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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just fell across a Male fabbers dating profile. I’m not completely sure of the etiquette. Do I approach him on there and try and slut shame him into having sex with me, or approach him on here? It’s a delicate negotiation. I don’t want to mess it up. Advice appreciated.

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By *r_WeimaranerMan
over a year ago

Swaythling, Southampton

I've done that top!

And on Facebook also.

I usually just message saying something like:

"Great photo. You look "Fab" ??"

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"I've done that top!

And on Facebook also.

I usually just message saying something like:

"Great photo. You look "Fab" ??""

Subtle....very Subtle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Apparently the etiquette is to approach them but not say where you know them from initially. This worries them slightly and makes the likelihood of a response much higher. You can then start the "but you're on fab, surely you'll shag anyone who asks" routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently the etiquette is to approach them but not say where you know them from initially. This worries them slightly and makes the likelihood of a response much higher. You can then start the "but you're on fab, surely you'll shag anyone who asks" routine. "

I was told this 2 weeks ago before i deleted the app.

My return reply was

“ yeah apparently swingers open their legs for anyone but seems the system is permanently down for you”

Lets just say i was blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just fell across a Male fabbers dating profile. I’m not completely sure of the etiquette. Do I approach him on there and try and slut shame him into having sex with me, or approach him on here? It’s a delicate negotiation. I don’t want to mess it up. Advice appreciated."

I see what you did there. I have heard of indiscreet males going all "I've seen you on fab" let's keep this a secret between us.

A friend of mine had it happen to her and it was scary! Once people learn discretion and can keep fab seperate from everywhere else, everyone can get along just fine.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you recognise someone on fab elsewhere, then you should approach them on fab. If you approach them elsewhere it is a distinct lack of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message him on the dating site and wait until he realises you're on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you recognise someone on fab elsewhere, then you should approach them on fab. If you approach them elsewhere it is a distinct lack of discretion."

Why should you approach on Fab? Why not the dating site? If they are on both why does Fab get precedence over a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you want to date him if he also has a profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently the etiquette is to approach them but not say where you know them from initially. This worries them slightly and makes the likelihood of a response much higher. You can then start the "but you're on fab, surely you'll shag anyone who asks" routine. "

Good call. We know each other though. Does that blow my chances of bl@ckmailing him? Maybe seeing his dating profile will disturb him enough to fall between my thighs. Feeling like my clever plan might not work now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently the etiquette is to approach them but not say where you know them from initially. This worries them slightly and makes the likelihood of a response much higher. You can then start the "but you're on fab, surely you'll shag anyone who asks" routine.

I was told this 2 weeks ago before i deleted the app.

My return reply was

“ yeah apparently swingers open their legs for anyone but seems the system is permanently down for you”

Genius answer. Have noted it down.

Lets just say i was blocked "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you recognise someone on fab elsewhere, then you should approach them on fab. If you approach them elsewhere it is a distinct lack of discretion."

You do realise my tongue was firmly in my cheek?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you want to date him if he also has a profile on here? "

That is a very good question. Unfortunately I’m not his type (too old, too far). That’s why I was wondering about the bl@ckmail route. Because forced sex is so sexy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you want to date him if he also has a profile on here?

That is a very good question. Unfortunately I’m not his type (too old, too far). That’s why I was wondering about the bl@ckmail route. Because forced sex is so sexy.."

Make a new profile with a younger age and in his area. Then mail him on here if all you want is sex. Like you said, Swingers can't say "no" so on here he's a dead cert.

If he does say no, just keep mailing him and he will eventually give in and fuck you. Swingers don't have a type, they fuck anyone. He just wants you to chase him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you want to date him if he also has a profile on here?

That is a very good question. Unfortunately I’m not his type (too old, too far). That’s why I was wondering about the bl@ckmail route. Because forced sex is so sexy..

Make a new profile with a younger age and in his area. Then mail him on here if all you want is sex. Like you said, Swingers can't say "no" so on here he's a dead cert.

If he does say no, just keep mailing him and he will eventually give in and fuck you. Swingers don't have a type, they fuck anyone. He just wants you to chase him. "

Genius! I’ll be riding him by Monday. Thank you!

I can do the creepy, ‘I know who you are ‘ thing then too, just to seal the deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say that totally sucks that (some) men think this is acceptable but it's another useful filter that adds to my considerable block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you want to date him if he also has a profile on here?

That is a very good question. Unfortunately I’m not his type (too old, too far). That’s why I was wondering about the bl@ckmail route. Because forced sex is so sexy..

Make a new profile with a younger age and in his area. Then mail him on here if all you want is sex. Like you said, Swingers can't say "no" so on here he's a dead cert.

If he does say no, just keep mailing him and he will eventually give in and fuck you. Swingers don't have a type, they fuck anyone. He just wants you to chase him.

Genius! I’ll be riding him by Monday. Thank you!

I can do the creepy, ‘I know who you are ‘ thing then too, just to seal the deal."

Have a look on Twitter or Facebook for manwhohasitall. I think you'd like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@Steel Heels. Love it! Thank you.

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