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"Been on the look out for genuine lovely ladies who are older and mainly interested in younger guys. Had no trouble with meeting people of similar ages but I find there is a bit of a lack of cougar’s on this site. What are you guys genuinely looking for( bar age) and where am I best looking to find you elusive lot. Happy fabbing " Every single Cougar will be looking for different things. You may have all the things that one of them wants and she still won’t want to meet you. Don’t make the mistake of thinking all older women are Cougars though or that Cougars present themselves in the media perceived standard. | |||
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"Been on the look out for genuine lovely ladies who are older and mainly interested in younger guys. Had no trouble with meeting people of similar ages but I find there is a bit of a lack of cougar’s on this site. What are you guys genuinely looking for( bar age) and where am I best looking to find you elusive lot. Happy fabbing Every single Cougar will be looking for different things. You may have all the things that one of them wants and she still won’t want to meet you. Don’t make the mistake of thinking all older women are Cougars though or that Cougars present themselves in the media perceived standard. " This. Older women are individuals. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. " Hence my sarcasm about the zoo!!!! i hate labels!!! lol  | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. Hence my sarcasm about the zoo!!!! i hate labels!!! lol "Yes and me  | |||
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"Being called a cougar is something that turns me off straight away! My perception of a cougar is an older woman in the ‘real world ‘ who takes advantage of often pissed up young lads on a night out - which I find repugnant! I meet younger guys - but I certainly don’t stalk/chase them like a cougar! I’m too fecking old and lazy for all that! "You do make me smile x | |||
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"Mmm but the initially attraction will be the way you look before they get to know you. " And initial attraction will differ between people. There's no blanket answer, perhaps except "putting everyone in a certain demographic into the same basket will piss most of them off." | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. " This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.." You can still find someone sexually desirable for more reasons than just their age (ethnicity, whatever). And many find the social side here important. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. You can still find someone sexually desirable for more reasons than just their age (ethnicity, whatever). And many find the social side here important. " That’s true. Though, surely that can only blossom by giving people a chance. If someone gets in touch from a desire to sleep with an older lady, surely that can be a start. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. You can still find someone sexually desirable for more reasons than just their age (ethnicity, whatever). And many find the social side here important. That’s true. Though, surely that can only blossom by giving people a chance. If someone gets in touch from a desire to sleep with an older lady, surely that can be a start. " No. I don’t want to be anyone’s fetish just because of how many years I’ve been alive. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. You can still find someone sexually desirable for more reasons than just their age (ethnicity, whatever). And many find the social side here important. That’s true. Though, surely that can only blossom by giving people a chance. If someone gets in touch from a desire to sleep with an older lady, surely that can be a start. No. I don’t want to be anyone’s fetish just because of how many years I’ve been alive. " Some men find an older lady to be more attractive. It’s not always just a numbers game. Sex should be enjoyable, you seem to be judging people with your own pre-conceived ideas. I had imagined this website to have less judgements, though this seems not to be the case. | |||
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"There's nothing wrong with the fetish. There's everything wrong with "You're sexy because you happen to be much older than me". Someone can be sexy for many reasons, including age. But to just say it's about age is almost, I don't know, dehumanising. What about smile, laugh, sense of style, mischievous sense of humour, reputation, way they present themselves, something about the individual? " None of that is evident from a profile that only displays their breasts and lower body though. This website is not about any of those things you mentioned. This is not plenty of fish. It’s about sensation and heightening sexual experiences. This is the problem with this website, no one is aware of the purpose and expects to be treated like they’re on a date. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.." That’s fair enough and your desire may be an older woman but if someone sold it to me as that then I wouldn’t be interested. When I say ‘like me for being me’ I mean I want someone to be attracted to me not just want to tick having sex with an older lady off their list. Some won’t mind I’m sure but I would. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. That’s fair enough and your desire may be an older woman but if someone sold it to me as that then I wouldn’t be interested. When I say ‘like me for being me’ I mean I want someone to be attracted to me not just want to tick having sex with an older lady off their list. Some won’t mind I’m sure but I would. " If someone had mentioned in a first message, their preference for an older lady: would you automatically assume they were ticking off a list? Personally, I get on better with someone older, regardless of gender or activity (so this is also socialising). I also in general find women older than myself to be more attractive, more enjoyable in bed also. It’s my preference, though I’m sure that due to pre-conceived ideas upon the subject, most would object to there ever being a meet:- so none of the ‘liking you for you’ would ever be able to come to fruition. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. That’s fair enough and your desire may be an older woman but if someone sold it to me as that then I wouldn’t be interested. When I say ‘like me for being me’ I mean I want someone to be attracted to me not just want to tick having sex with an older lady off their list. Some won’t mind I’m sure but I would. If someone had mentioned in a first message, their preference for an older lady: would you automatically assume they were ticking off a list? Personally, I get on better with someone older, regardless of gender or activity (so this is also socialising). I also in general find women older than myself to be more attractive, more enjoyable in bed also. It’s my preference, though I’m sure that due to pre-conceived ideas upon the subject, most would object to there ever being a meet:- so none of the ‘liking you for you’ would ever be able to come to fruition. " This site is whatever the person using it wants to be. If I’m sent messages with ‘I’m into older women’ they get deleted. The vast majority of men here just want to stick their cock in a wet hole, the vast majority of women don’t want to be that wet hole. | |||
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"There's nothing wrong with the fetish. There's everything wrong with "You're sexy because you happen to be much older than me". Someone can be sexy for many reasons, including age. But to just say it's about age is almost, I don't know, dehumanising. What about smile, laugh, sense of style, mischievous sense of humour, reputation, way they present themselves, something about the individual? None of that is evident from a profile that only displays their breasts and lower body though. This website is not about any of those things you mentioned. This is not plenty of fish. It’s about sensation and heightening sexual experiences. This is the problem with this website, no one is aware of the purpose and expects to be treated like they’re on a date. " It may be about that for you. But as Topsy says, that kind of thing can feel like, oh, you're a wet hole who'll do, not a person. And I know I'm not alone in not being down for that. (I have things about me that get fetishised too, and it doesn't get guys anywhere. I'm a person, not an X characteristic) I'm not dating. Not by a long shot. I'm having physically exciting social time with people where we all like and respect each other. If that's too much like dating for you, then we see things very differently. Profile text helps ascertain some things about a person, like sense of humour. It's a good place to start. | |||
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"Wet hole has become my new  phrase "Sometimes it feels like "wet* hole with a pulse*" *optional. That's worse. | |||
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"Wet hole has become my new phrase
Sometimes it feels like "wet* hole with a pulse*" *optional.
