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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I notice that profiles vary widely in terms of detail and pictures.

Surprisingly I have found the more discrete and less detailed profiles to be more engaging and positive.

Anyone else consider less to be more?

*btw I’m not knocking the great profiles where people have clearly spent time and effort*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point having a long winded profile. May as well keep it short and sweet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Letting actions speak rather then words?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I like to have something to read - something that tells me about the person and what they're into. But anything too much longer than one phone screen starts to lose my interest. Like football pitches for distance, that's my yard stick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree, when you end up scrolling it feels more like a council update or a school report

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm thinking of drastically shortening mine. When I have done though I've had messages off guys when I say about a preference that I should have put it in my profile x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd rather give people something to work with.

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

We have a lot of text but done in a fun way, well I hope. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so many people don’t bother reading a profile anyway so what’s the point of putting info in there?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of drastically shortening mine. When I have done though I've had messages off guys when I say about a preference that I should have put it in my profile x"

That’s a good point, some clarity does help

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like to have something to read on a profile but I don’t like negative shouty types.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think so many people don’t bother reading a profile anyway so what’s the point of putting info in there?!"

I read every profile as someone has taken their time. I just find that those with little detail are more open to responding to a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a lot of text but done in a fun way, well I hope. X"

Yours is long but it’s easy to read and interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to have something to read on a profile but I don’t like negative shouty types. "

I hate shouty types. I just read your profile and I think that’s a happy medium in that your clear with detail but not rambling or shouty

Nice pics too

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I'm thinking of drastically shortening mine. When I have done though I've had messages off guys when I say about a preference that I should have put it in my profile x"

We done that but ended up adding bit by bit to say what we're after so back to more rather than less

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By *atcake1973Man
over a year ago

stoke on Trent

I find the more detail

The better

I can then see what he/she/they want

Or after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short and sweet is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Short and sweet is fine by me."

It’s not some much about how much you put in but what you put that may attract a persons attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of drastically shortening mine. When I have done though I've had messages off guys when I say about a preference that I should have put it in my profile x

We done that but ended up adding bit by bit to say what we're after so back to more rather than less"

Iv done that plenty too lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No, it pisses me off to be honest, I've had 3 men message me tonight asking to meet because they like my pictures, however, their profiles are bloody sparse with no public pics at all!

WTF ask someone to meet you when they don't have a bloody clue what you look like, and I am not even going into the fact that they obviously haven't read any of my bloody profile, otherwise they wouldn't have messaged me in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it pisses me off to be honest, I've had 3 men message me tonight asking to meet because they like my pictures, however, their profiles are bloody sparse with no public pics at all!

WTF ask someone to meet you when they don't have a bloody clue what you look like, and I am not even going into the fact that they obviously haven't read any of my bloody profile, otherwise they wouldn't have messaged me in the first place "

People can just go off pics rather than understand what a person wants and if there is likely to be a connection. Regardless of length of a profile I’ll always make an effort to see if I’m compatible

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"No, it pisses me off to be honest, I've had 3 men message me tonight asking to meet because they like my pictures, however, their profiles are bloody sparse with no public pics at all!

WTF ask someone to meet you when they don't have a bloody clue what you look like, and I am not even going into the fact that they obviously haven't read any of my bloody profile, otherwise they wouldn't have messaged me in the first place

People can just go off pics rather than understand what a person wants and if there is likely to be a connection. Regardless of length of a profile I’ll always make an effort to see if I’m compatible "

None of them have any bloody public pics though, nor did they attach any, so what am I meant to go on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it pisses me off to be honest, I've had 3 men message me tonight asking to meet because they like my pictures, however, their profiles are bloody sparse with no public pics at all!

WTF ask someone to meet you when they don't have a bloody clue what you look like, and I am not even going into the fact that they obviously haven't read any of my bloody profile, otherwise they wouldn't have messaged me in the first place

People can just go off pics rather than understand what a person wants and if there is likely to be a connection. Regardless of length of a profile I’ll always make an effort to see if I’m compatible

None of them have any bloody public pics though, nor did they attach any, so what am I meant to go on? "

Sorry I meant men will just look at your pics and not bother read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less can sometimes be more

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

Short sweet punchy but not to cocky is the key for us, war and peace doesn't do much for us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less can sometimes be more "

That’s what I’m finding...more likely to respond to my messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Short sweet punchy but not to cocky is the key for us, war and peace doesn't do much for us x "

True, polite and to the point I guess

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What’s too long and what’s too short?

I’ve recently slashed a lot from ours and also on my solo profile, however some have still said it’s long.

I just like to but of personality into them to help people get an idea of who we are.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x"

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?"

