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By *lick9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Do we have a problem with being on sites like this one and having sex with lots of different people.

Personally I think it's normal it's just that I have been told I am not normal from vanilla friends. I don't see it any different to hooking up and having a one night stand but we might involve more than one in our fun.

What's your thoughts on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no it is not normal. But don't worry about what is normal. Normal is not healthy or right. Lots of things that are normal are very bad so normal can do one.

We will all die and in 100 years we won't be remembered for anything. So enjoy your experiences and smile at the normal people having less life than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is pretty natural, rather than normal, for me at least

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Something 'normal' to one person could be very strange to another, just as long as your enjoying yourself I wouldn't give it much thought

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Define normal?

I have friends who go out every weekend, get d*unk, pull some random bloke, a complete unknown stranger, take them home or go back to theirs, on several occasions, 1 friend has admitted she didn't even know the blokes name

I don't think that's normal, but if she knew what I did she'd probably say the same about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone can define normal they are just using their own view of their normal, not the normal, as normal dosent exist except in our own individual view of the world. Enjoy being your individual and making your own choices that's normal in my view of course. Male

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

The fact very few of us share what we do with others outside of the scene tends to tell you it's not normal. It doesn't feel normal to us but that's the very reason we like it, stepping out of the vanilla and into swing when it suits is all about fun. Enjoy your fun OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal is what the masses define it to be so, as long as what you choose to do in life doesn't hurt anyone else, why should their opinions matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal can be easily defined as what is commonly and socially acceptable.

Regardless of what we think of as normal, if it is not mainstream or fitting to the standard narrative then it is not normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone can define normal they are just using their own view of their normal, not the normal, as normal dosent exist except in our own individual view of the world. Enjoy being your individual and making your own choices that's normal in my view of course. Male "

Bless you

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Normal. I wouldn't know. What's normal anyway. People jump out of planes... or run across the ocean floor without oxygen. Monogamy is a social construct anyway.

What I do know is that this avenue is certainly preferred than picking up a random in a bar.

On fab I can vet, to a certain extent, any potential play partner. And one would hope, that the swinging community is more knowledgeable and proactive in relation to the risks associated with promiscuity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would u say your needs were an addiction. If its not causing anyone harm then by definition you are probably not addicted. If its compulsive and hurting your partner or someone then you may have a problem. Well thats what i think anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank help 07593327680

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people drink, some people go to nightclubs, some people do drugs, we have recreational sex with other consensual adults for fun.

It might not be considered a 'normal' pastime but no different to people having one night stands on nights out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone can define normal they are just using their own view of their normal, not the normal, as normal dosent exist except in our own individual view of the world. Enjoy being your individual and making your own choices that's normal in my view of course. Male

Bless you"

If you must but don't get the water in my eyes lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal can be easily defined as what is commonly and socially acceptable.

Regardless of what we think of as normal, if it is not mainstream or fitting to the standard narrative then it is not normal. "

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

They do there thing, we do ours. We are all consenting adults and as long as we are all happy and not hurting anyone that's ok with me. To be fair the vanilla people in mine and my partners life are supportive of our lifestyle.

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