FabSwingers.com forum: Heartbreak

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So after a bit of heartbreak and a few weeks of upset and crying I am now single and no longer in a relationship

it's been really hard so far and the loneliness has been unbearable, I am hoping you all may have some advice to help me through this difficult point in my life, anything would be appreciated. Thanks in advance x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Cliche, but time does heal x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cliche, but time does heal x"

Yeah Ive been told to give it time, its just upsetting still especially when the house is empty, I need to try and get my mind off it and keep myself busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distract yourself...one day you'll wake up and it won't be the first thing you think of.

Hope your heart heals soon!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Get off here and get on Tinder, Bumble or match and start chatting and getting to know some ladies ..

This place is no good for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and keep yourself busy. Time is a good healer

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hugs, OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have mentioned, distraction is essential. Hit the squash court. Read some classics. Get out on the town with your friends. Learn to cook. Binge some series on Netflix etc.

Just make sure that you don’t head down the drink/drugs route. It’s a negative distraction technique.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Get a cat

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Go on a holiday do a city break

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice everyone, it all honestly helps x

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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Allow yourself a set amount of time each day to be sad. Wait until said set time. Keep yourself busy gym, cooking and learning all really helped me when my ex fiancé broke up with me.

But seriously just set 15 minutes aside to feel sad.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Don't rush into anything just to try and fill the void your feeling right now as you may end up regretting doing it, try keeping busy, do work in the house, go to the gym, bit of overtime at work, see family and friends and most of all talk to people even if you think your like a broken record, they won't mind you talking to them

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Get off here and get on Tinder, Bumble or match and start chatting and getting to know some ladies ..

This place is no good for you x"

Have to disagree never met anyone worth knowing on match (that’s £150 I’ll never get back) or tinder, lots of time wasters though. Maybe the guys have more fun on there and fab is better for the ladies

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By *weet Treat 69Couple
over a year ago

North Wales area

Take time for yourself, do the things that you've not been able to do. Like the guys said plan a holiday with your mates.

Take up sport or boxing something to take your frustration out on. Just don't jump into anything too fast and have a rebound relationship, I've been there trust me.

fresh start new chapter xoxo

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