FabSwingers.com forum: “Cheaters” chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Controversial one but - here’s a thread for all those that are on here in secret.

No judgement!

Drop in the thread so you can find others in the same situation as you...

Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago

Watford

Me ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would easily suck you all off if you where closer

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!"

As will this one no doubt ‘

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!

As will this one no doubt ‘ "

Probably because swinging is all about trust and respect and folks who cheat are clearly lacking in both.

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By *haverMan
over a year ago

bracknell

Lol

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Nice pics op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No judgement from me. I do feel sorry for folk who have to hide it tho. Must be crap living your life having to sneak around.

I’m really interested to know how many folk have tried to bring it up with their SO and who have just thought ‘bugger it’ and brought themselves on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, and it’s just my opinion and I’m not in any way trying to cause a row, I find the sneaking round part of the excitement.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Personally, and it’s just my opinion and I’m not in any way trying to cause a row, I find the sneaking round part of the excitement."

That’s cool. Didn’t mean it to sound shirty. Didn’t mean it like that at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I fall into this category. Individual reasons etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/05/19 13:31:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, and it’s just my opinion and I’m not in any way trying to cause a row, I find the sneaking round part of the excitement.

That’s cool. Didn’t mean it to sound shirty. Didn’t mean it like that at all xx"

I honestly didn’t take it like that at all lovely, It’s hard to get things across in the right way by text sometimes xxx

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx "

Hello to you miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in a relationship kinda he’s pulled the rug out and said we’re just friends, I’m still seeing him and chatting daily, it’s screwing with my head I’m not ready to put myself out there officially, he knows I’m on here I made the mistake before of taking myself off fab and even though I don’t cheat I still got screwed over and turns out he was on here regardless, I still live in hope of finding the perfect mix of sex and friendship that makes for a perfect monogamous relationship but even then I’ll arill keep my fab because I love the scene and the amazing people I’ve met and many of them like you are cheating on their partners and whilst that’s not for me I respect your choice, no one should feel any superiority over another persons life choices, for me a relationship is monogamous and even swingers who share all the details with each other in my eyes just isn’t for me but that’s what truly matters it’s not for ME doesn’t mean to say it’s not for you, some

People are happy to stay with someone they love without sex that’s their choice and some want to the love of that person but also need intimacy and seek that elsewhere, the world would truly be a boding place if everyone were the same. Fab is full of some of the most judgemental people I’ve ever met but it’s also got a helluva lot of really amazing people on it too, funny thing is most of the judge and jury kind of folks on here wouldn’t dare want anyone knowing they were swingers because the people they love and care about wouldn’t understand so to me it reminds me of projected guilt, the guilt they feel for lying to family and friends they pass onto others !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx

Hello to you miss "

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm cheating, I have my reasons but I'm not going to share them and I don't feel the need to justify myself.

Hi to all those in a similar situation and a even bigger hi to those that are happy to meet us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m cheating on God.

I’m actually a Catholic priest. Don’t tell anyone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m cheating on God.

I’m actually a Catholic priest. Don’t tell anyone though.

I’ve always fancied corrupting a nun or a priest .... think I’m too old and the wrong sex for a priest though

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I’m cheating on God.

I’m actually a Catholic priest. Don’t tell anyone though.

its fine just confess to yourself and do a fee hail mary's lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I’m cheating on God.

I’m actually a Catholic priest. Don’t tell anyone though.

I’ve always fancied corrupting a nun or a priest .... think I’m too old and the wrong sex for a priest though

nawty!!! but eerrrrrr you may be right at least on the wrong sex bit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only gay when there are no women around. Jeez, some people are so judgemental.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I cheated on my low carb diet over Easter

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I’m only gay when there are no women around. Jeez, some people are so judgemental. "

I know but its good fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only gay when there are no women around. Jeez, some people are so judgemental.

I know but its good fun lol

You’re telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m cheating on God.

I’m actually a Catholic priest. Don’t tell anyone though.

