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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possibly because they want to think your full attention is going to be on them?

dont know where you have stuck your penis?

i honestly wouldnt have a clue lol

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Its just a preference..

Women with big tits...Guys like!

Guys with big tits....

You cant ask why women/men are turned on/off by different things...

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

As I said in another thread, it doesn't bother me so long as the guy is upfront about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You cant ask why women/men are turned on/off by different things..."

well ya can, it's just ya'll get a million and one answers that'll leave ya more confuzzled than ever...

Wolf

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't find 2 bi girls playing a turn on.

probably similar I suppose

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

personally i love them (now i wonder who's fault that can be lol) but i just love the idea of being able to take a wee break from the action to watch -gets me worked up for round 2, 3 and more then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like bi men straight men tvs and some idiots LOL

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have no problem with bi men. Lets all get stuck in, I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no problem with bi men. Lets all get stuck in, I say! "

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

nothing against bi men, have lots of bi men friends but I can't bear to watch them ..... just one of those things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on the couple, could be down to a bad expierence, or just one of them dont like the idea at all.

you probs find for every couple thats not interested theres another that is

dont worry about things you cant change, its a pointless excersize!

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Don't bother me but Nick maybe not ! lol x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off"

We've encountered females who love seeing their male partner with another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (fem) find bi guys a turn off. Not quite sure why to be honest but it just puts me off from the start. I have nothing against bi men tho before anyone gets the wrong idea I just don't want to suck or fuck 1! I know plenty that LOVE bi men tho.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It would seem there can only be one of two answers...

Some people don't understand that bisexuals by default can play AND THINK straight.

Or one or other or both of the couple are in someway repulsed by the fact the bisexual male has had sex with another man.

This seems even stranger if its the fem of the couple, because she seems to enjoy sex with men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love bi guys i only do MMF with bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually dont find that myself 99% of the women i know love bi guys

Aint met many that dont ta be honest xx

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By *arsesCouple
over a year ago

15 mins south of Gatwick

Always confuses the hell out of me! We have a friend (femme) who refuses to meet bi guys cos they have had anal sex with a guy, but has no probs with a guy who has had anal with a girl!

Go figure!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why, but it annoys the fuck out of me when people ask "why" when they are excluded. God forbid anyone should have a personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why, but it annoys the fuck out of me when people ask "why" when they are excluded. God forbid anyone should have a personal preference.

"

Maybe it's worth starting a thread about why we are excluded (age wise) from the OP's preferences?

OP, there are loads of women who love bi guys that use Fab. Maybe it's NOT down to your sexuality, maybe there are other factors? Is every lady you contact replying "no thanks, you are bi"?

I can't answer for all the ladies on here, no one can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some of my best threeSomes wit bi men , what a turn on x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Always confuses the hell out of me! We have a friend (femme) who refuses to meet bi guys cos they have had anal sex with a guy"

Not all bi / gay men are into anal

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Women with big tits...Guys like!

Guys with big tits....

"

That's me on a Saturday night out then!

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By *a and kaCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire(ish)

Our preference is for Bi couples .... we just love all having fun together, can't beat it!!

But that is our preference ... each to their own

Please, please, please Gods of FAB can we have a bisexual search option? (and if you're feeling generous can we have a Sploshing one as well?? )

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Never tried it


"if you're feeling generous can we have a Sploshing one as well?? )"

But based on your pics would love to give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting comments guys, I posted a similar comment last year and got totally slated for it, when I rejoined I decided to leave my status as straight, dammed if you dammed if you don't.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"when I rejoined I decided to leave my status as straight"

Are you straight as per your profile?

I ask because your profile states your an honest guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off."

All the bi guys I've come across are submissive and that's not the type I like.

There is also the preconception that bi men are very promiscuous and more likely not to indulge in unsafe sex. I'm not saying that's the case its its just a preconception some have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

All the bi guys I've come across are submissive and that's not the type I like.

"

I so wanted ta tell you a story xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off."

loads of women and couples like bi men .... we actually prefer them !!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"There is also the preconception that bi men are very promiscuous and more likely not to indulge in unsafe sex."

20 years ago, that may have been the case, give some of us credit

Lots of couples on here participate in bareback action

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"It would seem there can only be one of two answers...

Some people don't understand that bisexuals by default can play AND THINK straight.

Or one or other or both of the couple are in someway repulsed by the fact the bisexual male has had sex with another man.

This seems even stranger if its the fem of the couple, because she seems to enjoy sex with men too "

I must be strange then because I have no interest in having sex with bi guys...

Cath..

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"I don't know why, but it annoys the fuck out of me when people ask "why" when they are excluded. God forbid anyone should have a personal preference.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual guys a yes!!!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I changed my profile to bi ages ago and found the number of people looking at my profile increased. Admittedly they were largely men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

All the bi guys I've come across are submissive and that's not the type I like.

I so wanted ta tell you a story xx"

waitin to hear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not been there yet,,, cant decide what to put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think like a dog and live the moment, what you done before and what you going to do next, well that ain't none of my business. If its nice lets do it again!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off."

i dont...you must just be meeting the wrong women, i have only ever met one who doesnt find 2 men together very horny

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Mrs FJ would strongly disagree she prefers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, it doesn't bother me so long as the guy is upfront about it "

Why is that so important? If you are playing with a guy one-on-one it shouldn't make a blind bit of difference if he likes playing with guys too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i dont understand why some people dont understand, its like alot of people wont do pain or water sports, unquestioned by most as a preference. but when it excludes a guy having fun with a couple that wernt going to entertain them anyways they cant hack the rejection lol

some people just not up for it, let em be haha

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off.

i dont...you must just be meeting the wrong women, i have only ever met one who doesnt find 2 men together very horny "

Funny that as there are at least 5 on this thread that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i love them (now i wonder who's fault that can be lol) but i just love the idea of being able to take a wee break from the action to watch -gets me worked up for round 2, 3 and more then "

Same here, just unlucky i havnt been amongst any yet (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women find guys that are bi sexual or even just bi curious a turn off. For men when comes to women most of the time its a turn off.

i dont...you must just be meeting the wrong women, i have only ever met one who doesnt find 2 men together very horny

Funny that as there are at least 5 on this thread that don't "

+1 T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they dont know what they are missing bi guys are great some women are just worried i think and you probably find its hubby saying omg no were not seeing him . cookies (the fem )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am completely turn off the idea of two guys together why ?

because i am just like some guys state no bigger than a size 12

its my preference

we r entitle to our own _iews xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they dont know what they are missing bi guys are great some women are just worried i think and you probably find its hubby saying omg no were not seeing him . cookies (the fem )"

Not at all, its just that to US - note the emphasis, and probably many others, its about as sexually appealing as scat!

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