That's worse. "A pulsing wet hole. Oh my | |||
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"Wet hole has become my new phrase
Sometimes it feels like "wet* hole with a pulse*" *optional.
That's worse.
A pulsing wet hole. Oh my "Haha. I mean alive. | |||
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Ive played with a few younger guys who would put the older more experienced guys to shame but then Ive also played with older guys who would put the younger guys to shame.
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"There's nothing wrong with the fetish. There's everything wrong with "You're sexy because you happen to be much older than me". Someone can be sexy for many reasons, including age. But to just say it's about age is almost, I don't know, dehumanising. What about smile, laugh, sense of style, mischievous sense of humour, reputation, way they present themselves, something about the individual? None of that is evident from a profile that only displays their breasts and lower body though. This website is not about any of those things you mentioned. This is not plenty of fish. It’s about sensation and heightening sexual experiences. This is the problem with this website, no one is aware of the purpose and expects to be treated like they’re on a date. It may be about that for you. But as Topsy says, that kind of thing can feel like, oh, you're a wet hole who'll do, not a person. And I know I'm not alone in not being down for that. (I have things about me that get fetishised too, and it doesn't get guys anywhere. I'm a person, not an X characteristic) I'm not dating. Not by a long shot. I'm having physically exciting social time with people where we all like and respect each other. If that's too much like dating for you, then we see things very differently. Profile text helps ascertain some things about a person, like sense of humour. It's a good place to start. " No..... that is the general definition of dating. So, you want a man to fit your desires, yet you shouldn’t have to fit there’s. This is a fwb and swinging site, the proof is in the name. You can’t just twist things into what you want them to be. Those that pretend to respect you, are the ones that generally see you as a wet hole. At least the others are upfront and honest. | |||
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"There's nothing wrong with the fetish. There's everything wrong with "You're sexy because you happen to be much older than me". Someone can be sexy for many reasons, including age. But to just say it's about age is almost, I don't know, dehumanising. What about smile, laugh, sense of style, mischievous sense of humour, reputation, way they present themselves, something about the individual? None of that is evident from a profile that only displays their breasts and lower body though. This website is not about any of those things you mentioned. This is not plenty of fish. It’s about sensation and heightening sexual experiences. This is the problem with this website, no one is aware of the purpose and expects to be treated like they’re on a date. It may be about that for you. But as Topsy says, that kind of thing can feel like, oh, you're a wet hole who'll do, not a person. And I know I'm not alone in not being down for that. (I have things about me that get fetishised too, and it doesn't get guys anywhere. I'm a person, not an X characteristic) I'm not dating. Not by a long shot. I'm having physically exciting social time with people where we all like and respect each other. If that's too much like dating for you, then we see things very differently. Profile text helps ascertain some things about a person, like sense of humour. It's a good place to start. No..... that is the general definition of dating. So, you want a man to fit your desires, yet you shouldn’t have to fit there’s. This is a fwb and swinging site, the proof is in the name. You can’t just twist things into what you want them to be. Those that pretend to respect you, are the ones that generally see you as a wet hole. At least the others are upfront and honest. " I'm sorry you feel that way. What I do is working just fine for me. | |||
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"I would like someone to like me for being me, not because I’m older. This is a swinging website though? Surely the entire point is sexual desires, rather than friendship.. That’s fair enough and your desire may be an older woman but if someone sold it to me as that then I wouldn’t be interested. When I say ‘like me for being me’ I mean I want someone to be attracted to me not just want to tick having sex with an older lady off their list. Some won’t mind I’m sure but I would. If someone had mentioned in a first message, their preference for an older lady: would you automatically assume they were ticking off a list? Personally, I get on better with someone older, regardless of gender or activity (so this is also socialising). I also in general find women older than myself to be more attractive, more enjoyable in bed also. It’s my preference, though I’m sure that due to pre-conceived ideas upon the subject, most would object to there ever being a meet:- so none of the ‘liking you for you’ would ever be able to come to fruition. " Unfortunately I probably would, rightly or wrongly. I would prefer to be approached because they wanted to get to know me a bit better. I do appreciate what you’re saying though. You have a type and there’s nothing wrong with that. | |||
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"I suppose I'm what you'd call an older lady. I suppose I've been spoilt by mature gents. Who have years of exspriance to work on my body, senses and mind. Young lads I find from exspirance, need a sat nav, bang away at your tonsils and I'm done and off, you? Thats why we have age limits" Bang away at your tonsils lool | |||
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"A fetish is a fetish, I’m not sure being offended because there is something specific about you someone likes makes sense? It would be like a guy saying I don’t want women to find me attractive because of my big arms lool "You explained it perfectly, thank you. | |||
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