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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. " Is that honestly what you think? That couples swing because their sex life is dull? Have you ever done it as part of a couple? | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. " No added excitement needed here, we are awesome together and have everything we need in each other. We just do it because it’s fun! | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. " We don’t have a full sex life together, that’s for sure. It would simply be unfair for all those other people to miss out on us 
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"It’s fun and exciting... being watched and watching " That’s what I love when part of a couple swinging. It’s such a turn on and fun. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. " As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. | |||
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"I think everyone has their own motives for swinging. For us it's just a fun activity like any other hobby. It doesn't occupy too much of our time or thoughts and we don't rationalise or justify what we do. " We are with you. Don’t over analyse the situation because it does not have to be rational. It’s just fun in its purest and most honest way. We do it because we like it. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. "  | |||
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"I think everyone has their own motives for swinging. For us it's just a fun activity like any other hobby. It doesn't occupy too much of our time or thoughts and we don't rationalise or justify what we do. We are with you. Don’t over analyse the situation because it does not have to be rational. It’s just fun in its purest and most honest way. We do it because we like it. " | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. Is that honestly what you think? That couples swing because their sex life is dull? Have you ever done it as part of a couple?" I had never claimed that their sex life was dull. You did though... | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. No added excitement needed here, we are awesome together and have everything we need in each other. We just do it because it’s fun!" You just used differing terms to describe the exact thing that I had said. The term fun and excitement describe the exact same thing. I never claimed that swingers were merely doing so out of boredom with each other. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. " Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. " I completely disagree with almost everything you've said. Singles can be swingers, ask the whole group of us that go to clubs, events, parties etc. We engage in group sex with each other, with other people in clubs and are fully active in the lifestyle. To your other point about couples, most couples I know that swing have amazing sex with each other but enjoy inviting others in just because they can and it's fun. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post..." But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition." The definition was never ever that definitive ... there's always been some elasticity to the term. It's hardly worth arguing about really. And it's not clear cut. If one half of a couple meets someone for sex are they swinging? If a couple meet one other person is only the couple swinging while the single person is just engaging in casual sex? Who cares?! | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. The definition was never ever that definitive ... there's always been some elasticity to the term. It's hardly worth arguing about really. And it's not clear cut. If one half of a couple meets someone for sex are they swinging? If a couple meet one other person is only the couple swinging while the single person is just engaging in casual sex? Who cares?!" That was my point, swinging is an evolving lifestyle so the definition is always going to be changing and will vary from one person to the next. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. The definition was never ever that definitive ... there's always been some elasticity to the term. It's hardly worth arguing about really. And it's not clear cut. If one half of a couple meets someone for sex are they swinging? If a couple meet one other person is only the couple swinging while the single person is just engaging in casual sex? Who cares?! That was my point, swinging is an evolving lifestyle so the definition is always going to be changing and will vary from one person to the next." Yep, I was agreeing with you ... | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. The definition was never ever that definitive ... there's always been some elasticity to the term. It's hardly worth arguing about really. And it's not clear cut. If one half of a couple meets someone for sex are they swinging? If a couple meet one other person is only the couple swinging while the single person is just engaging in casual sex? Who cares?! That was my point, swinging is an evolving lifestyle so the definition is always going to be changing and will vary from one person to the next. Yep, I was agreeing with you ... "It doesn't happen often do it shocked me!   | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. The definition was never ever that definitive ... there's always been some elasticity to the term. It's hardly worth arguing about really. And it's not clear cut. If one half of a couple meets someone for sex are they swinging? If a couple meet one other person is only the couple swinging while the single person is just engaging in casual sex? Who cares?! That was my point, swinging is an evolving lifestyle so the definition is always going to be changing and will vary from one person to the next. Yep, I was agreeing with you ...
