FabSwingers.com forum: Is there Fab etiquette?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts...

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Just wondered if there’s such thing as Fab etiquette. I’m also part of a couple and a single lady messaged, has been speaking and messaging all directed at my partner, flirting and sending pics dispite him reminding her he’s part of a couple she’s ignored that, she’s no interest in me it’s aimed about playing with him. Previously as a single I wouldn’t of dreamt of doing that! What’s everyone’s thoughts..."

People are people and will conduct themselves as they see appropriate. That doesn't mean you have to tolerate it though.

If someone is messaging you in a way you're not comfortable with, make use of the block button and move on.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

A lot of people put in their profiles that they evict to be spoken to as a couple. It’s ofren aimed at men but principle is exactly the same. I’d bin her off personally. She smacks of the type of person who tries to be ‘better’ than a person’s partner - hoping to be wanted more.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

You make your own rules, it you only olay as a couple then thats your rule. If you want your partner to play alone then again thats your rule and if you explain that to people or put it in your profile what your looking for then people should respect that. People wanting to play outside your rules should be told politely that you dont play alone

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !

Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head

Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place

If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would raise a red flag for us. We have encountered this on a number of occasions. It’s totally disrespectful. If they are like that now imagine what it would be like if you met?

We call them the ‘dividers’ Avoid like the plague, they are just trouble.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think, like anywhere else, good manners should prevail. I doubt she would do that in a social situation anymore than either of you would tolerate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile should really be a couples one - have to admit we don't understand why so many couples advertise as single fems, when they have no intention of playing as a single fem - smacks of no success as a couples profile personally.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If she's messaged you on your couples profile I would consider that rude.

Does he have a single guys profile?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Your profile should really be a couples one - have to admit we don't understand why so many couples advertise as single fems, when they have no intention of playing as a single fem - smacks of no success as a couples profile personally."

They have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !

Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head

Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place

If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them "

Definitely this.

It's disrespectful imo.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is I feel a fab etiquette and she is most def taking the piss !

Men get a bad name on here but single fems are sometimes worse as the ‘power’ goes to their head

Perhaps a polite message from you would put her in her place

If you are talking to a couple you talk to both of them "

Yes overstepping the mark.

As a now swingle fem this is why I dont message couples, I'm not bi and have nobody to swap the hubby for. You clearly aren't happy with her behaviour, I'd block and delete.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's really rude

Block her ,if he's reminded her a few times she's not taking any notice.

Miss

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

That’s a straight ignore from us. We come as a pair so it’s both or nothing.

We get that sometimes one half of the couple is more active with the Fabmin side, but if they can’t both get involved with at least some messaging/contact then we often don’t pursue.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

glastonbury festival

Your partners account name is almost the same as your couples name, maybe because your partner meets she doesn’t realise it’s a problem . Has she been messaging him on his profile . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its rude.

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