I'm losing weight, so I'm updating my pictures. The difference with some is quite striking!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Some long profiles are good to read and some not, depends how there written and ofcoarse the content

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Ours is pretty long winded and a bit jumbled so does need a makeover. But we always prefer detailed bios that give a real flavour of those behind them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What’s too long and what’s too short?

I’ve recently slashed a lot from ours and also on my solo profile, however some have still said it’s long.

I just like to but of personality into them to help people get an idea of who we are."

I’d say yours is just right. It’s not shouty either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

I'm losing weight, so I'm updating my pictures. The difference with some is quite striking! "

Well done. I'll look forward to perving them... I mean seeing them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x"
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Looks good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting, so mine is practically empty purposefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, when you end up scrolling it feels more like a council update or a school report"

People love to scroll.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

I'm losing weight, so I'm updating my pictures. The difference with some is quite striking!

Well done. I'll look forward to perving them... I mean seeing them "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?"
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I like fresh and less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

I'm losing weight, so I'm updating my pictures. The difference with some is quite striking! "

Well done with the weight loss. Hope your happy with the results x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, when you end up scrolling it feels more like a council update or a school report

People love to scroll. "

Lol

Lawnmower

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

I'm losing weight, so I'm updating my pictures. The difference with some is quite striking! "

That’s a great reason!

Nancy x

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What’s too long and what’s too short?

I’ve recently slashed a lot from ours and also on my solo profile, however some have still said it’s long.

I just like to but of personality into them to help people get an idea of who we are.

I’d say yours is just right. It’s not shouty either "

Thank you!

I saw recently shouty was seen as too aggressive than intended so have since steered clear

Nancy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, when you end up scrolling it feels more like a council update or a school report

People love to scroll.

Lol

Lawnmower "

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?"

Did get rid of some recently, have also lost a bit of weight. Don't think you should keep them for too long though, maybe years should be the limit.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Mine is kind of long but I think if guys can't be arsed to spend less than 2 minutes reading it then I cba with them either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is kind of long but I think if guys can't be arsed to spend less than 2 minutes reading it then I cba with them either! "

I think it’s what we hope to get but I do agree that effort should be made. You found the master kisser yet?

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Our is probably too long, and probably too many pics - for some.

But it works for what we want out of fab, so anyone else’s opinion doesn’t matter - so it’s a useful filter as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think so many people don’t bother reading a profile anyway so what’s the point of putting info in there?!

I read every profile as someone has taken their time. I just find that those with little detail are more open to responding to a message"

You’re a minority, most I think just look at pictures/location then message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think so many people don’t bother reading a profile anyway so what’s the point of putting info in there?!

I read every profile as someone has taken their time. I just find that those with little detail are more open to responding to a message

You’re a minority, most I think just look at pictures/location then message "

If someone has taken the time with a profile it’s only right. Plus some people’s tastes are rather interesting

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

It's all bullshit rant on single guys not reading face pic privacy all crap that's why I don't bother with them

Introduce ur self in 2 lines and 2 what u looking finish

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've tried to balance short with a few key reasons to not waste your time messaging me.

Don't think it's worked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've tried to balance short with a few key reasons to not waste your time messaging me.

Don't think it's worked "

I don’t think it could be any better. Your to the point, not shouty, and you know what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep thinking about re writing mine. It's a bit long but takes a minute to read. Plus everything I need to say is written there.

They don't want to read it then fine.. they can move on to the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep thinking about re writing mine. It's a bit long but takes a minute to read. Plus everything I need to say is written there.

They don't want to read it then fine.. they can move on to the next "

Comes down to what you want from fab I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep thinking about re writing mine. It's a bit long but takes a minute to read. Plus everything I need to say is written there.

They don't want to read it then fine.. they can move on to the next

Comes down to what you want from fab I guess"

Yeah very true. I do take time to read peoples bios. I find most of them quite interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the 'im A guy, looking for a girl' and that's it. I like to know more about wot he's into, wot he's looking for. Maybe like 2 paragraphs.

I think mines is a bit long winded and repetitive, but ppl don't read it anyway

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham

I like an air of mystery... otherwise there is little to find out x

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

Did get rid of some recently, have also lost a bit of weight. Don't think you should keep them for too long though, maybe years should be the limit. "

Should read 3 years lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ours is short enough but says it all. We have quite a lot of pictures though K x

Yeah that’s also a question, how many pics is too many?

Do you keep the old or do you keep them fresh and less?

Did get rid of some recently, have also lost a bit of weight. Don't think you should keep them for too long though, maybe years should be the limit.

Should read 3 years lol x"

Lol

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