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"Really think people need to not tie asian guys all In the same brush we are not all the same there are not so nice and pushy people in all ethnic backgrounds so you wouldn't rule every one out !!!!!!" All down to ignorance and reading gutter media I fear. | |||
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"Are all single guys, married guys, couples single ladies, black guys, Korean, Welsh, American etc etc the same? " no but most aussies are!!!!!! only joking!!!!!!!!!!!! lol | |||
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"Are all single guys, married guys, couples single ladies, black guys, Korean, Welsh, American etc etc the same? " No but you don’t see 'Sorry, no Welsh or Americans'' on profiles. | |||
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"Preferences. im Asian and I get a lot of meets" | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything." ain’t that the truth.... | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything." we live in an asian/indian/muslim/pakistani area and have faced racism towards us on multiple occasions even to the point of mr getting punched for walking up a street.not gonna say everyone is like this as mr has also worked in a asian/indian/muslim/pakistani warehouse where tgey was great to get on with but yeah experiences do decide such things.still is not racist if we choose not to play with certain colours. | |||
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"Are all single guys, married guys, couples single ladies, black guys, Korean, Welsh, American etc etc the same? No but you don’t see 'Sorry, no Welsh or Americans'' on profiles. " But you often see 'white only' or 'black only'. Even 'sorry - no white guys'.I guess it's a personal choice ….whatever gets us going I suppose.... | |||
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"Preferences." “Preferences” are meant to be about what you like. It’s a positive term. A preference isn’t stating what and who you dislike. People misuse that term on here. | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything." There have been a few posts in the past about Asian guys at clubs being "grabby" and disrespectful. I've never been to a club, so I can't confirm that but I would imagine you get "grabby" types in all races. I'm mixed-race (African/Asian - think Tiger Woods but fatter!) but I don't tend to go for either Asian or African women. My preference is for blue-eyed blondes, and there ain't many of them from my ethnicity! | |||
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"Preferences. “Preferences” are meant to be about what you like. It’s a positive term. A preference isn’t stating what and who you dislike. People misuse that term on here." I have a preference for people that aren't dickheads | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything." | |||
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"I live in a largely Muslim area and I have seen people at both ends of the spectrum. A large portion of the Muslim males I've found to be rude, disrespectful and quite sleazy. Having said that, I've met some lovely people, an Iraqi family invited my daughter and I to their New Years celebration and it was very interesting to find out more about how they celebrate. It's true that there are good in every race/religion/community etc." Absolutely It only takes 1 idiot for everyone to be tarnished with the same brush..... You can do a million good things but if you do 1 bad thing that’s the only thing people remember unfortunately.... | |||
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"We have met some nice Asian guys. " Same as. We treat every individual the same and if you're not for us it will have absolutely nothing to do with your race but your attitude, behaviour or lack of sexual attraction. | |||
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"Preferences. “Preferences” are meant to be about what you like. It’s a positive term. A preference isn’t stating what and who you dislike. People misuse that term on here. I have a preference for people that aren't dickheads " Dickheads are everywhere, colour shouldn't come into it..if you are a dick then people will soon suss you out... | |||
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"Preferences. “Preferences” are meant to be about what you like. It’s a positive term. A preference isn’t stating what and who you dislike. People misuse that term on here. I have a preference for people that aren't dickheads Dickheads are everywhere, colour shouldn't come into it..if you are a dick then people will soon suss you out..." Exactly! | |||
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"All Asain are not the same some good some bad like every other race..but my experience with some hasn't been good some rude arragant But what always has puzzled me why it's 90% Asain men playing and never the Asain wife's girlfriend etc...as I would love to play with some... " | |||
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"Really think people need to not tie asian guys all In the same brush we are not all the same there are not so nice and pushy people in all ethnic backgrounds so you wouldn't rule every one out !!!!!!" | |||
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"It’s their choice who they meet. If you don’t like their choice then use it as a filter " It is a very useful filter | |||
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"Really think people need to not tie asian guys all In the same brush we are not all the same there are not so nice and pushy people in all ethnic backgrounds so you wouldn't rule every one out !!!!!!" I like Asian men, intelligent articulate and classy ones | |||
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"Really think people need to not tie asian guys all In the same brush we are not all the same there are not so nice and pushy people in all ethnic backgrounds so you wouldn't rule every one out !!!!!! I like Asian men, intelligent articulate and classy ones " Well some of us are | |||
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"I live in a largely Muslim area and I have seen people at both ends of the spectrum. A large portion of the Muslim males I've found to be rude, disrespectful and quite sleazy. Having said that, I've met some lovely people, an Iraqi family invited my daughter and I to their New Years celebration and it was very interesting to find out more about how they celebrate. It's true that there are good in every race/religion/community etc." Being Asian & being Muslim are 2 different things. Educate yourself | |||
