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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me if there are any clubs out there where i won't be the only one wearing latex rubber, where i can be restrained and flogged AND THEN have a good old fashioned shag?

i've been to 3 clubs/parties so far and it seems that fetish and swing just don't mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.. Well most people into fetish or bdsm I know think swingers are immoral and cheats..

and most swingers I know think those into fetish and bdsm are strange.. so it is no wonder they dont meet often..

Howver, I have seen a few men flogged in Chams before.. ( although not overly) and wearing pvc...

good luck.. I am into fetish but wouldnt be seen dead in pvc lol so I would be in lace and being spanked lol

Cali

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Look up Torture Gardens and Club Rub in London, there is also a strong rumour locally that Westward Bound are reintroducing their famous fetish nights in Plymouth this year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replys and i'll be checking them out

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

try the kage at partners bury last Sunday of each month 2 - 8pm

special valentines kage Sunday 12th

should be just what your looking for

lily n Keith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark"

this may be due to the main times the two groupes interact is at "fetish" nights at swingers clubs .

there is nothing more off putting during fetish/s&m play than some oaf standing playing with his cock whilst shouting "go on whack her arse " can break the mood and spoil the play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

this may be due to the main times the two groupes interact is at "fetish" nights at swingers clubs .

there is nothing more off putting during fetish/s&m play than some oaf standing playing with his cock whilst shouting "go on whack her arse " can break the mood and spoil the play .

"

i agree there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a bit into the control of fetish , bdsm rather than the issuing of pain , i was told of a munch on weds near me

wanna join me miss scarlett68 it would be my first munch xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark"

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines the control but the occasional pain can be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be one in Hatfield - round the back of Asda - but not sure if its still there - i will try and find out for you x

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By *urvyhornygirlWoman
over a year ago

hull


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My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?"

+ 1 X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There used to be one in Hatfield - round the back of Asda - but not sure if its still there - i will try and find out for you x"

thanks i don't mind how far i have to travel....if its what i'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see why fetish and swing dont mix - most swingers clubs include a dungeon or dungeon area - and I think it would be off-putting whether swinging or fetish to have "some oaf" standing masturbating and shouting anything lol but spose it takes all sorts - after all, its all good fun, whatever you wear xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i am a bit into the control of fetish , bdsm rather than the issuing of pain , i was told of a munch on weds near me

wanna join me miss scarlett68 it would be my first munch xx"

thanks but i can't do wednesdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know jct 2 rent out their dungeons , how about we do a 'BEST OF BOTH' night

so not a seriouse fetish night but ohhhhh all that latex and leather xx

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


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My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?"

check out fetlife there are a few play meets listed on there i am into bdsm and swinging but have found it hard t find fellow playmates until i met Sir that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?

check out fetlife there are a few play meets listed on there i am into bdsm and swinging but have found it hard t find fellow playmates until i met Sir that is"

i went to a fetlife event on sunday afternoon.....definately no sex and hardly anybody dressed up.....just me in my latex catsuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?

check out fetlife there are a few play meets listed on there i am into bdsm and swinging but have found it hard t find fellow playmates until i met Sir that is

i went to a fetlife event on sunday afternoon.....definately no sex and hardly anybody dressed up.....just me in my latex catsuit "

ooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was being seriouse about a night for both , do you think it would work ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i was being seriouse about a night for both , do you think it would work , "

if enough people were interested then yes... having said that i am in the process of turning my front room into a dungeon so maybe i'll just have to hold my own private parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

La chambra in Sheffield have a very nice dungeon.

Kat x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i go from bristol to winchester every weekend , so love to pop in for some fun scarlett xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

opps just re -read scarletts profile

obviously i meant pop in to help set up the room not for any other reason ,

err am i digging a bigger hole xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"opps just re -read scarletts profile

obviously i meant pop in to help set up the room not for any other reason ,

err am i digging a bigger hole xx"

well at least you did read it which is a damned sight more than most people do

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"There used to be one in Hatfield - round the back of Asda - but not sure if its still there - i will try and find out for you x

thanks i don't mind how far i have to travel....if its what i'm looking for"

as pointed out the Kage this sunday 2-8pm at partners bury fetish party where sex goes on also last sunday of every month

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By *a and kaCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire(ish)


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My BDSM and FETISH friend really doesnt speak highly of Swingers and gives the impression thats the view of a lot of Fetish/BDSM types...

So the odds of a club exsisting that covers that are minimal.... shame as well because I really like Latex/Rubber/Pvc as does Jayne!

Mark

but surely i can't be the only one who wants the best of both worlds - i like BDSM and i like sex...why can't i have both ?

+ 1 X"

+ a couple more to that tally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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as pointed out the Kage this sunday 2-8pm at partners bury fetish party where sex goes on also last sunday of every month "

oooh good to know!! It's our thing too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've looked at Partners website and it looks great...its 200 miles from me so i think i'll make a long weekend of it

just for clarification...is it only the single guys that have to pay memebership or am i missing something?

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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Can anyone tell me if there are any clubs out there where i won't be the only one wearing latex rubber, where i can be restrained and flogged AND THEN have a good old fashioned shag?

i've been to 3 clubs/parties so far and it seems that fetish and swing just don't mix "

Might be worth looking at Heathrow Dungeon Zone - thats held once a month at Abfabs.

KnS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me if there are any clubs out there where i won't be the only one wearing latex rubber, where i can be restrained and flogged AND THEN have a good old fashioned shag?

i've been to 3 clubs/parties so far and it seems that fetish and swing just don't mix

Might be worth looking at Heathrow Dungeon Zone - thats held once a month at Abfabs.

KnS

"

Abfabs is good, and I have enjoyed some great nights there, and to be honest, I don't think you would have to focus on the Dungeon Zone night, plenty of likeminded folk there on other nights, especially the bi night hehe

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"i've looked at Partners website and it looks great...its 200 miles from me so i think i'll make a long weekend of it

just for clarification...is it only the single guys that have to pay memebership or am i missing something?"

for the kage party afternoons its a flat £10 entryfee for all if your coming up this weekend its also club lash saturday evening and the manchester fetish munch saturday afternoon so you could make a proper weekend of it !

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