FabSwingers.com forum: Edging and ruined orgasms

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love edging a guy or giving a ruined orgasm, I have quite a sadistic side, having someone tied up just relentlessly teasing them, watching them wriggle as they can’t control themselves

would love to find a willing female to do it with

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

"I absolutely love edging a guy or giving a ruined orgasm, I have quite a sadistic side, having someone tied up just relentlessly teasing them, watching them wriggle as they can’t control themselves

would love to find a willing female to do it with

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I only ever get ruined orgasms , lots of edging though

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

A ruin is where you basically stop wanking just as you hit the vinegar stroke. It gives the release but not the euphoria.

But, it also allows for a fast recovery. I suspect many repeat performers use this technique

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"A ruin is where you basically stop wanking just as you hit the vinegar stroke. It gives the release but not the euphoria.

But, it also allows for a fast recovery. I suspect many repeat performers use this technique "

Thank you, that's really informative and helpful

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective? "

Well depending how long you can edge for you get a more intense orgasm, more powerful shooting and more cum - well that’s my experience of edging myself and doing it to other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!"

Can you edge even when caged? Or is edging always physical?

I don't understand how the ruined orgasm works, I can't get my head round it. It sounds (to me) the same as edging and not cumming.

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

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"So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!

Can you edge even when caged? Or is edging always physical?

I don't understand how the ruined orgasm works, I can't get my head round it. It sounds (to me) the same as edging and not cumming. "
my cage has bars so I can sort of edge it . Ruined orgasm very frustrating , you shoot cum but don’t get the orgasm completion and then you get a huge kind of disappointment after

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!

Can you edge even when caged? Or is edging always physical?

I don't understand how the ruined orgasm works, I can't get my head round it. It sounds (to me) the same as edging and not cumming. my cage has bars so I can sort of edge it . Ruined orgasm very frustrating , you shoot cum but don’t get the orgasm completion and then you get a huge kind of disappointment after "

Sorry, I'm not seeing the plus points of a ruined orgasm sexually here, unless it's just in a cuck situation?

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

"So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!

Can you edge even when caged? Or is edging always physical?

Sorry, I'm not seeing the plus points of a ruined orgasm sexually here, unless it's just in a cuck situation? "
it’s not supposed to have an enjoyable side , it is a cuck sub thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective? "

Edging give a much more powerful orgasm.

In my opinion ruined orgasms is more about control.

I have done edging with a few guys & honestly it’s such a horny experience how sensitive they get, watching them get to the height of pleasure then stop!

I’m submissive usually but I absolutely love to tease and do edging on guys!

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective?

Edging give a much more powerful orgasm.

In my opinion ruined orgasms is more about control.

I have done edging with a few guys & honestly it’s such a horny experience how sensitive they get, watching them get to the height of pleasure then stop!

I’m submissive usually but I absolutely love to tease and do edging on guys!

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I get addicted to being edged I love the building up and letting down , iv even begged not to be allowed to cum

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective? "

You’ve obviously never been edged then

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective?

Edging give a much more powerful orgasm.

In my opinion ruined orgasms is more about control.

I have done edging with a few guys & honestly it’s such a horny experience how sensitive they get, watching them get to the height of pleasure then stop!

I’m submissive usually but I absolutely love to tease and do edging on guys!

I get addicted to being edged I love the building up and letting down , iv even begged not to be allowed to cum "

I edged a guy once for hours and he was begging to be allowed to cum - he managed to do it with no hands and by flexing his cocky so that it bobbed up and down and then his load just shot out - very horny to watch

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm looking for a nofapper who comes to me for edging and release

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Edging is hands down my favourite thing in the world. Not even breathplay comes close.

For me, it’s all part of orgasm control as a package, in with denial, counted down orgasms, training to a key word and forced orgasms.

There’s no better way to develop the sub/Dom dynamic in my book. When your orgasm is controlled, you are very neatly controlled too. Some of my favourite partners have known that pleasure is a far more effective tool to break someone than pain. After being edged continuously for several hours until I’m practically gibbering for an orgasm only to be forced to cum over and over in a super-intense orgasm for another half an hour or so...that does break something inside you in the best way

Plus, ruined orgasms suck. To get so close for so long and then have only a measly trickle of pleasure because you just couldn’t hold it anymore is devastating and a let down.

Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Edging is hands down my favourite thing in the world. Not even breathplay comes close.

For me, it’s all part of orgasm control as a package, in with denial, counted down orgasms, training to a key word and forced orgasms.

Plus, ruined orgasms suck. To get so close for so long and then have only a measly trickle of pleasure because you just couldn’t hold it anymore is devastating and a let down.

Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

A girl after my own heart

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

As part of our girlfriend single account (CuriousVixen) she will cage me and edge and ruin over and over for weeks... it’s torture, but the final release is outstanding

So, yeah, she might like some more techniques still

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

"Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

As part of our girlfriend single account (CuriousVixen) she will cage me and edge and ruin over and over for weeks... it’s torture, but the final release is outstanding

So, yeah, she might like some more techniques still

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you get a full orgasm ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

All of the times I've waxed lyrically to you about edging S. Wasted.

I'll send you some videos.

I don't really do it in terms of a Dom/sub thing but more for the pleasure of doing something with someone rather than to someone, if that makes sense?

One benefit of edging would be it focuses both parties on a body's response; you learn to really tune in to each other and pick up the minutaie which indicate when someone is about to orgasm. Solo edging encourages you to be more actively aware of your body as well - if you learn how to truly give yourself pleasure, that can only be a good thing.

It also encourages mindfulness - you can truly switch off and focus on the there and now and you can let go of any daft worries about your body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of the times I've waxed lyrically to you about edging S. Wasted.

I'll send you some videos.

I don't really do it in terms of a Dom/sub thing but more for the pleasure of doing something with someone rather than to someone, if that makes sense?

It also encourages mindfulness - you can truly switch off and focus on the there and now and you can let go of any daft worries about your body.

Very in depth and philosophical view. Sound like an expert

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By *r MatlockMan
over a year ago

Stratford-upon-Avon

Genuinely love nothing more than a long, intense edging session, 2-3 hours minimum, kept hard throughout, preferably fully restrained and done by someone else but also adore being made to do it for someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been introduced to this pleasure by my sometimes Dom playmate, I've been missing out nothing better than being edged for ages feels unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edging is amazing

makes for a far better orgasm

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get edging.

Can someone explain if and how a woman has a ruined orgasm

Mine are usually ruined by one of my kids shouting in their sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a few things about this and a few videos but I'm a little in the dark as to the actual benefits of this practise, if there are any or if its just about the sensation and frustration.

Can anyone help to shed a little light on this, both from a male and female perspective?

Edging give a much more powerful orgasm.

In my opinion ruined orgasms is more about control.

I have done edging with a few guys & honestly it’s such a horny experience how sensitive they get, watching them get to the height of pleasure then stop!

I’m submissive usually but I absolutely love to tease and do edging on guys!

I get addicted to being edged I love the building up and letting down , iv even begged not to be allowed to cum

I've done that too.

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By *arried Bi KinksterMan
over a year ago

North West

So much fun to be had with this, I love being edged, timed, ruined etc it’s all so good. I enjoy not having any control over my cock and the pleasure, frustration that cums (or not) with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to find a willing female to do it with

Good lord

that's my idea of heaven! Or hell... Not sure which

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I had an edging session with a guy recently where I was in control. He loved the intensity of being just one stroke away from shooting over and over again. His cock was straining and throbbing and when I finally allowed him to cum the spunk flew everywhere. Very horny experience for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves this kind of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edging is amazing

makes for a far better orgasm

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This wouldn't work over an extended period for me. If I get aroused but no relief through ejaculation my balls ache painfully. No fun at all....

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"This wouldn't work over an extended period for me. If I get aroused but no relief through ejaculation my balls ache painfully. No fun at all...."

Def not for u then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id totally love to be edged and edged by a lady.

Mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to find a willing female to do it with

Mmmmmm very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy watching ruined orgasms followed by boost orgasm torture vids, girl wanks the guy really hard after just cumming - the guy is tied to something and can't escape, sounds like agony but I kind of want it doing to me!

