FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swing??

By *hilandHolly OP Couple
over a year ago

Newark

Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

We are the same only want soft swap

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We do not mind either soft swap or full both fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only looking for soft swap to start with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me what is soft swap .is that like diving half of a hole .and I'm talking about a hole in the ground

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

"Can anyone tell me what is soft swap .is that like diving half of a hole .and I'm talking about a hole in the ground "

From what I know and it might not be loads on this subject, it's no full intercourse. So just hand, mouth touching etc x

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

If we do decide to swap, I think it would be soft, although blow jobs can be just as intimate as full penetration? No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done both full and soft. But still enjoy soft swap, not being able to do full swap is by no means a deal breaker for us, like it is for some. All about having fun within peoples boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still have soft swap fun with cpls who like soft fun. I don't think so that you have to do a hard swap.

It's fun at the end of the day you are looking for and we don't think that penetration is the ultimate fun.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We soft swap and Mrs Brum is 100% Bi

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "

You are certainly not alone in your preferences/boundaries. There are several threads on the Forum which may help you with your search. Maybe best to add your "definition " of soft swap to your profile?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can anyone tell me what is soft swap .is that like diving half of a hole .and I'm talking about a hole in the ground "

It's up to the individual but the common theme is no penetration .

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By *hilandHolly OP Couple
over a year ago

Newark

Soft swap in no intercourse but still oral touching etc etc

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We enjoy soft swap fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Soft swap in no intercourse but still oral touching etc etc "

In our case it isn't always oral. I don't like receiving although more than happy to give. In my opinion only its whatever the participants want it to be

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

Definitely soft swap for us, when we find a couple that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy soft swing, It can be very erotic and still keep that something for your own partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is soft swing? Please forgive my ignorance

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual."

Yes, quite a few guys are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"What is soft swing? Please forgive my ignorance "

The main feature is no penetration other than that it's agreed between the people participating. Some couples will have full sex with their own partners though.

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By *ubbles12312Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Were soft swap couple to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual.

Yes, quite a few guys are. "

It's something I enjoy. There's so much to enjoy without intercourse.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Pretty sure there are thousands of soft swap couples on here. Full swap couples should be able to play with soft swap couples too. You have to respect peoples boundaries. Also saves messing about with condoms

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By *athan7392Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Pretty sure there are thousands of soft swap couples on here. Full swap couples should be able to play with soft swap couples too. You have to respect peoples boundaries. Also saves messing about with condoms

Sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for soft swap couples, would be nice to meet up with a few

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Some of our best meets have been soft swap.

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By *toreflashCouple
over a year ago

northampton

We are strictly soft swap, soft and sensual is what we like and offer, leaving the ultimate for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy with either as its still exciting and fun. It's all in the definition of what is deemed soft we've found lots of different interpretations over the last 2 years from people. We never assume now we always have detailed conversations before we swing just so we don't push anyone's boundaries. It's about talking and everyone feeling comfortable also being honest. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must be very very soft then. No full sex, no oral sex. Just fingers and hands.

No complaints thus far....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual."

No I am fine with a soft swop twosome or even threesome, it's all about the giving for me, sometimes just a sexual hands massage is fun. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, not for us but do what makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly how we want to experience couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're happy to play soft or full swap, as it's been said by others before the most important that everyone should be comfortable in that certain situation then the fun is guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual."

I've done this before

I like being teased so it worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done both and found we actually prefer soft swing. We're both bi and for us, it just seems to work better when all participants can play in one big heap rather than pairing off for ultimate.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

"We must be very very soft then. No full sex, no oral sex. Just fingers and hands.

No complaints thus far...."

If we were to start then I'd want this, glad to know there's other's that do. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "

There are other couples and singles looking for the same thing. Majority are soft swingers. Go at your own pace, and only do what suits you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi I couple. We would like to meet bi couples for soft swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm into soft swing with couples. Had a couple of good experiences on here but difficult to find couples here in the south.

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

We are a pair of softies.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Your not alien, that's how we would describe ourselves too.

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By *ussygolightly888Couple
over a year ago

Luxulyan

Soft swing only for us too

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started out soft-swing only and still play that way with others occasionally. All group-sex is good!

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We are soft but have done full on occasions. However we have to be comfortable with the other people. Just had someone chat to us on here, have been on more then a year and did not know what it was.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual."

I have done so. It can be extremely erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to try a couple where it’s all in one bed pleasuring each other ... whats that called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever find singles into soft swap? I imagine that is very unusual.

Yes, quite a few guys are. "

yes i am one of those who only want soft swing

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We would love to try a couple where it’s all in one bed pleasuring each other ... whats that called? "

A foursome?!

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By *assionatelovers87Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Soft swing here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us two too

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By *ewcouple321Couple
over a year ago

teesside

Us two!!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We are soft but have done full on occasions. However we have to be comfortable with the other people. "

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By *andm300Man
over a year ago

guildford

We are soft swap only. We find in clubs that’s mostly what We see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with soft. The sensations from soft touch can be sublime! In my mind it can really help improve sensitivity and feeling. It's why I enjoy giving and receiving erotic massages.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We love soft swap, some of our most fun meets have been soft swap and always happy to play within those boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love soft swap, some of our most fun meets have been soft swap and always happy to play within those boundaries."

