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"Why on earth would they not want to chat on the phone before an arranged meet, unless ofcourse they are both mute's! " well for me i meet a lot of guys off here and i simply do not want that many guys having my number When i am looking for a meet i come on here when im off here and in my normal life i dont want guys texting and calling me so id sooner not let them have my number | |||
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"ive arranged all my meets without chatting on the phone and ive never had any problems finding meets, some dont like to meet without a phone call but if that happens i just find someone else to meet does not always mean you have something to hide" +1 Most of ours are arranged without a phone call. | |||
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"ive arranged all my meets without chatting on the phone and ive never had any problems finding meets, some dont like to meet without a phone call but if that happens i just find someone else to meet does not always mean you have something to hide" +1 I never cam or phone new meets. I arrange everything on here - it leaves a trail in case, god forbid, there was a.problem! NN and I may take slightly different precautions as single females, but couples can be stalked too - do you really want calls and texts at all hours, someone outside your home? There have been many stories on here reminding us all it can happen. I.have received violent threats for saying no! So choose your precautions just as others choose theirs. And if someone is not prepared to play by your rules then simply move on. | |||
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" NN and I may take slightly different precautions as single females, but couples can be stalked too - do you really want calls and texts at all hours, someone outside your home? There have been many stories on here reminding us all it can happen. I.have received violent threats for saying no! So choose your precautions just as others choose theirs. And if someone is not prepared to play by your rules then simply move on." i stopped giving out my number when a guy i used to meet posted my number on escort sites after i told him i didnt want to meet anymore I had to change my number to stop the calls so why would i start handing my new number out to risk giving it to someone else like that If people want to meet you they will meet you without a phone chat, if talking on the phone is that important they can find someone else to talk it and meet | |||
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"Another option is to buy a cheap, bog standard pay as you go phone (about £10) and use it exclusively for meets. " i couldnt do that as i have teenage kids and they would want to know why i had two phones, they are at an age where you cant fob them off anymore with random bull shit and they would find it suspicious if had two mobile and i dont want them putting 2 and 2 together | |||
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"Another option is to buy a cheap, bog standard pay as you go phone (about £10) and use it exclusively for meets. " And every time I switch it on wade through increasingly abusive and offensive messages? I'm very serious here, some people don't take rejection well! And as soon as you take things off the site there is no comeback. I have had guys who are not prepared to meet without a call and I walk away. Then when I Di make friends and choose to give out my number the message alert brings a little smile to my face instead of dread. | |||
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" i stopped giving out my number when a guy i used to meet posted my number on escort sites after i told him i didnt want to meet anymore " That's awful, what a total nob jockey! Some people just can't handle rejection... xx | |||
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"Why on earth would they not want to chat on the phone before an arranged meet, unless ofcourse they are both mute's! well for me i meet a lot of guys off here and i simply do not want that many guys having my number When i am looking for a meet i come on here when im off here and in my normal life i dont want guys texting and calling me so id sooner not let them have my number" You can ring them withholding your number tho | |||
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"i have got to the point now that i will ring them and hide my number if i dont feel a vibe i wont meet them but i tend to meet most now at chams where i feel safe and ifi want to play we can.. " Me too | |||
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" If someone said they didn't want to chat over the phone first i would assume that one of them doesn't exist. But thats just me. " +1 | |||
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"I never give out my number to anyone on here, not because im not genuine, but just because i dont like talking on the phone and i dont want people off here having my number, calling and texting all the time I have had some decide not to meet me because of this but thats their choice same as its mine not to give them my number All you can do is decide for yourself how you feel, if talking on the phone is important to you and they refuse to simple say thanks but no thanks then but remember it does not necessarily mean they have something to hide they may simply just want to keep their privacy" +1 | |||
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"In this day and age when a number can be witheld there is no reason why a phone call cannot be arranged. Even if we have cammed with a couple will still insist on chatting on the phone before a meet. This hopefully helps breaks the nerves just a little bit and gives you a slight indication if you will get on. I was going to say the same thing, u can withhold the number if you want your privacy, so yeah be cautious but dont make it a deal breaker Be very cautious is our advice xx " | |||
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"I never give out my number to anyone on here, not because im not genuine, but just because i dont like talking on the phone and i dont want people off here having my number, calling and texting all the time I have had some decide not to meet me because of this but thats their choice same as its mine not to give them my number All you can do is decide for yourself how you feel, if talking on the phone is important to you and they refuse to simple say thanks but no thanks then but remember it does not necessarily mean they have something to hide they may simply just want to keep their privacy" ^^^ What she said | |||
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