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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all- I’m meeting a couple for the first time for a social just so we can all meet before getting it on lol.

Any suggestions on best places/ways to go about first meet?

Xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Will it be just a social or a social then sex?

If the former a bar or coffee shop, if the latter a hotel bar or somewhere close to either of your homes.

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

As above somewhere neutral coffee shop pub ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume it's a done deal. I bet the social is to see if they like you and connect. Be on your best behavior and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah just a social to begin with. See where we go from there then xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah pub was our thoughts x

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By *r loveslickinMan
over a year ago

Deeside

I'd go to coffee shop or quiet bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sound alike coffee shop or pub is the main consensus lol.

It’s nerve wracking- never been on a date with a couple before lol.

Thanks for all the replies though people xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't assume it's a done deal. I bet the social is to see if they like you and connect. Be on your best behavior and good luck "

Thanks mate!

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always do social meets first..pub or coffee is good. Just be yourself. It's easy to spot when you are putting it on. I'm sure you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always do social meets first..pub or coffee is good. Just be yourself. It's easy to spot when you are putting it on. I'm sure you'll be fine "

Ah that’s good advice.

Thanks guys xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sound alike coffee shop or pub is the main consensus lol.

It’s nerve wracking- never been on a date with a couple before lol.

Thanks for all the replies though people xxx "

It must be, we always try and make allowances for a single guy because we realise how daunting it must be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sound alike coffee shop or pub is the main consensus lol.

It’s nerve wracking- never been on a date with a couple before lol.

Thanks for all the replies though people xxx

It must be, we always try and make allowances for a single guy because we realise how daunting it must be.

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I hope this couple are as kind lol.

We’ve been chatting for ages and they seem lovely so I’m sure it will be ok it’s just not something you do every day lol xxx

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sound alike coffee shop or pub is the main consensus lol.

It’s nerve wracking- never been on a date with a couple before lol. "

Thanks for all the replies though people xxx

It must be, we always try and make allowances for a single guy because we realise how daunting it must be.

I hope this couple are as kind lol.

We’ve been chatting for ages and they seem lovely so I’m sure it will be ok it’s just not something you do every day lol xxx[/quotee]

Couples aren't scary. Do you not think we spend just as much time worrying you'll like us. I'm usually petrified at a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sound alike coffee shop or pub is the main consensus lol.

It’s nerve wracking- never been on a date with a couple before lol.

Thanks for all the replies though people xxx

It must be, we always try and make allowances for a single guy because we realise how daunting it must be.

I hope this couple are as kind lol.

We’ve been chatting for ages and they seem lovely so I’m sure it will be ok it’s just not something you do every day lol xxx"

No, it isn't. Remember though it isn't something couples do every day either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s true.

Thanks guys- makes me feel more confident! X

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