FabSwingers.com forum: Longest time without

By *essle_guy OP Man
over a year ago

hull

What's the longest time you've gone without any sexual activity with a partner (after losing your virginity)?

In my case, it's been over 3 years and getting longer every day.

If any ladies would like to take my swinging virginity, feel free to PM me.

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By *inkyalfieMan
over a year ago

hampshire

6 weeks is the longest I’ve gone without. 3yrs would kill me.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Mine was a touch under 5 years but I did have a bit of a breakdown in that time which for some reason tended to put sex to the back of the queue!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i would say 15 years or so

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

2 year was bringing up a toddler with disabilities on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with a girl in late 1986 Who I had sex with , then didn’t have a gf till autumn 1989 , so around 3 years without sex , I had arms like Popeyes arms , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years or so whilst in a relationship. Wasn't a healthy one at all.

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By *essle_guy OP Man
over a year ago

hull

"2 years or so whilst in a relationship. Wasn't a healthy one at all.

Yes, in a relationship you'd expect at least a few times a month

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

12yrs

Then I got divorced

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

That first meet must have been quite a relief

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I have gone years, dont see the problem with just wanking.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

That first meet must have been quite a relief

It was a good friend, who jokingly offered to help me out.

Half a bottle of gin later... Poor bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6months gaps for various reasons.. no longer than that I don't think.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

That first meet must have been quite a relief

It was a good friend, who jokingly offered to help me out.

Half a bottle of gin later... Poor bloke

If he was whimpering at the end, that’s a good sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been well over 6 years now since I've actually been inside her. Had my own bedroom for 9 years.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

3 years in a relationship, towards the end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10yrs after 1st encounter with GF and we both were 15yr old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm currently at 25 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 months I think, poor hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

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What was he doing wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 long months. But I used my toys so not technically without orgasms

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months until I met someone recently.

He’s certainly making up for lost time.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Never, because am not into relationships , makes no sense to me, the response on this thread proves my point , people find it so hard to get along , why start something that you know you can't finish, because all relationships are about managing misunderstanding that's the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few months when i stopped being attracted to my husband and would never cheat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was 8 years. I had no interest what so ever in guys or sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up on four years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!!!... some long old droughts going on, maybe a few weeks at most

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You wont get a sympthay vote from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years

ouch lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

Here

3 days and counting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years

ouch lol"

Through choice. I had no attraction to men haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years

ouch lol

Through choice. I had no attraction to men haha. "

Must have taken a special man to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years

ouch lol

Through choice. I had no attraction to men haha.

Must have taken a special man to change that

More nagging from friends that I was turning into an old maid and needed to get myself back on the dating circuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years

ouch lol

Through choice. I had no attraction to men haha.

Must have taken a special man to change that

More nagging from friends that I was turning into an old maid and needed to get myself back on the dating circuit

Haha, thank gawd for good friends

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By *ountbattenMan
over a year ago

Chester

Just over 18 months for me. Actually ended that duck last week thank the lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest 2 years, 2 weeks. Current dry spell of 1 year, 4 months and counting.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

3 years but my partner was ill so not his fault.

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By *nicorn hunterCouple
over a year ago

beccles

10years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

Lol love that reply

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Three years before joining fabs but partner had a serious illness. Since joining fabs it seems like a couple of weeks between liaisons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 years but what every i say no one believe it that how long i been back in the uk

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By *edwayvoyeursCouple
over a year ago

Medway

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

What was he doing wrong ? "

Not having sex with her I guess

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

7 years when I was with my ex

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

"12yrs

Then I got divorced

Might we entice you to Wales xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was 12 months 163 days and 6.5 hours

Recently it’s been 2weeks

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By *ischiefmanaged90Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Just over 6 years longest i've gone, currently on my way to equaling and maybe beating it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months but only due to her having major surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's 4 years for me currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's 4 years for me currently "

Same for me unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's 4 years for me currently

Same for me unfortunately

It's crap isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good mate

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

10 years, just over.

Split from a boyfriend at 25, didn't have sex again until I was 35.

In fairness, sex had been weaponised through my early relationships so I didn't get how much fun it could be and didn't know what I was missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently about 7 weeks.. feels like years! My longest is 9 months but I've used my toys meanwhile so not quite celibate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently about 7 weeks.. feels like years! My longest is 9 months but I've used my toys meanwhile so not quite celibate. "

Ahh not quite celibate

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By *arcolemMan
over a year ago

Killarney

About 6 months when i was 19 and heart-broken. Oh to be young and naive again. I swore i would never have sex again

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

Just entering a 9 week ban as other half has had an operation, unless I get any offers. Not looking forward to going without.

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By *limDickinsMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Been well over a year and a half for me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two days omg i was pulling my hair out

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

nr Bodmin

Not since 1991!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8.5 years by choice and it was very liberating tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married once!

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By *ockman3858Man
over a year ago

didcot

2 years Mrs gone off it

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

2 months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months when I was married as he worked away.

Now I’m single, 6 weeks is the longest. And that was because I was waiting for someone thinking he had loads of shit on but nope he was clearly Preoccupied elsewhere. Won’t make that mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8.5 years by choice and it was very liberating tbh "
omg i would have liberated you........ did you get a job as a nun by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married once!

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nooooo in this day and age really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest gap probably 5 weeks after a tough split from my ex. since been single probably longest gap would be 2 weeks I tend to date a lot.

This thread has suprised me how many people are in sex less relationships how come you stay with a partner if you aren't compatible in every way?. Genuine question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From 1993 until 2015. 22 years with my ex and although I had several opportunities with other women I always stopped myself. Its strange how your view of things change and how you adapt. My ex is still one of my best friends and still has no interest and probably never will have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearly 6 years

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By *aisy6Woman
over a year ago

bath

3 months

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Around 18 months whilst I was caring for my partner who had terminal cancer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently at 33 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was 6 years without sex with estranged and now about to be divorced husband. One of the many catalysts for me ending the 21 yr marriage over 8 years ago

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