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition." You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. Is that honestly what you think? That couples swing because their sex life is dull? Have you ever done it as part of a couple? I had never claimed that their sex life was dull. You did though..." I suggest you read your post again | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. Is that honestly what you think? That couples swing because their sex life is dull? Have you ever done it as part of a couple? I had never claimed that their sex life was dull. You did though... I suggest you read your post again" I suggest that you do also.... I have no idea what you need explained. If you wish to tell me what you're alluding to, I may be able to explain for you. | |||
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"Most of us are here because it's a lifestyle choice and it's a blast. " I agree but look at some of the replies... Why the thumbs?Everyone has there opinions if you don't agree with it fine but come on we are lovers not fighters... | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way." What gives you the right to dictate what I am or am not? I'm not here to be an 'appendage'. Have you ever realised that the problem in the world is the people that refuse to evolve and acknowledge change? Swinging is so far from the 'keys in the bowl' that it used to be. It has so many differences to that. Do not use your own narrow-mindedness and refusal to bring yourself into the 21st century to tell me what I am or am not. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way. What gives you the right to dictate what I am or am not? I'm not here to be an 'appendage'. Have you ever realised that the problem in the world is the people that refuse to evolve and acknowledge change? Swinging is so far from the 'keys in the bowl' that it used to be. It has so many differences to that. Do not use your own narrow-mindedness and refusal to bring yourself into the 21st century to tell me what I am or am not. " Swinging is about sharing partners. That is what the term means. That is why the majority on here, are couples. You can try and apply your own definitions if you wish, why I do not know. You may feel that "swinging" feels less "sluttish" than "casual" though, you are not swinging, as you are sharing nothing yourself as a singleton. I mean, why not change the definition of the word gay to actually mean straight? Red to mean orange and racist to mean aeroplane? You're a snowflake that dislikes reality, thus tries to create your own. I was never attempting to offend anyone, though your stupidity would offend yourself if you had any kind of intelligence to understand what you were saying. The use of language is the most important thing humanity has, yet individuals such as yourself keep attempting to twist things to fit into boxes. You're looking for casual sex, as am I, as a single male. I really don't understand why you wish to have the term 'swinger' applied to yourself so much. I suggest that you grow up and accept that not everything can be what you wish them to be. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way. What gives you the right to dictate what I am or am not? I'm not here to be an 'appendage'. Have you ever realised that the problem in the world is the people that refuse to evolve and acknowledge change? Swinging is so far from the 'keys in the bowl' that it used to be. It has so many differences to that. Do not use your own narrow-mindedness and refusal to bring yourself into the 21st century to tell me what I am or am not. Swinging is about sharing partners. That is what the term means. That is why the majority on here, are couples. You can try and apply your own definitions if you wish, why I do not know. You may feel that "swinging" feels less "sluttish" than "casual" though, you are not swinging, as you are sharing nothing yourself as a singleton. I mean, why not change the definition of the word gay to actually mean straight? Red to mean orange and racist to mean aeroplane? You're a snowflake that dislikes reality, thus tries to create your own. I was never attempting to offend anyone, though your stupidity would offend yourself if you had any kind of intelligence to understand what you were saying. The use of language is the most important thing humanity has, yet individuals such as yourself keep attempting to twist things to fit into boxes. You're looking for casual sex, as am I, as a single male. I really don't understand why you wish to have the term 'swinger' applied to yourself so much. I suggest that you grow up and accept that not everything can be what you wish them to be." Wow, you really are a pleasant fellow. Carry on throwing insults around because someone calls you out on your nonsense.  | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way. What gives you the right to dictate what I am or am not? I'm not here to be an 'appendage'. Have you ever realised that the problem in the world is the people that refuse to evolve and acknowledge change? Swinging is so far from the 'keys in the bowl' that it used to be. It has so many differences to that. Do not use your own narrow-mindedness and refusal to bring yourself into the 21st century to tell me what I am or am not. Swinging is about sharing partners. That is what the term means. That is why the majority on here, are couples. You can try and apply your own definitions if you wish, why I do not know. You may feel that "swinging" feels less "sluttish" than "casual" though, you are not swinging, as you are sharing nothing yourself as a singleton. I mean, why not change the definition of the word gay to actually mean straight? Red to mean orange and racist to mean aeroplane? You're a snowflake that dislikes reality, thus tries to create your own. I was never attempting to offend anyone, though your stupidity would offend yourself if you had any kind of intelligence to understand what you were saying. The use of language is the most important thing humanity has, yet individuals such as yourself keep attempting to twist things to fit into boxes. You're looking for casual sex, as am I, as a single male. I really don't understand why you wish to have the term 'swinger' applied to yourself so much. I suggest that you grow up and accept that not everything can be what you wish them to be. Wow, you really are a pleasant fellow. Carry on throwing insults around because someone calls you out on your nonsense. "I hardly insulted you. If you feel that I have, then I was merely correct in my assumption that you lack the understanding and meaning of words. | |||
