t mean practice on mine lol "

Well how would that work then?

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m making notes. No one so far seems fussed about sucking..

Well I did say to treat it like a lollipop lick, suck, slurp and enjoy (if you are a person who has one suck of a lollipop and then crunch straight into it, then probably don’t treat it like a lollipop ) as for hands, If they are always busy, that improves BJs for me personally

D."

Ah! I’m a cruncher. Crossed wires.

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By *eejayoMan
over a year ago

Redcar

I'll demonstrate on your husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m making notes. No one so far seems fussed about sucking..

Well I did say to treat it like a lollipop lick, suck, slurp and enjoy (if you are a person who has one suck of a lollipop and then crunch straight into it, then probably don’t treat it like a lollipop ) as for hands, If they are always busy, that improves BJs for me personally

D.

Ah! I’m a cruncher. Crossed wires."

probably best to ignore my tip

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who gives the best bj another guy or a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!

Why don’t we meet up and I’ll show you? And no I don’t mean practice on mine lol

Well how would that work then?"

Well, we could find a willing participant to join us and then I’ll show you how I do it, and then your turn to try it next. Back & forth?

I hear I’m pretty good... (just check my veri’s)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

I haven’t tried the hand thing, while only with coconut oil. Will give that a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ah! I’m a cruncher. Crossed wires."

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

I agree it definitely depends on the person.

I’m a huge fan of doing deep throat to guys, & have tended to do that with all guys. Until recently I learned not everyone like to tickle my tonsils! And some like it shallow with lots of licking & attention to the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull the foreskin back and lick the tip and around the head. When the guy starts to cum, keep gently sucking. The sensation is mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I agree it definitely depends on the person.

I’m a huge fan of doing deep throat to guys, & have tended to do that with all guys. Until recently I learned not everyone like to tickle my tonsils! And some like it shallow with lots of licking & attention to the head.

"

Agree, deepthroating makes me flop just doesnt do anything for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main tip i’d give is to actually suck it. A lot of women just put their mouths around and move up and down.

give it a real suck, try switching up between gently and hard and fast, see how he responds, and adjust what you’re doing to that. Slide it deepthroat and hold it there and gently rock your head back and forth, it’ll drive him wild

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I think in my experience i do a mixture of things. Not just 1 thing. Licking sucking caressing and not just the tip but balls gooch bum stomach every where. But the most important things are 1 to enjoy it and make that apparent and 2 read who u r with and their reactions as they are the best guide to see what they like and enjoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invert your lips do they wrap around your teeth. That way you won't scrape the cock against the teeth.

Do it from the side if jaw hurts.

Wet, very wet start of slow and build it. Use your tongue whilst the cock is trusting and role it around as it comes up or down. I do asking lightly suck the cock, throughout but not constant. I also use my hand for ease and again it's intermittent, not constant as I like to go deep.

Liking the area just under the balls and give the balls some attention. However having said all of the above every guy is different, they all like different things and it's best to just adapt to the individual. Most of all just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse all spelling or grammatical errors, that's super important lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine enthusiasm is always a good start

A women who can't seem to get enough always works - even if the technique isn't perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving the advice. Someone is going to enjoy me practicing on him..

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By *tunna13Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Loving the advice. Someone is going to enjoy me practicing on him.."
haha u can use me for practise

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

Great tip to be gentle to start, I find a lot of people are too rough....particularly pulliing the skin back too hard. I guess variety is key, lots of licking, behind balls, at the join, licking up and down shaft. It's not all about the sucking lol.

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

Oh yes and the people who genuinely enjoy it are by far the best....ladies that don't like cum are always on edge, its a bit off putting...

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while.

I haven’t tried the hand thing, while only with coconut oil. Will give that a go."

Hand thing 100% better than a bj in my opinion

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while.

I haven’t tried the hand thing, while only with coconut oil. Will give that a go."

The hand thing certainly works whilst sucking on the head.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!"

For me... a great blowjob is all about giving as much pleasure as possible for as long as possible. Keeping me on the edge of orgasm for ages will guarantee my enjoyment.

Technique wise, variety it good. Hands free seems to make the sensation more intensive. Use your hands to play with my balls, nipples, and arse instead.

Cal

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Blow nor suck and no teeth

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By *orkscouple2003Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

No biting, the wetter the better & dint be afraid to get as much as you can in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody's technique is different, every guy has different responses and dislikes/likes

Trick is to maintain eye contact and vary your technique accordingly, based on his response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while.

I haven’t tried the hand thing, while only with coconut oil. Will give that a go."

The hand thing is amazing.

I always do it, and it always gets a great response! Sometimes I do it with one hand whilst my mouth is on his cock also, sometimes I’ll incorporate the two.

Whoever you meet, is gonna have some fun with all these tips!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Thought this was going to be a new kind of tea bag...

