FabSwingers.com forum: who's who?????

By *ifem and mike OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

we r just going to have a rant.the forum rules state you cant name and shame other members well that should change cause of a small number of people on here that are full of shit and we think that all others should know about these kind of people before they waste their time on them.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"we r just going to have a rant.the forum rules state you cant name and shame other members well that should change cause of a small number of people on here that are full of shit and we think that all others should know about these kind of people before they waste their time on them.

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liking scat isnt against the rules is it?

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish

Everytime i 'vent my feelings' i get a 24hr ban. As a result my 'feelings' don't get to be known to a bigger audience other than the forum police....but i know from where you're coming from.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

As im sure it has been said a hundred times over...

It is open to abuse!

He said...

She said...

Blah blah blah.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd like to be able to carry out petty arguments in the forums and waste our time with squabbles and things that, half the time, can't be proven anyway.

Pray tell, what makes someone "full of shit" anyway?

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By *ifem and mike OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

we r not asking for squabbles r things like that but some way to combat against fakes and non genuine people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime i 'vent my feelings' i get a 24hr ban. As a result my 'feelings' don't get to be known to a bigger audience other than the forum police....but i know from where you're coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually Im very capable of ing out the so called timewasters so vote against any action of naming and shaming them.

If you come across a genuine time waster just report the profile and if a pattern emerges admin will deal. They will of course just make a new profile, just like they do on all the other sites I have used over the years and seen no magical solution.

Its just not worth the stress worrying about things you cannot change but you can manage

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"we r not asking for squabbles r things like that but some way to combat against fakes and non genuine people "

there just isn't a way to do it....it's a case of - be glad that you haven't wasted your time meeting them as they're surely not the sort of people you want to spend your time with.

As frustrating as it is....naming and shaming wouldn't really help. It may let you vent a bit but as stated earlier, it would be too easy for people to abuse and badmouth others. Report them to admin and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we r not asking for squabbles r things like that but some way to combat against fakes and non genuine people "

you can combat against what you feel to be fakes and non genuine people by using the site facilities to their full extent i.e. advanced search options and mail filters.

add in common sense and good vetting procedures from yourself and you're sorted.

no need for name and shame at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we r not asking for squabbles r things like that but some way to combat against fakes and non genuine people "

You can combat the 'fakes' by reporting their profiles.

If naming a shaming was allowed then I could acuse you of messing us around, publically... you obviously know it's not true that you've messed us about (we haven't even spoke to you guys before lol), but there are people out their that love to bullshit ....they'll have a whale of a time filling the forums with their lies.

Concentrate on the ones that haven't messed you around

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

With your preferences being F & FF you will certainly encounter fakes and those that feel the need for you to be exceptional bearing in mind how many others they have to choose from.

It may be having messaged/texted/spoken to them that something rings alarm bells and they change their minds ?

Something to consider and there'd be difficulty putting it into some form of ration but contact 100 fems and 10 FF's if there's that many FF's on here how many would reply,find you suitable,find you both attractive etc.

A lot of ladies appear not to go for couples or at least there being a longer period of chatting and trust established. It seems more credible that they can do that in clubs and feel safer doing so.

Appreciate you wanting to vent your frustration but it's negative energy and not worthy of your time.

Metaphorically speaking, fuck 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually Im very capable of ing out the so called timewasters so vote against any action of naming and shaming them.

If you come across a genuine time waster just report the profile and if a pattern emerges admin will deal. They will of course just make a new profile, just like they dyo on all the other sites I have used over the years and seen no magical solution.

Its just not worth the stress worrying about things you cannot change but you can manage

Likewise. I've been on site three years. I've yet to encounter a timewaster.

I always meet socially first. If they can't talk on the phone, firm up a meet, its not going to happen. NO ONE is that hot to me that I'm going to say more than once "phone me/let's meet".

Some people are too eager to meet and ignore the warning signs.

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By *ifem and mike OP Couple
over a year ago

cork

thanks for all the feed back guys.suppose the thing is to learn from things and move on.happy out

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i want you to pay for turning up at my house pissed and smashing the front door in...you woke all the neighbours and there is a £300 bill for repairs...

see why it wouldnt work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks for all the feed back guys.suppose the thing is to learn from things and move on.happy out

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