I’ve always fancied corrupting a nun or a priest .... think I’m too old and the wrong sex for a priest though

Haha

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By *elshmuzzyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Though I'm on here without her knowledge, I'm here out of curiosity and to stalk the forums only at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No judgement from me. I do feel sorry for folk who have to hide it tho. Must be crap living your life having to sneak around.

I’m really interested to know how many folk have tried to bring it up with their SO and who have just thought ‘bugger it’ and brought themselves on here

With my Ex husband I tried so hard for along time to fix things he just wasn't on the same page because in the 15yrs we were a couple he still saw himself as the same guy I met back then before kids ect still and that he didn't need to alter a, thing so I had to change everything about me that made me eventually I felt I was dieing so when I started taking steps to become the person I once was he didn't like it I discovered fabs tried to get him involved it wasn't happening

Eventually even after marriage counciling and trying to convince me I has postnatal depression

I eventually cheated even though I regret how, it all happend because I've got no defence to the outside world I'm the one who cheated I broke the marriage I don't regret ending things I'm much happier person

And now I'm back again not single but missed all the forums fun and games so only here for that

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

OK lets not turn this into a lets throw the cheaters in stocks type of thread, it is asking for like minded people to join in.

If you want to talk about cheaters and how wrong it is then start another thread rather than spoil this one for the people who want to make each other known

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

My cat doesn't know sm here s

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

everone be nj e to each other now and Remeber, Positivity, Positivity, Positivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to hell obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going to hell obviously

See you there, at least it’s warm and where all the fun people will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going to hell obviously

See you there, at least it’s warm and where all the fun people will be

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I’m with you ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im going to hell obviously

See you there, at least it’s warm and where all the fun people will be

I’m with you ladies x"

Come on down, plenty of room for all the naughty ladies ( and the odd hot gent) xxx

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By *enniEssexTV/TS
over a year ago

Thurrock area

I'm not cheating. She knows all about it and when I meet people. So I have permission to do it.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

Winchester

Technically I am a cheater. We all have our own stories and issues but tired of being judged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cat doesn't know sm here s"

Mine neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and generally prefer to meet married or attached women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cat doesn't know sm here s

Mine neither"

Neither of your cats know I'm here

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Yep my cats have just realised I am on here! Yikes that’s my cover blown! Boy if they tell the wife - (meowing is the lingua franca in my household so my wife will understand lol)!

I’ll be downgraded from Sheba to Whiskas for dinner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im joining the club for reasons I'm not about to broadcast but nice to see I'm not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cat doesn't know sm here s

Mine neither

Neither of your cats know I'm here

Or my hamster

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

Winchester

Has this forum been edited?

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

Winchester

"Has this forum been edited?"

Thank you x

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By *ohnnw1Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx "

Hello Lexi, I’m near you and cheating also, for various reasons xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!"

Cheating and swinging are two different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here looking for that elusive unicorn.

But until then I'm perving.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Everyone is here for their own reasons.

Judgement shouldn't be made. If you don't want to get involved then scroll on past.

Maybe I'm saying that as I'm in that situation but like I say reasons are personal to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I’m married and very happy but just can’t stay away from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you naughty little munchkins

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Think that's most men in here isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single (ish) however very much the other woman .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think that's most men in here isn't it "

Single Pringle here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, and it’s just my opinion and I’m not in any way trying to cause a row, I find the sneaking round part of the excitement."
lol

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By *letchMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Personally, and it’s just my opinion and I’m not in any way trying to cause a row, I find the sneaking round part of the excitement."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!

As will this one no doubt ‘

Probably because swinging is all about trust and respect and folks who cheat are clearly lacking in both."

Totally untrue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!

As will this one no doubt ‘

Probably because swinging is all about trust and respect and folks who cheat are clearly lacking in both.

Totally untrue!"

Agreed its untrue. So many people on here quick to ram their opinions down your throat

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I am perhaps one of the best people to comment on this subject. Nearly 10 years ago when I was married I was monogamous and totally faithful, he cheated on me and it was very very hurtful. I ended the marriage and then got into swinging and the rest is history.

