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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

So we are a soft swap couple and are not really getting any meets

Are there many soft swap couples out there?

Or any advice for us would be great we just want some filthy fun xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi OP

The lack of pics of Mr will put some off .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP

The lack of pics of Mr will put some off .

Miss"

Hi,

Ahh right ok, We have a few of him in our friends only pictures.

I will suggest we make them public.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be any number of reasons.

Whilst I've read that guys often like bbw, do women?

You're showing as both straight but then make reference to bi males.. so Mr is 'fab-straight' then? Some women are actually turned off by that.

With you showing as straight too, you're also ruling out all those couples that have bi fem.

All-in-all you've made a very small box that any prospective playmates need to fit inside and the softswap is only a small aspect of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be any number of reasons.

Whilst I've read that guys often like bbw, do women?

You're showing as both straight but then make reference to bi males.. so Mr is 'fab-straight' then? Some women are actually turned off by that.

With you showing as straight too, you're also ruling out all those couples that have bi fem.

All-in-all you've made a very small box that any prospective playmates need to fit inside and the softswap is only a small aspect of that."

Thank you for you reply.

That is one thing I have though is that not a lot of people would be into a bbw and I am a big girl.

We are both straight but would happily let a male or a female lick and suck us we just do not do that ourselves. Would you say that is more bi curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi playful, just like us .

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're super soft! We don't tend to arrange meets but we do go to clubs and just do our own thing. Most of our play has happened spontaneously with people who happen to join us on the beds. Typically it's with people who we may not have been attracted to if we saw them online.

Mostly it's limited to wandering hands and the occasional mouth. Just being watched is our usual club experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

So we are a soft swap couple and are not really getting any meets

Are there many soft swap couples out there?

Or any advice for us would be great we just want some filthy fun xx"

We’re a full swap couple and can’t get meets so don’t think it is about you being soft swap. There are many soft swap couples it’s just difficult on Fab.

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We haven't ever struggled to get meets on fab but we have only actually met around 4 to 5 couples off fab also... Getting meets and getting the right meets is a very different thing. Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Getting meets and getting the right meets is a very different thing. Xx"

Never was truer word written on fab

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset


"Hey guys,

So we are a soft swap couple and are not really getting any meets

Are there many soft swap couples out there?

Or any advice for us would be great we just want some filthy fun xx"

We love a sexy soft swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE LOVE LOVE soft swap with a hot couple. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOVE LOVE LOVE soft swap with a hot couple. X"

Have you got KiK ? Will connect there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOVE LOVE LOVE soft swap with a hot couple. X

Have you got KiK ? Will connect there "

Yes we’re on there but can’t message you the username. Was your profile name ever tanmay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOVE LOVE LOVE soft swap with a hot couple. X

Have you got KiK ? Will connect there

Yes we’re on there but can’t message you the username. Was your profile name ever tanmay? "

Spicygum

What's yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys made a couple of changes to our profile.

It’s not like we want lots of meets, it would be nice to find a couple who are into what we are.

A club will probably be our best bet I think as been on here 3 months now and not got very far haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re open to it with the right people....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’re open to it with the right people...."

That it isn’t it.... just got to find the right people.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We are even softer than soft swap and still get meets. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We will keep trying and hopefully find a couple who like a bbw

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

I would agree with clubs being great for soft swap... You could go on a chilled out couples and females night which a lot of clubs hold and see how it goes... We tend to find girl on girl and soft swap are most common and most comfortable on these evenings so it's a good idea, especially if it's your first club visit xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would agree with clubs being great for soft swap... You could go on a chilled out couples and females night which a lot of clubs hold and see how it goes... We tend to find girl on girl and soft swap are most common and most comfortable on these evenings so it's a good idea, especially if it's your first club visit xx"

We are desperate to have our first club visit!