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"If you’re not in a relationship/married, it’s not swinging: it’s casual sex. Those that properly swing, I imagine do so to add some excitement back into their sex lives. Personally, I find it to be a healthy activity within a relationship. It’s refreshing to have honesty, opposed to the usual adulterous affairs that come with most relationships. As an ‘improper’ swinger (don’t you love people who try to make things exclusive to their view of the universe?), I enjoy sex with more than one other, adventurous sex, sex in many different flavours and colours. I very much enjoy the social aspects of swinging, this is one of the things I miss most when I take breaks from fab. And I get to meet interesting, creative, odd people that I wouldn’t otherwise get to meet. It’s not casual fucking for me. I’d NEVER pick someone up in a bar. Fab enables me to carefully choose playmates, plan scenarios, invite others along, go to parties, attend club events. None of that stuff would result from a casual hook up in a bar. Again, you're applying your own interpretation to a word that has a definition that applies exactly to what you just said. You're in essence agreeing with me, though you assume that I mean something else, due to a prejudice you hold on the word 'casual'. The word casual has nothing to do with bar hook ups or one night stands, a fwb situation is in essence also 'casual'. You cannot be a swinger if you're not a part of a couple, as the term swinging means the swapping of partners. The same activity is done i.e. sex; the difference is it's casual sex and not swinging by definition (though swinging is in itself casual sex also, as it's not confined to a relationship). I really dislike it when people try and accuse me of things. Please learn the meanings of words before you contradict yourself and accuse me of things in which were never intended. I was very clear in my post... But swinging has evolved, so too must the definition. You are entering the lifestyle of the swinger, to become an extra appendage, you, yourself are not a swinger. You live in their world, though you are not a swinger. This is the problem with todays world, people keep trying to change and pervert the meaning of words. To the above comment, I had never said any of what you have mentioned. The sex between those in the couple is merely heightened when they're allowed to explore other avenues. If they were both forced to only be with each other for the rest of their lives, it would become stale. The act of swinging helps keep the kink alive, which I had mentioned also, though in an abridged way. What gives you the right to dictate what I am or am not? I'm not here to be an 'appendage'. Have you ever realised that the problem in the world is the people that refuse to evolve and acknowledge change? Swinging is so far from the 'keys in the bowl' that it used to be. It has so many differences to that. Do not use your own narrow-mindedness and refusal to bring yourself into the 21st century to tell me what I am or am not. Swinging is about sharing partners. That is what the term means. That is why the majority on here, are couples. You can try and apply your own definitions if you wish, why I do not know. You may feel that "swinging" feels less "sluttish" than "casual" though, you are not swinging, as you are sharing nothing yourself as a singleton. I mean, why not change the definition of the word gay to actually mean straight? Red to mean orange and racist to mean aeroplane? You're a snowflake that dislikes reality, thus tries to create your own. I was never attempting to offend anyone, though your stupidity would offend yourself if you had any kind of intelligence to understand what you were saying. The use of language is the most important thing humanity has, yet individuals such as yourself keep attempting to twist things to fit into boxes. You're looking for casual sex, as am I, as a single male. I really don't understand why you wish to have the term 'swinger' applied to yourself so much. I suggest that you grow up and accept that not everything can be what you wish them to be. Wow, you really are a pleasant fellow. Carry on throwing insults around because someone calls you out on your nonsense. "I should be the one claiming to be offended. Due to the fact that you attempted to find a differing/abusive meaning in each of my posts, that was not there. I don’t need apologies though | |||
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"I think Byron, tbh, you’re coming across as badly in need of a shag. " If that were the case, would I be trying to prove a point with a female on a swinging forum? I can assure you that I have most likely slept with more females than you’d ever wish to; and more men than you ever have. I’m kind of a big deal. | |||
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"I think Byron, tbh, you’re coming across as badly in need of a shag. If that were the case, would I be trying to prove a point with a female on a swinging forum? I can assure you that I have most likely slept with more females than you’d ever wish to; and more men than you ever have. I’m kind of a big deal. " Sputter. You have made my night. Thank you! | |||
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"I think Byron, tbh, you’re coming across as badly in need of a shag. If that were the case, would I be trying to prove a point with a female on a swinging forum? I can assure you that I have most likely slept with more females than you’d ever wish to; and more men than you ever have. I’m kind of a big deal. Sputter. You have made my night. Thank you!" Glad to have obliged | |||
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