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That elusive first meeting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s difficult for single blokes on here so, after my first successful meeting I thought I’d review my Fab activity.

2 messages sent, profiles have disappeared so probably blocked. Never mind.

2 other messages deleted so I’m not for them.

1 message unopened. Single woman probably got 300 in her inbox (so to speak!)

1 message read but no reply. Put them down as a maybe.

Final message resulted in a very nice session.

Have patience, it can happen. Do a reverse search for yourself-my profile didn’t appear for 8 pages so no wonder there’s hardly any views!

Good luck & happy swinging!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I don't get why people are in such a rush. Just enjoy fab and what it offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot more guys here than couples and girls I suspect...

Likely a sigificant part of it.

Frustrating but... numbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You’re right! I did enjoy it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s difficult for single blokes on here so, after my first successful meeting I thought I’d review my Fab activity.

2 messages sent, profiles have disappeared so probably blocked. Never mind.

2 other messages deleted so I’m not for them.

1 message unopened. Single woman probably got 300 in her inbox (so to speak!)

1 message read but no reply. Put them down as a maybe.

Final message resulted in a very nice session.

Have patience, it can happen. Do a reverse search for yourself-my profile didn’t appear for 8 pages so no wonder there’s hardly any views!

Good luck & happy swinging!"

On the FAQ we are told that no reply = a no.

Don't lose heart. If you are a gentleman on this site you've already set yourself apart.

Also try going to clubs. It's a great way to show people who you really are. Most people will verify you even if you don't get to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot more guys here than couples and girls I suspect...

Likely a sigificant part of it.

Frustrating but... numbers."

In the days of bumper stickers my gf had a bumper sticker that said "So many males. So few men" (in response to the so many women so little time bumper sticker...)

Got some strange looks when I borrowed her car...

The point is yes there are a lot of guys on here. However the ladies hopelessly out number the the men.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

It's easy to get frustrated and disillusioned as a single male but worse if you take fab too seriously. Sitting on fab all evening is not conducive to good self esteem. There are other simulating things to do in life and so I find it best to limit my time here to when I'm between doing other things.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I used to have a single profile, as did L, finding meets wasn’t a problem, you just need to find your usp and be a gentleman, not a dick (in both metaphorical and thinking ways.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

May I will also add:

Join in the forums and try to go along to any of the forum socials

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Lot more guys here than couples and girls I suspect...

Likely a sigificant part of it.

Frustrating but... numbers.

In the days of bumper stickers my gf had a bumper sticker that said "So many males. So few men" (in response to the so many women so little time bumper sticker...)

Got some strange looks when I borrowed her car...

The point is yes there are a lot of guys on here. However the ladies hopelessly out number the the men.

"

We are noticing some profound statements on fab recently lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, availability, circumstances will dictate a proportion of your success on here.

The rest is down to you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Truth of the matter is there *are* a disproportionate number of men compared to women and couples that much is fact and the ratio is around 15:1 - however IF you take out the guys that don't have the right attitude, approach and expectations and those who simply don't "get" the site and never will do, then the numbers are a lot more evenly balanced.

So the question you have to ask yourself is, which group do you want to belong to, and if you're not finding Fab meets your expectations, what are you going to change to improve your experience?

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

If I was a Single Male. I would rather just go and have a wank than bother to compete on here. More chance of getting a Shag on POF or Tinder. As that’s what it is for many on here. Not Swinging. Just a Ball Emptier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back on fab for the second time.... and i know it will take a while until i have a meet.... it will happen.... take your time and enjoy it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was a Single Male. I would rather just go and have a wank than bother to compete on here. More chance of getting a Shag on POF or Tinder. As that’s what it is for many on here. Not Swinging. Just a Ball Emptier x"

Funny how we all experience fab differently. I just had the most amazing birthday party at a swingers club and was touched by the number of people who took the trouble to travel, buy me cards and presents. More from my swinging life than vanilla life. I have made so many genuine friends on fab it feels weird to have it thought of in such terms.

I guess it's what you make of it.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I don't get why people are in such a rush. Just enjoy fab and what it offers "

Well I’m not in a rush but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My “tip” is just chill and let people approach you. That’s what I prefer to do most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a footnote to my original post - not complaining, just saying how it is. Thanks for all your comments!

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