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"I live in a largely Muslim area and I have seen people at both ends of the spectrum. A large portion of the Muslim males I've found to be rude, disrespectful and quite sleazy. Having said that, I've met some lovely people, an Iraqi family invited my daughter and I to their New Years celebration and it was very interesting to find out more about how they celebrate. It's true that there are good in every race/religion/community etc. Being Asian & being Muslim are 2 different things. Educate yourself " I was solely talking about Muslim people hence why I specified the religion. So get off your high horse. | |||
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"It's a bullshit thing to say no asians. It's just a skin colour. You get sexy, articulate, respectful horny humans no matter what the colour of their skin is. Imagine being asian and reading that over and over again? Its stereotyping a huge population as them all being the same " it’s about attraction if Asian black white or whatever it’s wveryones choice it’s not racist its preference or are we all supposed to like the same go PC | |||
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"It's a bullshit thing to say no asians. It's just a skin colour. You get sexy, articulate, respectful horny humans no matter what the colour of their skin is. Imagine being asian and reading that over and over again? Its stereotyping a huge population as them all being the same it’s about attraction if Asian black white or whatever it’s wveryones choice it’s not racist its preference or are we all supposed to like the same go PC " I’m sure I’ve said this already but preference is meant to be about what you like and enjoy. If your “preference” is to say that you dislike a whole ethnicity, that’s not preference at all. I agree everyone can find whoever the want attractive or unattractive. But at least admit it’s not preference if you’re judging a whole race based on nothing other than their race. | |||
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"It's a bullshit thing to say no asians. It's just a skin colour. You get sexy, articulate, respectful horny humans no matter what the colour of their skin is. Imagine being asian and reading that over and over again? Its stereotyping a huge population as them all being the same it’s about attraction if Asian black white or whatever it’s wveryones choice it’s not racist its preference or are we all supposed to like the same go PC " Agree. I do think though that people should post what they prefer on their profile as opposed to what they don’t like. So instead of “Won’t meet Asians” put “Seeking black & white males”. It’s a bit more positive I think. That’s what I do on my profile, because I think listing a bunch of negatives or “don’ts” can make your profile overall come across negative. | |||
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"Preferences. im Asian and I get a lot of meets" Probably thanks to that weapon you’re waving around | |||
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"I think its great those that single out certain races they dont want to meet on their profile, it makes it easier for me to avoid them, as I much prefer to meet like minded people who base preferences on actual attractiveness rather then which part of the world they originate from." You do know that can affect facial features and therefore attractiveness, for some, no?! | |||
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"Because of these “persistent pushy guys” it has really affected the rest of our chances to interact with others, a lot of us Asian guys are handsome, can hold a conversation and are very respectful." There isn’t many of those guys. It’s just an excuse | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything. There have been a few posts in the past about Asian guys at clubs being "grabby" and disrespectful. I've never been to a club, so I can't confirm that but I would imagine you get "grabby" types in all races. I'm mixed-race (African/Asian - think Tiger Woods but fatter!) but I don't tend to go for either Asian or African women. My preference is for blue-eyed blondes, and there ain't many of them from my ethnicity!" I'm mixed race (white/black) and have a preference for South Asian guys. | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything. There have been a few posts in the past about Asian guys at clubs being "grabby" and disrespectful. I've never been to a club, so I can't confirm that but I would imagine you get "grabby" types in all races. I'm mixed-race (African/Asian - think Tiger Woods but fatter!) but I don't tend to go for either Asian or African women. My preference is for blue-eyed blondes, and there ain't many of them from my ethnicity! I'm mixed race (white/black) and have a preference for South Asian guys. " Hi your preference is 1 year above my age! Do I wait a year before I message or better yet do you inbox me and we can have a chat X | |||
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"People have preferences. Just because someone doesn't want to fuck you doesn't mean they're judging you. We're all different with different tastes." | |||
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"Problem is there appears to be a memetic war against western society, which is being generalised by many. In an odd way, can’t understand why. Oh, is it the same memetic value with the IRA First or even the Second World War? Even the 100 year war, which lasted 116 year. Anthropology creates certain patterns, of memetics, is it an odd thing? No Can it be dealt with?" I wish I understood what this means | |||
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"People have preferences. Just because someone doesn't want to fuck you doesn't mean they're judging you. We're all different with different tastes." | |||
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"We have met some nice Asian guys. " love it | |||
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"I don’t understand why Asian guys get such a bad rep. Especially on here. Nobody ever goes deeper into explaining their thoughts other than the cliché “it’s a preference”. Personally, some of the most polite and attractive men and women I’ve ever met have been Asian. Some of the worst people I’ve ever met have been white. Do I think their wthnkcity was linked to those things? Nope. Race doesn’t dictate anything." | |||
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"They are stereotyped for not being good looking or attractive. " I'm not sure that is the case at all. I think that there is more of a stereotype of guys being rude or disrespectful... personally we prefer to ignore stereotypes and allow individuals to be individual. Cal | |||
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"They are stereotyped for not being good looking or attractive. We believe sex has to be with choice and not forced, if someone doesn’t like it then it’s their choice. Period" Kya bund ha ma'am g fabulous | |||
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