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I've edged myself and thoroughly enjoyed it. Yet to be edged by someone else but looking forward to the experience.

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I love being edged. Unfortunately, I haven’t had a fwb to edge me for a couple of years, so the only edging has been to myself, which is nowhere near as good.

I love feeling of a partner who is sufficiently in tune with me to control and repeatedly deny my cumming, building it up to an explosive load when eventually allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy edging, sometimes do it for a week and then when i finally release its so much more intense and i tend to cum significantly heavier than usually

Give it a go

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"So... as an adult, you now have access to your cock and can wank whenever you want. It’s human nature to get bored of what you have, and to desire that something out of reach

You’ve also ejaculated so know what that feels like, always good, but a bit the same

Now, as we play with Cuckolding occasionally, imaging being caged... now you can’t wank, or get hard, or orgasm

So the desire is building

Now imagine being edged, but not allowed to cum, the desire and need builds and builds!!!

To the point once you get that orgasm days or weeks later it feels fucking amazing, ten times better than your average load shot!"

Absolutely this x

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm looking for a nofapper , any interested genuine attractive masculine men under 50 plz contact me for a chat

Leah

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I enjoy edging, sometimes do it for a week and then when i finally release its so much more intense and i tend to cum significantly heavier than usually

Give it a go"

Mmmm very horny - met another guy who wanted an edging session recently. I brought him very close time after time until he couldn’t stand it any longer

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I enjoy watching ruined orgasms followed by boost orgasm torture vids, girl wanks the guy really hard after just cumming - the guy is tied to something and can't escape, sounds like agony but I kind of want it doing to me!"

Did this to a couple of guys, I gave them multiple orgasms, I just kept riding them.

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

Edging really is fantastic

Can work on the ladies too

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"All of the times I've waxed lyrically to you about edging S. Wasted.

I'll send you some videos.

I don't really do it in terms of a Dom/sub thing but more for the pleasure of doing something with someone rather than to someone, if that makes sense?

It also encourages mindfulness - you can truly switch off and focus on the there and now and you can let go of any daft worries about your body.

Totally this! Ive only just got round to reading this thread, but you've so hit the mark from my prospective. It's exactly what I've had, from the experience (only occasional though, due i think to the other person not understanding what it is really about) and expect from the scenario.

Maybe we can meet up some time, if I'm up north or your downs south. i think it could be a very pleasurable experience, I'm more than happy to return the favor, teasing you to the "edge of insanity point" and enjoying watching your every reaction on the way, if you into that?

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By *urhamStagMan
over a year ago

Durham

"Edging is hands down my favourite thing in the world. Not even breathplay comes close.

For me, it’s all part of orgasm control as a package, in with denial, counted down orgasms, training to a key word and forced orgasms.

Plus, ruined orgasms suck. To get so close for so long and then have only a measly trickle of pleasure because you just couldn’t hold it anymore is devastating and a let down.

Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

Totally agree,

My wife and I switch, but she is usually the one controlling me.

She has kept me caged for a month and edged daily using her wand on the cage and/or prostate stimulation.

When she finally uncaged me and tied me down I came for nearly 5 minutes, our record is 6 ruined in a row with a final finish

When I’ve been the top I’ve kept her on the edge for nearly an hour and then forced her to cum until she safe worded. Lost count of numbers of o’s around 20.

N x

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

"Edging is hands down my favourite thing in the world. Not even breathplay comes close.

For me, it’s all part of orgasm control as a package, in with denial, counted down orgasms, training to a key word and forced orgasms.

Plus, ruined orgasms suck. To get so close for so long and then have only a measly trickle of pleasure because you just couldn’t hold it anymore is devastating and a let down.

Any resources you want me to put you onto, just shout

Totally agree,

My wife and I switch, but she is usually the one controlling me.

She has kept me caged for a month and edged daily using her wand on the cage and/or prostate stimulation.

When she finally uncaged me and tied me down I came for nearly 5 minutes, our record is 6 ruined in a row with a final finish

When I’ve been the top I’ve kept her on the edge for nearly an hour and then forced her to cum until she safe worded. Lost count of numbers of o’s around 20.

N x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Edging really is fantastic

Can work on the ladies too

It does!

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