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Single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and girls

As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.

Is this common on Fab?

J & K x

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

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Some single guys are just crackers, there's plenty out there who would jump at the chance even if it's safe sex only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems weird to me or perhaps I'm a bit too causious

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By *tuYorksMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I would hope not. I would go quiet if you mentioned bareback!

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

I wouldn’t meet anyone who went bareback

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

If it’s on your profile and they message you knowing this, why would they be surprised?

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By *northodoxmeMan
over a year ago

Hampshire/Sheffield

I’d rather that than the excuses when the moment arrives or the assumption they can just get away with going without. That has happened frequently despite agreeing previously to only play safe. It doesn’t happen when D and I are out as a couple, as he is my eyes, ears and voice, but if I meet individually it can be a problem.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

safe sex or no sex, surly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always safe sex, got to be silly otherwise..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d rather that than the excuses when the moment arrives or the assumption they can just get away with going without. That has happened frequently despite agreeing previously to only play safe. It doesn’t happen when D and I are out as a couple, as he is my eyes, ears and voice, but if I meet individually it can be a problem. "

Your right much better to know before hand and move along.

That's awful the blokes you meet alone would try it on especially after agreeing safe only beforehand! I'd be tempted to just stop the meet there and then.

Me and my wife only play together and I'm her eyes, ears and voice to as her safety is my ultimate priority.

I wonder if any of the single males who go quite when safe sex is mentioned or are only looking for bareback will post on here with their views. I'm interested in why they do it, does it work for them?

J & K x

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By *lbatross77Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Safe sex or no sex!

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Hi guys and girls

As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.

Is this common on Fab?

J & K x"

There obviously not worth your time I wouldn't let them bother you

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By *ornybobBuilderMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

All ways safe sex for me

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Think of it as an extra filter. By going quiet when you mention safe sex they are filtering themselves out of your selection process

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That should be the only way unless stated simple as that

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I don’t chat to single guys so can’t comment..

But most couples ask for it after they’ve met you a couple of times ..

Single ladies are far more sensible thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not weird I always do safe sex

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By *northodoxmeMan
over a year ago

Hampshire/Sheffield

I mean I do understand for the majority of guys that sex feels better bareback, and some struggle to maintain an erection once they’ve got a condom on. That’s why I’ve always brought the subject up early on. But as I said previously that hasn’t stopped the chancers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy who said no he wouldn't use a condom but he was "willing" to pull out if I wanted. I even went as far as saying well I will give you a blowjob instead, he said no I want your p****.

I told him well enjoy your hand then you t***

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No your quit right to ask for safe sex only at the end of the day it's your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen the price of condoms!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do find this happening we see a guy we would be interested in meeting, and more often than not the whole bareback talk starts, it does state clearly on our profile "safe sex"

For those who are into it whatever fair play,

But its not for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys and girls

As a couple we have experienced a fair few single males going quiet as soon as you stipulate safe sex for intercourse.

Is this common on Fab?

J & K x"

I’d go quiet if you DON’T stipulate safe sex.

I think it’s common sense to request that.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've had the occasional guy go quiet on us when they realise that we insist on safe sex but it has not been true of the majority of single guys we've met.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

No it's not I always play safe and always take my own protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why you wouldn’t have safe sex in a site like this haha

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm not speaking to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a glove on before love unless it was a long term partner.

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By *uyforfun88Man
over a year ago

here

100% has to be safe sex every time for me

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By *rBombasticTelephontasticMan
over a year ago

London/Kent

Whilst bareback is definitely a far better experience than “safe” sex, my view is that it’s always the woman’s choice and certainly with a stranger whose sexual health is a total unknown, I’m not going in unless it’s wrapped up

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