I have slept with many married and attached men and have found that they're all wonderful lovers, great company and have reasons to cheat most of which go well beyond just sex, what's missing is passion in their lives.

I have no issues with married men in fact I really enjoy them. I don't envy the situation they are in having to sneak around and risk hurting both themselves and their families. But I also understand that all they want is passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think once you’re in this “scene” it’s hard to go back to a vanilla lifestyle. I was single when I first started here, and when I got in a relationship it all stopped. But I missed and craved it, till I eventually gave in and returned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No judgement from me. I do feel sorry for folk who have to hide it tho. Must be crap living your life having to sneak around.

I’m really interested to know how many folk have tried to bring it up with their SO and who have just thought ‘bugger it’ and brought themselves on here

PM sentx

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By *ake-my-assMan
over a year ago

southampton

We are all here for different reasons , not going into why I am posting on this thread

From Southampton so any ladies with a strapon message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think once you’re in this “scene” it’s hard to go back to a vanilla lifestyle. I was single when I first started here, and when I got in a relationship it all stopped. But I missed and craved it, till I eventually gave in and returned "
hubby is not here then, did he swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to hell too

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Im going to hell too

Always nice to have company on a long journey, may I join you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hubby, just boyfriend. No he doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am perhaps one of the best people to comment on this subject. Nearly 10 years ago when I was married I was monogamous and totally faithful, he cheated on me and it was very very hurtful. I ended the marriage and then got into swinging and the rest is history.

This rings a bell ! My Spidey suit helps me keep a low profile. Passion, excitement and feeling desired is what is lacking. I will keep trying but Fab helps scratch that itch. There is however too much judgement poured over us who choose to stray but that is life. I recieved a message back from a couple that read , ' i hope you get caught'. I thought that was quite nasty and uncalled for.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

Winchester

"Im going to hell too

I'll get the beers in.

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By *aughtyforcouplesMan
over a year ago

exeter

I am married and cheating and certainly not hiding from the fact. I live a very full and busy life but it is lacking passion and intimacy!

I have had the opportunity of a traditional affair but decided it was too much like cheating, i.e. building a relationship of sorts outside of my marriage. I used swingingheaven through out my twenties when I was a single chap but that site is very quiet now, so here I am on fab

I have the occasional meet now where I get to have fun without any emotional attachment. I am totally open about it with prospective meets some people its a flat no to a married, others its no problem at all, it works for me and I am not offended if it doesn't for others!

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By *ushtakerMan
over a year ago

Preston

Hey everyone

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating "

If he doesn't want you to meet single and married guys but you do I'd say yes it's cheating.

Can you not speak to him and add men to the couples and single women that he's ok with you meeting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating "
is he same age as you out of interest?

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating is he same age as you out of interest? "

No, some what older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here !

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating "

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating."

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women"

..but he doesn't know you're having sex with "single" men.

So you're cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet75 I would say yes you are cheating as you're going behind his back and keeping secrets from him. It sounds like you're breaking boundaries that you've both discussed and agreed with.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women"

Doing what you do is obviously entirely up to you and my view on marrieds playing away is it is up to them...but...does he not want you to sleep with men and why you don't tell him? If so then you are keeping something it from your husband then yes that is cheating

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

If he doesn't want you to meet single and married guys but you do I'd say yes it's cheating.

Can you not speak to him and add men to the couples and single women that he's ok with you meeting ?"

I think really he knows i do, and accepts it, he's aware that I visit my local swing club to meet my friends

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

If he doesn't want you to meet single and married guys but you do I'd say yes it's cheating.

Can you not speak to him and add men to the couples and single women that he's ok with you meeting ?

I think really he knows i do, and accepts it, he's aware that I visit my local swing club to meet my friends "

He doesn't know you do.

Because you haven't told him.