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Cupid's and quest both have excellent couples and females nights, quests first Saturday of the month is usually super super busy and Cupid's is every Wednesday. Quest has it the 1st and 3rd Saturday of the month. Obviously other clubs do it too but they are the couples and females nights we have attended... Obviously quests are busier due to being a Saturday but Cupid's has a fair few too xx

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I would agree with clubs being great for soft swap... You could go on a chilled out couples and females night which a lot of clubs hold and see how it goes... We tend to find girl on girl and soft swap are most common and most comfortable on these evenings so it's a good idea, especially if it's your first club visit xx

We are desperate to have our first club visit! "

The next Buxom Babes event is listed in the forum - Thursday May 15th. You’d be more than welcome, plenty of both couples & singles there, plus it’s a good fun night out too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cupid's and quest both have excellent couples and females nights, quests first Saturday of the month is usually super super busy and Cupid's is every Wednesday. Quest has it the 1st and 3rd Saturday of the month. Obviously other clubs do it too but they are the couples and females nights we have attended... Obviously quests are busier due to being a Saturday but Cupid's has a fair few too xx"

Great thanks Cupid’s is one of the clubs we have been thinking of going to so will bare what you have said I’m mind. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would agree with clubs being great for soft swap... You could go on a chilled out couples and females night which a lot of clubs hold and see how it goes... We tend to find girl on girl and soft swap are most common and most comfortable on these evenings so it's a good idea, especially if it's your first club visit xx

We are desperate to have our first club visit!

The next Buxom Babes event is listed in the forum - Thursday May 15th. You’d be more than welcome, plenty of both couples & singles there, plus it’s a good fun night out too! "

Oh is it. We will take a look at it now thank you.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Try a social...

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By *awtycpl661Couple
over a year ago

honiton

We enjoy soft swap x

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By *orny_Couple22Couple
over a year ago

Worthing

We are intrested in soft swinging. We love having both guys and girls playing with us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are intrested in soft swinging. We love having both guys and girls playing with us"

Do you play with them in return?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap, clubs are the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get soft swap, how far are soft swap people willing to go or not go? Is it everything but penetration?

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes. Anything but penetration is our definition of it... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap and also get no meets, constantly tell people its even highlighted in our profile we get talking to women and couples for weeks on end then as soon as it gets to meeting its always “oh actually we decided we want full swap so cant meet” all the fecking time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you full swap? Is it too personal?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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We are both straight but would happily let a male or a female lick and suck us we just do not do that ourselves.

"

Your profile says you don't kiss either. So do you expect the other couple to pleasure you and you do nothing in return for them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'm finding it hard too meet aswell dont no what's up with my profile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We are both straight but would happily let a male or a female lick and suck us we just do not do that ourselves.

Your profile says you don't kiss either. So do you expect the other couple to pleasure you and you do nothing in return for them ?"

Obviously not haha. Slave will happily suck the male and master lick the female. We would no way want it to be one sided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are soft swap, clubs are the way to go "

That’s what we are think is best to do. Might give up on fab and just go to clubs less hassle it seems haha

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden Bridge

I'm a soft swap guy, I get some meets but not as many as I would like.

I like naughty flashing, touching, kissing and just plain old watching.

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By *orny_Couple22Couple
over a year ago

Worthing


"We are intrested in soft swinging. We love having both guys and girls playing with us

Do you play with them in return? "

Yes we do we love playing prince is very straight but i would play with both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only do soft swing meets but our problem is distance for others. Most lovely people are miles from us although lately ill health has stopped any play apart form naturist play.

We have been lucky and met some lovely soft swingers who just want nude with us and thats ok. Hope to find some locals who like BBW and want soft swing with us so never ever give up, the right couple for you will be there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only do soft swing meets but our problem is distance for others. Most lovely people are miles from us although lately ill health has stopped any play apart form naturist play.

We have been lucky and met some lovely soft swingers who just want nude with us and thats ok. Hope to find some locals who like BBW and want soft swing with us so never ever give up, the right couple for you will be there somewhere"

We are gonna go to a local club as I think getting out into the swinging world will help us to find like minded couples. Thanks you for your advise

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We're a full swap and not getting any meets either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s soft swap? Is it like oral only or something?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We consider our selves as soft swap couple (maybe a little harder than what some others would consider as soft swap). But I don't think the soft swap thing is a huge barrier to playing with others. I think it is just difficult in general to find other couples where every is happy with every one. And I think that is the same whether you hard, soft or anything in between.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Just a small point but you don’t state your rough location? That’s going to put some people off spending time messaging you.

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By *orthwest2someCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hey guys,

So we are a soft swap couple and are not really getting any meets

Are there many soft swap couples out there?

Or any advice for us would be great we just want some filthy fun xx"

We are also a soft swap couple and it is harder finding meets as to the normal meets that people want but we enjoy the fun we do find and although it’s been mainly single men we still enjoy and they accept what we do luckily and enjoy themselves

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By *orthwest2someCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I will add we do everything but have full sex with others so lots of kissing licking touching sucking basically everything apart from full sex

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