Same for us

Never liked the term “only soft swap” many soft swapmeet has been far more fun than full swap, it’s just a different type of play, with us if it’s mutual, equal and fair play it’s all cool xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had soft swing with several couples ,can be very erotic ,plus no pressures for anyone .

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft. "

How is this progression??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.

How is this progression?? "

Actually experienced soft swappers seem to have far more imagination, appreciation of others and desire for mutual pleasure versus some full swappers with little imagination just swapping partners to fulfil a selfish desire, so maybe it is a progression, all of our soft swap meets have left us smiling and saying that was fun, not all our full swap have.....

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.

How is this progression??

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Are we alien? Are we the only soft swap couple (apart from one couple we’ve already met) on here? Would love to meet other soft swap couples if anymore exist.. "

We’re happy with both soft swap and full swap, it’s getting couples to actually meet is the hard part lol. We’ve given up and just go to clubs now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love soft swap here. Definitely not aliens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to meet a couple in the south who are up for some soft swing fun with an older man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft cpl here in Kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has to do as they want swinging is not to be like sheep and follow all swinging is about what you want and how you want it ..never feel pressured to do what you don't what or you'll take the fun out for yourselves.

our first couple meets over 20 years ago was soft meets with a fantastic dow to earth couple who put us on the right road they said never listen and do what other want always do what you want and there are no rules in swinging bar one and that's the word no..... no one knows yourseleves better than you do ...don't follow the sheep follow yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

opps crap grammar how ever did I get my job lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.

How is this progression?? "

I'd forgotten about this thread and my response.

It's a progression along our particular swinging route. Progress as in moving forward to what suits us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you're not. We started out as full swap but for various reasons progressed to soft.

How is this progression??

^^ This 100% x

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're very soft here

We have no intention of ever full swapping and we're clear about that early on when we chat with people who like to soft and full swap. It's not been a deal breaker yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The thing about swinging is (and I think someone has said this further up) that nobody is better than anyone else because of the way they go about things. The person who meets just to watch other people without even touching is no better or worse than the person who is involved in multiple gang bangs weekly. It's an inclusive sport to my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing about swinging is (and I think someone has said this further up) that nobody is better than anyone else because of the way they go about things. The person who meets just to watch other people without even touching is no better or worse than the person who is involved in multiple gang bangs weekly. It's an inclusive sport to my mind"

Very true we are all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many nice understanding,thinking people on this thread !

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

I'm a soft swap guy, I know some find it strange but it just removes the pressure to perform. I love to kiss and use my tongue and fingers.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We enjoy soft swap, sometimes makes the experience better far more communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swing only Plenty of fun to be had in other ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many soft swap couples on Fab. There are also many definitions of soft swap. We are always clear on what ours are.

What we have come across unfortunately is couples agreeing to our boundaries then trying to move them during a meet. This has been both the male and female.

Disappointing and disrespectful and we never meet them again.

Neither couple are on our veri’s btw!

Miss V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a soft meet, plenty of naked games to play lol

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By *icvon 69Man
over a year ago

glossop

We would love same room sex with other couples as it would be first time but on here people only want to know if you do swap soft or full we have to start somewhere then it might move on to soft and so on. finding a couple is very difficult ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would love same room sex with other couples as it would be first time but on here people only want to know if you do swap soft or full we have to start somewhere then it might move on to soft and so on. finding a couple is very difficult ??"

Nothing wrong with that it's how we started 2 years ago and we still do the voyeur meet sometimes. It's the variety of meets which stimulate us as much as the variety of respectful people we meet. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer soft swing, at the very least until we know the people enough to consider them friends.

Then it may change.

But on the whole. Soft swing is our choice

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I think there is more soft swap couples than you think.

We do soft and full or hubby happy to sit and watch

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We're as soft as it gets !!

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By *rant4Man
over a year ago

South Wales & London

I'm willing to do just soft swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're as soft as it gets !!"

What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fella and I are a soft swing couple

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

"We're as soft as it gets !!

What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x "

Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're as soft as it gets !!

What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x

Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate

Still not soft swing, just causes confusion...

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By *irty workmanMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

As a single guy I love soft swap with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a lot of newbies I imagine, we're looking for a soft swing to start

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

We love to soft swap it's great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap, always have fun as long as everyone is aware of each others boundaries then its all good,

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

"We're as soft as it gets !!

What you like is not soft swing at all, it’s voyeurism, this is why confusion reigns, soft swing is swapping partners but no penetration, watching others in the same room is voyeurism x

Voyeurism plus the ladies playing with each other, to be accurate

Still not soft swing, just causes confusion...

That's why we avoid confusion by making things very clear on our profile.

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

We are trying to find a soft swap couple certainly proving hard work ??

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By *erigregCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We have been soft swap for many years. Had loads of fun met lots of lovely people.

Had mind blowing nights/weekends and even

met single guys for 3 some fun that have respected our limits. Been very close to

the limits but overall everybody has had a very erotic experience and believe it or not still in touch with many of the folks we have met.

Full on sex is great with you partner but many erotic experiences can be had on a soft swing basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing can be fun, sex is great but flirting and touching can be a really big turn on.

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