FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics (being recognised)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I salute the bravery of people who show full face pics on their pages.

But don't you worry you will be recognised? Family, friends etc.

Or that someone (anyone) could save them?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

If you get recognised by friends or family then I'm sure they would either being it up or never say a word as they're on here too. Works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes for others it's the thrill of being recognised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get recognised by friends or family then I'm sure they would either being it up or never say a word as they're on here too. Works both ways. "

We're not so worried about people we know but those that know us and not like then use the pictures inappropriately. We have loads of pics we could share but most have our faces in

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

If recognised by someone it means there on here to so as were all here to have fun meet chat and share the lifestyle I can't see it being a prob if anything a positive.

Full face whilst up to something could get used I guess by others or crop up somewhere but then with the beautiful people on here I doubt mine wud be high on the list to be copied lol x

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By *orkscouple2003Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

"If you get recognised by friends or family then I'm sure they would either being it up or never say a word as they're on here too. Works both ways.

We're not so worried about people we know but those that know us and not like then use the pictures inappropriately. We have loads of pics we could share but most have our faces in "

This! We’re both quite open about what we do but would never want recognisable photos of us online, only needs one person you may have previously upset to stumble across them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think if a single person was outed on here then its not such a big deal. They are using a site for sex so not a huge thing these days. But for a couple to be outed then I think that would be a bigger thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get recognised by friends or family then I'm sure they would either being it up or never say a word as they're on here too. Works both ways.

We're not so worried about people we know but those that know us and not like then use the pictures inappropriately. We have loads of pics we could share but most have our faces in

This! We’re both quite open about what we do but would never want recognisable photos of us online, only needs one person you may have previously upset to stumble across them "
That would be a hate crime affence if someone used your pics against you! so glad these laws have been passed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly have face pictures up.

No I don’t worry, I’m self employed firstly, & I previously worked in the webcam industry so me showing my face on a site that’s meant for horny people isn’t something new to my friends or family!

I’ve been recognised on here several times and someone threatened to send print outs of my pictures to my neighbours, I said, go ahead, give them some free wank material, that would be a turn on.

They didn’t like my answer!

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By *ena_LjubovTV/TS
over a year ago

Cork

"I regularly have face pictures up.

I’ve been recognised on here several times and someone threatened to send print outs of my pictures to my neighbours, I said, go ahead, give them some free wank material, that would be a turn on.

They didn’t like my answer!

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Hahaha that's simply amazing.

I personally don't worry much for two reasons. It's a bit difficult to recognize me when I am all dolled up and the other reason is that almost all my family is in another country.

If someone does recognize me though (from friends or coworkers), I wouldn't care too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

News flash! Not everyone that can see your face pic is here for the same reason. Stop being so naive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether your recognised or you know of anyone it's a free world enjoy the site for its real reasons married single whatever its supposed to be fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annoying when you agree to swap face pics, you send yours and they don’t send one back. Especially if they are local.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's something I don't think about. Had a face pic since I first joined. As for been recognised. That's happened twice, buy actually in person. Neither said anything. One guy I hadn't seen in years. Other blocked me on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have half of my face on show.

I give zero fucks who sees it to be honest.

I don't have kids or close family and my friends / work collegues wouldn't be surprised.

I'm not on any other social media so I doubt anyone would try to out me in a malicious way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying when you agree to swap face pics, you send yours and they don’t send one back. Especially if they are local. "

Maybe recognised you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have half of my face on show.

I give zero fucks who sees it to be honest.

I don't have kids or close family and my friends / work collegues wouldn't be surprised.

I'm not on any other social media so I doubt anyone would try to out me in a malicious way.

Might be possible to work out who you are from pics, you look great in them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"News flash! Not everyone that can see your face pic is here for the same reason. Stop being so naive!!"

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My important people, know I am on here, so not a problem if anyone recognises me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have half of my face on show.

I give zero fucks who sees it to be honest.

I don't have kids or close family and my friends / work collegues wouldn't be surprised.

I'm not on any other social media so I doubt anyone would try to out me in a malicious way.

Might be possible to work out who you are from pics, you look great in them."

I look less great in real life

So maybe they would be fooled

I just don't care to be honest.

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By *oxtonMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Yorkshire

Life's too short to worry about being recognised on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My important people, know I am on here, so not a problem if anyone recognises me

How you bring that up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if I get recognised. I've got my face on profile and private pictures private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not like I am doing anything wrong, I have an alternative lifestyle if folkes have a problem with that then fair enough it's not my problem..I prefer to be discreet mainly for my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fucks given about being recognised.

We're not doing anything illegal and if anyone we know sees us on here they're on for similar. So not embarrassed and certainly not going to hide.