Because you're working outside of the agreement you have.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

I think it's more that I don't wanna rub salt in his already wounded male ego, he can't give me what i need and want

But yeah as I'm not been totally truthful with him then I suppose it is classified as cheating

But find me a couple that is 199% truthful to each other

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

I think it's more that I don't wanna rub salt in his already wounded male ego, he can't give me what i need and want

But yeah as I'm not been totally truthful with him then I suppose it is classified as cheating

But find me a couple that is 199% truthful to each other "

..we are. We've had an honesty rule since day 1.

All the ugly stuff, good stuff. everything. It's hard as hell, but we live by it.

We wouldn't be here without that trust and honesty.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

I think it's more that I don't wanna rub salt in his already wounded male ego, he can't give me what i need and want

But yeah as I'm not been totally truthful with him then I suppose it is classified as cheating

But find me a couple that is 199% truthful to each other

..we are. We've had an honesty rule since day 1.

All the ugly stuff, good stuff. everything. It's hard as hell, but we live by it.

We wouldn't be here without that trust and honesty."

Oh that's good you are

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over a year ago

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

I think it's more that I don't wanna rub salt in his already wounded male ego, he can't give me what i need and want

But yeah as I'm not been totally truthful with him then I suppose it is classified as cheating

But find me a couple that is 199% truthful to each other

..we are. We've had an honesty rule since day 1.

All the ugly stuff, good stuff. everything. It's hard as hell, but we live by it.

We wouldn't be here without that trust and honesty."

Absolutely! Same here.

My fella and I share everything. No secrets, no lies. It is very possible! And the only way for me personally.

I try not to judge those who do cheat though, I don't agree with it morally but is none of my business and I'm sure people have their reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's unfair to say find me a couple that is truthful just because you're not.

I've been with my partner for 10 years and there is nothing I would not tell him.

It sounds like you're feeling guilty about it and trying to get people to reassure you. But maybe he'd be understanding if you spoke to him about it. He's already happy to share you with other men in a couple situation, so maybe a solo session with a man wouldn't be as bad if you let him know it was purely just sex? It's up to you. But you are crossing a line at the moment and if you're happy to live like that then fair enough but don't let it mess with your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My penis needs sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My penis needs sucking "

If you suck all of the old bathwater out of my massive vag I'll suck your penis for 2 seconds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My penis needs sucking

If you suck all of the old bathwater out of my massive vag I'll suck your penis for 2 seconds? "

Deal young lady with nice tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My penis needs sucking

If you suck all of the old bathwater out of my massive vag I'll suck your penis for 2 seconds?

Deal young lady with nice tits"

I will meet you at 04:12am and we will get down to business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My penis needs sucking

If you suck all of the old bathwater out of my massive vag I'll suck your penis for 2 seconds?

Deal young lady with nice tits

I will meet you at 04:12am and we will get down to business

I sleep at that time sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep at that time sorry "

#rejection

#brokenhearted

#whyamicryingrn

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony "

Does your husband know?

That's the only definition you need to worry about.

What he knows about and is ok with, is fine

What you hide from him, is cheating.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony

Does your husband know?

That's the only definition you need to worry about.

What he knows about and is ok with, is fine

What you hide from him, is cheating."

He knows I go away with said couple,. And gets a full run down of my holiday

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony

Does your husband know?

That's the only definition you need to worry about.

What he knows about and is ok with, is fine

What you hide from him, is cheating.

He knows I go away with said couple,. And gets a full run down of my holiday "

Then you answered your own question.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"A woman posted a similar thread not long ago, it turned into the usual witch hunt sadly!

As will this one no doubt ‘

Probably because swinging is all about trust and respect and folks who cheat are clearly lacking in both.

Totally untrue!

Agreed its untrue. So many people on here quick to ram their opinions down your throat

So which bit of my statement is untrue? I'm sure the partners of those who are cheating would agree with my version of reality and not yours. It must be an awesome life living in cloud cuckoo land where vows and promises to a partner are so easily forgotten and thrown aside because you're feeling a little horny.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"I think it's unfair to say find me a couple that is truthful just because you're not.

I've been with my partner for 10 years and there is nothing I would not tell him.

I wasn't looking for reassurance,

Simply looking for another point of view. I know I can be selfish and spoilt and don't always see the whole picture, I see it and say it kinda girl

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"It's a bit of a fine line for me.

