FabSwingers.com forum: Definition of cuckold (& other selectable “interests”)

By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

What are your definitions of some of the sites selectable interests, the ones that show as interests on a profile...

There are two in particular that baffle us!

1. Cuckold. When a lady puts this, what does it mean, cucquean? For instance, we like to discuss MrAbz fucking a lovely lady, and “making” MrsAbz watch. Would you define this as cuckold? That’s more than one question sorry!

2. Water sports. So we like a bit of pee play sometimes. Get over it if you don’t

But we see watersports a lot as an interest. Are there really that many into it? Or do people define it as something else? A lady messaged us who liked watersports and asked what we’d do. We told her a couple of things that might happen and she replied saying she didn’t like being peed on and that was that?!

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold- always thought of that as where one half of the couple gets fucked in front of the other, with option of humiliation of other by any number of means.

Watersports- can come in many guises and depends on scenarios for me. On you, in you, from you. All over, swallowing, mid sex, before sex. The list is endless and your mind is the only limiter.

All depends on mood for me

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Cuckold- always thought of that as where one half of the couple gets fucked in front of the other, with option of humiliation of other by any number of means.

Watersports- can come in many guises and depends on scenarios for me. On you, in you, from you. All over, swallowing, mid sex, before sex. The list is endless and your mind is the only limiter.

All depends on mood for me"

So you don’t see cuckold as gender specific? Ie girl being fucked by another man. Some of the interests could also do with a giving/receiving option

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Any other thoughts?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To answer the second question first - I think there are a lot on here who blindly tick every interest, or the majority of them at least, in the hope it will help them get meets, without necessarily understanding what they are.

I tend to use the interests as a guideline and something to potentially discuss with people I chat to as a gauge of likely compatibility, but don't see them as a tick list to be expected.

Think you have cuckold pretty much nailed

Although like anything, most of these things are what you want them to be - the key is finding others who define them in the same or a similar way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think any role should be gender specific.

Sexually, we can all switch. It should be mood dependent and non gender specific.

Do you base roles on gender?

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I don’t think any role should be gender specific.

Sexually, we can all switch. It should be mood dependent and non gender specific.

Do you base roles on gender?"

That’s not really what we mean...

We’re not saying that it should only be one gender that does anything, but asking if people use the word cuckold gender in-specifically, or because there is no cucquean option?

It seems as a couple if we said we like cuckold, it would suggest Mrs likes to be fucked in front of hubby, where as we’d like to suggest the opposite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh I see.

I just read my message back, I hope it never came across aggressive.

Hope you find what you looking for

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By *ebbed_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Our definitions are

Cuckold- Guy with a partner who has sexual relations in secret, with concent or in a dominating manner ect

cuckquean- female version of cuckold

Watersports- peeing play

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By *bzcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Our definitions are

Cuckold- Guy with a partner who has sexual relations in secret, with concent or in a dominating manner ect

cuckquean- female version of cuckold

Watersports- peeing play

That’s our thoughts too, so why no cuckquean option in interests?

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

In a cuckold relationship it is the male who is being cuckolded by his wife who is being fucked by another man. Usually the act of cuckolding is performed in front of the husband, who takes great sexual satisfaction from it by either being highly sexually aroused, or by being subordinate. Occasionally a wife or her husband may wish her to have sex with another man because of sexual inadequacy, but this isn't specifically cuckold. The saying comes from the Cuckoo bird that lays its eggs in another birds nest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think maybe no cuckquean option as it is mostly men who are into this and hence maybe they decided the most useful option

It would be good to have the seperate option as people know what is on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think maybe no cuckquean option as it is mostly men who are into this and hence maybe they decided the most useful option

It would be good to have the seperate option as people know what is on offer"

This

I think it's less popular with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many kinks and variations on kinks. If you go on a well known fet site you can only choose one and it's an identifier to you. You are pigeon holed.

Although fab seem to resist the opportunities to develope the site particularly around cuckold forums etc. I do understand that they can't cater for all, despite all the issues it is still the best site around, hence we all keep returning.

Just my thoughts.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Each couple will have it's own version or cuckold , broad brush he is faithfull she fucks other guys or girls , he is the cuck ,reverse cuck is the other way round . Either you want him involved or you dont , or humiliated or not , it's all your own boundaries. As for watersports . Again this is up to you ,alot of couples list it but wont do it with other , we do and have wife likes to give and I hubby like to receive wife happy to pee on Male or female , we do get alot of guys message us to do pee play , most of the time she will pee anywhere the guy wants her to , but only take from me when we have been out , I will take mostly in mouth as that's where she prefers. We have only played with one couple really into pee play and it was amazing to do it as part of the play night, but again it's up to you , lots of single women put watersports down but not alot of couples

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"In a cuckold relationship it is the male who is being cuckolded by his wife who is being fucked by another man. Usually the act of cuckolding is performed in front of the husband, who takes great sexual satisfaction from it by either being highly sexually aroused, or by being subordinate. Occasionally a wife or her husband may wish her to have sex with another man because of sexual inadequacy, but this isn't specifically cuckold. The saying comes from the Cuckoo bird that lays its eggs in another birds nest."

Yup. This. Varying range though, some like humiliation, whereas we don’t, and are somewhere between Cuckolding, and Stag/Vixen

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