I (Mr) put my team right aboutball the myyths they were spouting about clubs, so they know I'm in the lifestyle. Was quite liberating to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to keep what I do private..... hence wouldn't display face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not alone in thinking it wiser to keep our real lives and fab separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone you knew spotted you theyre very unlikely going to mention it.

I've seen someone i used to be friends with from school on here, i didnt say anything and blocked him so he couldnt find me himself on his profile.

The chances of someone you know friend, relatives ect saying oh i saw you on fabswingers is very unlikely.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I'm not worried as I know I look different as a guy.

However I understand and share your concern OP. That is the reason I never ask for face pics from others. I can make my decision just based on the body pics (which is very important to me).

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove

We keep ours hidden! Not because we would scare people off

but simply as a way of maintaining our anonymity and ensuring our professional lives don’t cross with fab. We do share face pics when we are comfortable to do so. It’s a tricky one

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Why do something you’re ashamed of doing ?

I’m on here, I’m single and I’m not breaking any laws ..

Why go through life pretending otherwise..

You only live once ..

I send my face pic to anyone and don’t have a care in the world..

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Face pictures are kept strictly in the friend zone, and we use the same face images from our Facebook pages... that way we can claim we have been faked if we needed to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My important people, know I am on here, so not a problem if anyone recognises me

How you bring that up lol"

Just told em I joined a swingers site... Was no big deal tbh

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"My important people, know I am on here, so not a problem if anyone recognises me

How you bring that up lol

Just told em I joined a swingers site... Was no big deal tbh"

Exactly!!

It’s not the big deal people make out ..

Nobody really cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met quite a few people I know. However I never disclose that I know them and always protect their privacy.

They clearly don’t recognise me when dressed but I feel it adds to the excitement x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought that if my children ever found out about the kind of life we live, I'd be very open with them about it - I'd want them to know that there are different ways to have a relationship and enjoy sex.

I doubt anyone else in my family would be likely to stumble across this website, but again, if they did I'd be open about it. And as for friends, that would be no big deal, most of them wouldn't be surprised, let alone shocked.

We don't generally post very explicit photos of ourselves anyway, but if we do post anything more revealing, they will rarely contain our faces too.

V x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"I've always thought that if my children ever found out about the kind of life we live, I'd be very open with them about it - I'd want them to know that there are different ways to have a relationship and enjoy sex.

We don't generally post very explicit photos of ourselves anyway, but if we do post anything more revealing, they will rarely contain our faces too.

V x

Great attitude x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My concern is local , I don't send any face pics to a local town. The problem is if the woman/couple have set there location that you think is not local, when it is. A while ago I sent a face pic and was blocked, possibly a bit too local.... My partner never sends hers, shes very recognisable, I think if you're a woman you have to be more careful. Men are more likely to share/use there pics.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I had mine on show at first but then decided to hide them because of work. Theres only been one person that has messaged me (on here) saying that they've recognized me going passed where I work

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I recognised my cousin on here a couple of years ago (she’s not on now). She was so hot!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason for me not having face pics on display is due to work and my sexuality being outed. Closet bi, that is only out on fab. Fab is a very small part of my life and something I keep private.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We have no issues , we aren’t bothered who sees us, we both have “important jobs”. We get recognised all the time and its never been an issue . In fact it’s created some fun nights. Family and friends know what we do.

A lot of our pics do appear on other people’s profiles and on the internet but we have accepted that’s just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren’t hiding, we enjoy what we do, if we are recognised then we are recognised, we are all here to have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you really really really have a very important job or profile, who cares if you are seen on here. The people looking at you presumably have similar intentions, so what's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do something you’re ashamed of doing ?

I’m on here, I’m single and I’m not breaking any laws ..

Why go through life pretending otherwise..

You only live once ..

I send my face pic to anyone and don’t have a care in the world.."

It's not about being ashamed of what we do it's about some of us just wanting to be private.

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

When I lived in a small town, I kept my face off here... I still got recognised every now and then, but it was only from other lads on the site... but I did it because the gossip in the town was unreal... and I also worked a lot in the public eye...

I DJ’d in the only nightclub in town, and was well known in the local area for other jobs I did, so it made sense... small town, small minds, gossip etc...

Since moving to Manchester I’ve decided to show my face... I still DJ in clubs, and do other jobs in the public eye... but I feel like Manchester is a big enough place for nobody to give two hoots about me or anything I do... and there’s less need for gossip in such a big place... or at least, that’s my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I lived in a small town, I kept my face off here... I still got recognised every now and then, but it was only from other lads on the site... but I did it because the gossip in the town was unreal... and I also worked a lot in the public eye...