My hubby knows I'm on here. He knows I meet couples and ladies.

What he doesn't know is that I meet single or married men.

I don't want to rub salt in his wounds he can't perform any more, tried many different things to encourage it in the past yrs.

Gave up trying several yrs ago

I have needs ands wants let alone a fuck list

So am I cheating

Yes. You are. You're having sex with people behind his back. That's cheating.

Well I question it as he knows I have sex with couples and women

I think it's more that I don't wanna rub salt in his already wounded male ego, he can't give me what i need and want

But yeah as I'm not been totally truthful with him then I suppose it is classified as cheating

But find me a couple that is 199% truthful to each other "

I think you are clutching at straws there, not telling a husband that you are fucking men behind his back is not quite the same as saying you bought a bag for a fiver when really it was a tenner etc

I get where you are coming from though, if you think he would be upset and feel like you are rubbing his nose in it if you told him and that you think he has probably guessed anyway then it is a tough one, but it is still deceiving however you dress it up

If he knows you are going with couples then he must know anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony

Does your husband know?

That's the only definition you need to worry about.

What he knows about and is ok with, is fine

What you hide from him, is cheating."

Sweet75, I will suggest you read a very great write up on here about 3 weeks ago. Very similar to your situation and they got a brilliant solution. Very encouraging article.

I'll health and willy's my story

https//m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/894581

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat in a group setting with others . Message if you want details

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"I go on holiday with a couple so when I have sex down by the pool with the man of couple whilst she is in the villa, is that considered as me cheating..

She watches from the balcony

Does your husband know?

That's the only definition you need to worry about.

What he knows about and is ok with, is fine

What you hide from him, is cheating.

Sweet75, I will suggest you read a very great write up on here about 3 weeks ago. Very similar to your situation and they got a brilliant solution. Very encouraging article.

I'll health and willy's my story

https//m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/894581

Im not.about to go back tracking and search an effing story on here

Agree a handful of couples are 100% clear cut and truthful.

But in a man's world they all want need any cunt that is willing, simples

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx "

Well said ,

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By *aughtyguy81Man
over a year ago

folkestone

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've always been up front about the fact I play away

Happy to chat with likeminded friends

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Im going to hell obviously

You go to Heaven for the view, and Hell for the company.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like married ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you want me to drop?

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By *rloMarloMan
over a year ago

london

Not cheating. But no issue with those that are!

We’re all here to get our kicks at he end of the day!

Some lovely ladies in the thread too!

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough

"I’m cheating on my partner, I make it clear in my profile, say what you like about me, I’ve heard it all before, and no I don’t need advice on my marriage thank you!

Hello to all the other cheaters xxxx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cheating.I don't tell anyone I'm single.Its my choice I have fun so what's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello - yes cheating and open about it on my profile

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

People should live there own life and not judge others,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed how many people will brag about cheating and make no effort to sort their relationship out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazed how many people will brag about cheating and make no effort to sort their relationship out."

If you wish to judge this thread isnt for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated on my ex for ten years, but with same man who I am now engaged too, and on here, cheating for sex and cheating for love, two different things, but still no judgement here x

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I like married ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazed how many people will brag about cheating and make no effort to sort their relationship out."

Please see post above from mod.

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By *amsiMan
over a year ago

Hanworth

People have there reasons, my wife knows but doesn't choose to bring it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a massive fantasy about cheating but don't think i could ever do it

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’ve made no secret of my situation, and the world hasn’t ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheating is cheating, swinging is swinging, they are very different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheat. Im not proud of it but ive asked my other half to play and she just isnt interested. The pull of ns fun is just too much for me.

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

I like that your all honest that you cheat. And that's your business, what annoys me is when you have known singles for a while and then they get together as a couple on here. When they are married to other people, who don't have a clue!!! And jump in to couple relationships on here. Then write demands on their profile. Genuine couples only hahahaha.

Some people love the thrill of secrets but I think it's fair if every 1 is honest xx

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