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Random guys asking to join forces to meet couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had a lot of guys asking this recently not my thing buts what your view on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wouldnt meet FB's or sex friends, or whatever you want to call it.

just not our thing.

prefere to meet people that care as much about thier own relationship that we do about ours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's how I feel to meet three strangers to have some fun ie random guy and couple just seems rather cold to me. Love socials and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's how I feel to meet three strangers to have some fun ie random guy and couple just seems rather cold to me. Love socials and clubs."

yeah, have no idea how you would be able to relax, in all honesty.

suppose it would be different if you met with a bloke, and decided to go to a club together or somthing.

but deff not our thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some lasses like to do it who are single and arnt confident or secure enough to visit a couple on their own,

but i guess the guys are too stupid for their own good

anytime ive coupled up with a lady its only ever been brought up after we had our first meet. if thats a guy intention i would say at least get your first 1 on 1 meet out the way with them, and do your best to blow them away and maybe if they open to it they couple up.

and to be fair ive only been in two couples and ive never asked any of them to do it either they always wanted to see more of me and when ive been through what ive done before they shown interest in doing it, or they already done it with someone else and thats what they were looking for in a fuck buddy/partner

i wouldnt dream of just messaging people saying oh lets couple up without meeting them first, reeks of desperation in all honesty (plus how can you even know you are compatible if you dont at least shag each other once!) if i got asked and i was the woman, id think nice try ! so you cant get a meet so you want in on my meets? haha

at first i thought you meant 2 guys coupling up to try and get more action haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also guess it may be an attempt to increase the chances of meeting a couple or indeed make the male more attractive to others if he can say he has a FB who he can bring.

A FB couple can be good, but they would have had to have known each other for a while i think so they know each others tastes etc and so be relaxed in their own company never mind in the company of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's how I feel to meet three strangers to have some fun ie random guy and couple just seems rather cold to me. Love socials and clubs."

yeah exactly even if fuck buddies you both gotta want to couple up for the right reasons, not just have them as strangers that you meet with the other couple for the first time too, i cant imagine any couples would really go for that either.

like everyone ive coupled with they been genuine feelings there for both of us, wasnt like we just did it to get more sex, thats never a problem, it was to just enjoy each other and expeirence things together as well with others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also guess it may be an attempt to increase the chances of meeting a couple or indeed make the male more attractive to others if he can say he has a FB who he can bring.

A FB couple can be good, but they would have had to have known each other for a while i think so they know each others tastes etc and so be relaxed in their own company never mind in the company of others."

I not got a problem with fb coulpes as there is already some sort of connection its just setting up to meet three strangers just for sex leaves me cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A FB couple can be good, but they would have had to have known each other for a while i think so they know each others tastes etc and so be relaxed in their own company never mind in the company of others."

yeah kind of, not sure how long, coz u do get some people where u proper click and feel like u knew them for much longer.

but i think when couples dont like going with fuck buddies its because they have had couples like this who are only hooked up to get more cock/fanny and both have different wants and needs and might of even caused friction during the meet, i mean without that relationship behind it, it will be quite easy for one of them to get jealous if they dont get the attention they want out of the meet.

you need that relationship and the want to see them have fun too just as much as your own or you probs going to have akward meets if the moody one dont get their own way

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Funnily enough I find 'coupling up' at clubs helps my score rate with the single gents enormously. If I'm sat somewhere on my own people don't approach me, but if I am playing with a guy its not long before the cocks come out to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife had a meet arranged with a guy and same day she was due to be seeing him we noticed he had put a looking to meet today. She was aware that 1 other guy might be there but not that it was to be an orgy so she cancelled and hasn't met anyone else since. At the end of the day if you are going to meet up with someone and have sex with them you don't want a load of unexpected people there as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funnily enough I find 'coupling up' at clubs helps my score rate with the single gents enormously. If I'm sat somewhere on my own people don't approach me, but if I am playing with a guy its not long before the cocks come out to play."

Coupling up for clubs is one thing I enjoy prefer club atmosphere but to couple up to go to a couples home just for sex is another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with like minded people getting together to enjoy a wider variety of experiences. It may also add an element of safety, once you'd got to know and felt comfortable with the M side of the FB couple, to be going to meets together,

safety and added fun in numbers

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Funnily enough I find 'coupling up' at clubs helps my score rate with the single gents enormously. If I'm sat somewhere on my own people don't approach me, but if I am playing with a guy its not long before the cocks come out to play.

Coupling up for clubs is one thing I enjoy prefer club atmosphere but to couple up to go to a couples home just for sex is another."

I'll let you know after Friday. To be fair I have met the guy before, and he's met the couple before, but it will be a first time for me.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If I want to meet the couple and I want to meet the guy... I don't see what the problem is... it's no more cold than meeting either on their own.... but a hell of a lot more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an odd one all round but if it appeals go for it, if it doesn't then dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met unattached couples and have had great times.

We're in this because we both want to experience sex with others. It doesn't matter to us if they're married, attatched, or are just aquaintances.

The psychology of swinging couples is as complex as any other.

It needn't be complicated, it's just that everyone has their own ideas, rules and whatever else they want to throw into the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think its fine for singles to link up as manufactured couples, but would prefer them to be honest about it.

we do not KNOWINGLY meet fuckbuddies, but possibly have played with them in clubs and not known.

we have our reasons for prefering to play with real couples though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to be naïve to think that some guys see attracting a fuck buddy purely for meeting others as a passport to more sex, but I personally wait to be invited as usually if I know the lady concerned I can trust her judgement regarding other potential meets.

Plus if I wanted sex with more people I'd simply either accept an invitation to a party or arrange more meets, it would be easier to arrange as I'd only have to worry about myself getting the time off! Good job really because even that can be tricky at times...

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