I DJ’d in the only nightclub in town, and was well known in the local area for other jobs I did, so it made sense... small town, small minds, gossip etc...

I totally get what your saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple two days ago recognise me in the gym jacuzzi, also another member in there. They recognised my tattoos so have made the pic friends only. Friday a patient of mine recognised me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple two days ago recognise me in the gym jacuzzi, also another member in there. They recognised my tattoos so have made the pic friends only. Friday a patient of mine recognised me.

Same here, tattoos can be a give away lol

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I dont think anyone who knows me in real life would recognise me as Clare so I don't worry about showing my face.Ive actually been into my ex-work place in Bridgnorth dressed up and wasn't recognised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes for others it's the thrill of being recognised"

We sometimes put ours public for this reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple two days ago recognise me in the gym jacuzzi, also another member in there. They recognised my tattoos so have made the pic friends only. Friday a patient of mine recognised me.

Same here, tattoos can be a give away lol"

It doesnt hugely bother me as most infact everyone ive met is respectful of privacy, saying that im not sure how well it would go down with certain professionals in my work place if it were common knowledge. Either way you have one life and im living it the way i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be transparent and have been uncomfortable telling lovely people that I don’t want to link on Facebook recently, but..

Vindictive ex

Children

Senior management role in a reasonably large team.

People’s indiscretion.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Been reconised by people we know, and other member but ohh well, we all here for the same thing so sure they wont say much if thats the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not worried if I'm recognised then I hope they say hi tgeve seen me maybe ill get to see them haha

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I used to have face pictures as public on here years ago when I was still a student but since getting into work I've made them private. Important family members and friends know but I really wouldn't want the risk of work finding out, not due to being ashamed but they all have the impression I'm a nice innocent girl and I'm happy to keep it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I salute the bravery of people who show full face pics on their pages.

But don't you worry you will be recognised? Family, friends etc.

Or that someone (anyone) could save them?"

Salute the bravery...LOL.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I like to be transparent and have been uncomfortable telling lovely people that I don’t want to link on Facebook recently, but..

Vindictive ex

Children

Senior management role in a reasonably large team.

People’s indiscretion."

Yup to all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to be transparent and have been uncomfortable telling lovely people that I don’t want to link on Facebook recently, but..

Vindictive ex

Children

Senior management role in a reasonably large team.

People’s indiscretion."

Agree wholeheartedly.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No face pics for me on here as I’m married. But, two people I’ve played with have appeared on my ‘people you may know’ list on Facebook, which is slightly concerning... especially as we’ve zero contact on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pics for me on here as I’m married. But, two people I’ve played with have appeared on my ‘people you may know’ list on Facebook, which is slightly concerning... especially as we’ve zero contact on Facebook. "

Did you swap phone numbers? Facebook uses your phone contacts whether you want it to or not.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

No. Nor WhatsApp, just Kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pictures are kept strictly in the friend zone, and we use the same face images from our Facebook pages... that way we can claim we have been faked if we needed to!"

People can reverse image search you and find you on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took one this morning and posted it public. Will set to private tomorrow. Love the thrill of being recognised.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would love someone to recognize me....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognised my cousin on here before. Have never said anything... but kinda want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Took one this morning and posted it public. Will set to private tomorrow. Love the thrill of being recognised.

It’s exciting and nervy lol

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I'd never put a face picture up. I'm not ashamed to be on here but I've children who are in their 20's who's friends could be on here (have seen one previously & blocked him).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been recognised before - despite our concerns it was actually a massive turn on !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I salute the bravery of people who show full face pics on their pages.

But don't you worry you will be recognised? Family, friends etc.

Or that someone (anyone) could save them?"

Its more an issue with work collogues or people who don't like you I would guess family or friends would block you or just keep quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised a couple from Suffolk... I don't like them...

Just as well I'm not malicious...

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By *ilky barkedMan
over a year ago

london

Iv recognised a couple of people. Now I know they are down for fun so it’s not to bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs MP gets recognised quite a bit, so far everyone has been respectful and discreet.

I saw someone from work. Neither said anything until recently, quite a while after he left.

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By *moelmoWoman
over a year ago

windsor

Mrs has been recognised quite a bit. From some one following her around town to taking pics of her shopping in Tesco. After that we took face pics down but we weren’t gonna let those people ruin this for us and re posted. Tho on the whole the people that have recognised us have been polite and sent a message a couple of hours later saying how hot she is in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you both had the Facebook app on your phones, then the app will use your phones locations to recognise that you were near one another.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Annoying when you agree to swap face pics, you send yours and they don’t send one back. Especially if they are local. "

That’s my personal hate too

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