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Main thing is to enjoy it! If a girl isn’t enjoying it nor are we! You can always tell if they ain’t!

Lickings good, balls shaft and especially the guitar string between foreskin and cock, very sensitive then alternate from licking to sucking with plenty of eye contact you can’t go wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a particular area of expertise for mrsalexi, and luckily for me which I get to enjoy most days as she loves to please! A finger up the bum is one of her little tricks as she works her magic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any of you lovely ladies want to practice I’m a willing volunteer xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Main thing is to enjoy it! If a girl isn’t enjoying it nor are we! You can always tell if they ain’t!

Lickings good, balls shaft and especially the guitar string between foreskin and cock, very sensitive then alternate from licking to sucking with plenty of eye contact you can’t go wrong!"

Oh I enjoy it. I’d just like to blow their mind..

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

Does sound amazing im jealous of anyone you meet

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Main thing is to enjoy it! If a girl isn’t enjoying it nor are we! You can always tell if they ain’t!

Lickings good, balls shaft and especially the guitar string between foreskin and cock, very sensitive then alternate from licking to sucking with plenty of eye contact you can’t go wrong!

Oh I enjoy it. I’d just like to blow their mind.."
follow lacey reds guide .... = ....sounds mind blowing

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By *odestyB007Woman
over a year ago

Winchester


"I think in my experience i do a mixture of things. Not just 1 thing. Licking sucking caressing and not just the tip but balls gooch bum stomach every where. But the most important things are 1 to enjoy it and make that apparent and 2 read who u r with and their reactions as they are the best guide to see what they like and enjoying"

Fully agree ??

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood


"Main thing is to enjoy it! If a girl isn’t enjoying it nor are we! You can always tell if they ain’t!

Lickings good, balls shaft and especially the guitar string between foreskin and cock, very sensitive then alternate from licking to sucking with plenty of eye contact you can’t go wrong!

Oh I enjoy it. I’d just like to blow their mind.."

Can always tell ones that don’t!

That half interested badly done wank into a slack open mouth does nothing for us

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Plenty of licking particularly around the base of the cock. Sucking and licking balls and wanking licking the length on both sides. If he curves then follow the direction of the curve. Lots of different positions and angles. A tongue near my bum always makes me shoot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet and deep. Tuck your thumbs into your palms to stop a gag reflex.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"When a lady licks the tip. Jerks it and plays with the balls at the same time, that feels amazing"

This with enthusiasm is all you need!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best thread so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral on the top with plenty of lube and a firm squeeze at the base works a treat for me squeeze to get hard relax the grip to go soft, building and teasing lovely. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!"

For me personally I love it soft, slow, and very sloppy.

I melt, moan and groan with ball play if done properly is the best thing for me sexually.

The most important thing is when she is enjoying it just as much if not more than me. So my advice is to enjoying it as much as possible and you'll find the best technique that works for you and him...

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I don’t think mine are that great. I don’t always suck. Is sucking important?

I like licking. And balls.

Do you have any tips for a great bj?

Not looking for offers of cocks to practice on, thank you!"

lots of licking here please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, enthusiasm is the best. Not exactly in the givers control, but I always have more fun when he's well endowed and can get a bit bored sucking smaller ones.

Also make some noise with all the sloppiness and if there's precum, make sure you get that around your mouth or some threads of it dangling off your chin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucker needs to be enjoying it, anything goes as long as that is true.

Eye contact is important too, as is a wandering tongue and ball play.

Personally im fond of a finger in the bum too

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Blowing is better than sucking

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"I think it depends on the person. When I'm with someone new I often try different things and ask them for feedback. Some like it really wet, some like it deep and rough, some like lots of licking round their balls, some like it concentrating more on the head. I think the most consistent thing seems to be that they enjoy watching it done enthusiastically haha.

A few things I like trying are:

-Starting super gentle and barely touching them with my mouth. Just gently brushing them with my tongue or taking the head in my mouth nut keeping it really wide and my tongue away so there isn't much contact. Often makes them desperate for you to do it properly.

- Getting my mouth really wet and sliding it up one side, over the top and down the other side. They seem to at least enjoy the visual!

-Spending ages swirling my tongue round the head or taking the head in my mouth and gently sucking it and rubbing it with my tongue before going back to taking the whole thing deep.

-Some like it if you get it really wet with spit or even spit straight on it then use your hands when its really slippery for a bit. I like using both hands and twisting them opposite ways one on top of the other or sliding continuously up with each hand and replacing each at the bottom each time it reaches the top of vice versa. It's fun to alternate between up for a while then down for a while."

She sounds like a BJ master.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact . A man needs to know that a woman is giving a bj because she loves it not because she feels she has too . So when a man looks down and sees his partner looking back at him with a glint in her eye , very sexy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow haha lucky guys youve been with haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main thing is enjoy what you are doing and listen to the bloke

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