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Does anyone put real effort in??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the mood to be picked up at bar flirted with teased and no doubt end up at hotel

Am I asking too much on here for someone to put that level of fun and effort in to a meet ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you will soon find out that you're not asking too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame I’m miles away this evening ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"In the mood to be picked up at bar flirted with teased and no doubt end up at hotel

Am I asking too much on here for someone to put that level of fun and effort in to a meet ?? "

It's possible. It's often hard work to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men do put the effort in at social meets, hotel booking maybe a bit much to ask on a first meet. You will be inundated with offers any way. Have fun OP

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Your meet is asking for a female , do females generally meet and flirt at a bar in a hotel ? Yes but not very often.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?"

She didn't say that her meet had to pay for everything.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I try to make my first meetings low effort and low cost. Coffee or similar at a mutually convenient location. I do still make an effort with my appearance, I suspect more than most guys will (and tbh I think most guys take it as read that we will put in a huge effort). But I can't be doing with high stakes first meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to make my first meetings low effort and low cost. Coffee or similar at a mutually convenient location. I do still make an effort with my appearance, I suspect more than most guys will (and tbh I think most guys take it as read that we will put in a huge effort). But I can't be doing with high stakes first meets. "

Wise words and it's what I do ??

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?"

Hey Byron can't msg you directly lol

I'd gladly go 50/50 on the hotel and meal, could sort you a few drinks and also throw in a proper seriously good full body massage with the happy ending unless you were up for a MMF 3sum

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Hey Byron can't msg you directly lol

I'd gladly go 50/50 on the hotel and meal, could sort you a few drinks and also throw in a proper seriously good full body massage with the happy ending unless you were up for a MMF 3sum "

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent


"In the mood to be picked up at bar flirted with teased and no doubt end up at hotel

Am I asking too much on here for someone to put that level of fun and effort in to a meet ?? "

No, you’re not asking too much. Plenty of single guys on here to oblige.

If you are worth it, then they should put out. Especially if you are a Unicorn. Don’t lower your standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Hey Byron can't msg you directly lol

I'd gladly go 50/50 on the hotel and meal, could sort you a few drinks and also throw in a proper seriously good full body massage with the happy ending unless you were up for a MMF 3sum "

teehee, I can't say that I'm not tempted. Who's the female to be in the mmf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to meet someone for a drink first - I can’t just walk in drop pants, do the dance and leave... that’s weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

She didn't say that her meet had to pay for everything. "

He didn't say she did. That's just what else he is after.

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Hey Byron can't msg you directly lol

I'd gladly go 50/50 on the hotel and meal, could sort you a few drinks and also throw in a proper seriously good full body massage with the happy ending unless you were up for a MMF 3sum

teehee, I can't say that I'm not tempted. Who's the female to be in the mmf? "

Change your setting so we can msg directly

I don't want the whole of fab knowing haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Hey Byron can't msg you directly lol

I'd gladly go 50/50 on the hotel and meal, could sort you a few drinks and also throw in a proper seriously good full body massage with the happy ending unless you were up for a MMF 3sum

teehee, I can't say that I'm not tempted. Who's the female to be in the mmf?

Change your setting so we can msg directly

I don't want the whole of fab knowing haha "

I'm an ardent participator in voyeurism

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Good point "

Completely missed the point fab damaged gents hotel all booked and paid for the effort part is a bit of old fashioned flirting instead of hi I’m ?? Let’s fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your meet is asking for a female , do females generally meet and flirt at a bar in a hotel ? Yes but not very often. "

Exactly seems the guys on here are taking it very personally bless

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That would be nice, who's willing to do the same with me? I'd like free drinks all night, and possibly a meal. You can pay for the hotel also.

Any offers?

Good point

Completely missed the point fab damaged gents hotel all booked and paid for the effort part is a bit of old fashioned flirting instead of hi I’m ?? Let’s fuck "

Still hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that was a standard thing...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"In the mood to be picked up at bar flirted with teased and no doubt end up at hotel

Am I asking too much on here for someone to put that level of fun and effort in to a meet ?? "

If they’re not willing to put the effort in then maybe it’s not for the best anyway

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By *oLetDownTryMeMan
over a year ago

enfield

Not asking too much at all. Different fella have different motives from this site. Some just want quick fun, some wanna make friends and have a laugh and night of it

Shame your so far away x

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