FabSwingers.com forum: Are couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I think we are. Obviously any message we send is top notch

but I have noticed that attitudes towards us have shifted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t get many messages to be honest, if we do it’s mostly guys assuming they are talking to me (on our couples profile)

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

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It would be somewhat ironic if couples became the least wanted demographic group on fabswingers wouldn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

Discuss.

It would be somewhat ironic if couples became the least wanted demographic group on fabswingers wouldn’t it ? "

The fact that single men outnumber all other groups combined suggeats it should be called 'Fabsingleguys'.

.......says the single guy

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

"What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ironic that when you see a couple on cam in a chat room and you take a peek there is actually a couple there....a couple of bollix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly"

Yeah this, single women profile, get talking get to the point of meeting then its “oh sorry forgot to mention my husband/partner wants to come with me and watch is this ok, or he will play too if you allow him”

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple” "

Report the profile, Admin will change it to a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

Discuss.

Probably the man who does the mailing.

Wuu2 luv fancy a fuk

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

This!

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

couples really seem to lack manners on here they think they are more important than others but really aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couples really seem to lack manners on here they think they are more important than others but really aren't. "
not all couples are the same ,there plenty of couples with manners

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly"

You need to report these profiles to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

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Yup. A lot of couples are too boring and over confident on here... Most messages they send are unsolicited lists of demands or “come over now?”.

There are some fit as fuck couples on here tbh. But most I wouldn’t look twice at, so I have no idea where they get the confidence from.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"couples really seem to lack manners on here they think they are more important than others but really aren't. "

I have to agree here, the sense of entitlement is very strong with a lot of them as well. I've noticed a big difference, compared to when I first joined over 3 years ago.

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By *neamigoMan
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

Some couples are very nice and honest, however many just delete your message without a reply or even opening it ... my gripe

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Is it National knock Couples day?... Lol

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"couples really seem to lack manners on here they think they are more important than others but really aren't. not all couples are the same ,there plenty of couples with manners"

Well mannered here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Proportionally, guys make much more of an effort than couples or women do, and often couples or women get much more offended when you delete or say no.

OK, you guys can probably get away with more crap, but that doesn't mean I'm going to take it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel like single guys. We really get next to no messages. Nothing seems to happen on Fab these days. A few years ago on another profile we got a lot more messages. Not sure if Fab has just gone downhill or we’ve gone downhill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We feel like single guys. We really get next to no messages. Nothing seems to happen on Fab these days. A few years ago on another profile we got a lot more messages. Not sure if Fab has just gone downhill or we’ve gone downhill!

Has quietened down on here

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

Yeah we find the ‘see you if you’re already at the club ‘ the least stressful and most sexy until we know someone then we meet them elsewhere

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Is it National knock Couples day?... Lol"

No, just a few observations about how things are now compared to how they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

Discuss.

It would be somewhat ironic if couples became the least wanted demographic group on fabswingers wouldn’t it ?

The fact that single men outnumber all other groups combined suggeats it should be called 'Fabsingleguys'.

.......says the single guy

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true plus it harder for single men here loll

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Is it National knock Couples day?... Lol

No, just a few observations about how things are now compared to how they were. "

Everyone gets a turn!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Is it National knock Couples day?... Lol

No, just a few observations about how things are now compared to how they were.

Everyone gets a turn! "

It'll be ours tomorrow lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The new ‘single guys’?

Im not looking but if I was it’s so rare a couple send anything worth replying to.

Discuss.

It would be somewhat ironic if couples became the least wanted demographic group on fabswingers wouldn’t it ? "

They were one of the reasons I joined up. I stopped looking quite quickly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Is it National knock Couples day?... Lol

No, just a few observations about how things are now compared to how they were.

Everyone gets a turn!

It'll be ours tomorrow lol. "

I'll live

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

We've been on the site for quite a long time..... We don't think it's changed for the worse.

Maybe we are too busy having fun to notice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlike single males I don't get any messages from couples so unable to give a balanced opinion

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Unlike single males I don't get any messages from couples so unable to give a balanced opinion "

i rarely get messages from couples full stop

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We've been on the site for quite a long time..... We don't think it's changed for the worse.

Maybe we are too busy having fun to notice... "

Probably because you are a couple and not a single. I've had a couples profile on here before at the same time as a single profile, there was a vast difference in the style of messaging from the same people between the 2 accounts. People were less pushy and more respectful when messaging the couples account. The very same people would send one liners, got really pushy or abusive when I said no on my single account. Totally different experience when we said no on couples account.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Be interesting if all the singles were to be on say Fab Singles as to see ratios on here. We joined as couple for couples believing that was swinging, the lifestyle etc. We've had to block single males due to messages, wanna fuck you etc which is so not what we are after. Haven't found much in rudeness from couples but as we're not after hotel meet hookups off here it acts as a filter, so works for us.

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

I think some people look far too deeply at things... It's meant to be fun, not a slog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples.

Two people.

Two sets of naughty bits.

Two personalities.

Two ego's.

Two people to not offend by saying the wrong

thing.

Two interpretations of what is acceptable.

Two people to try and impress with you pics and profile.

I tend to avoid couples. It is hard enough getting people to want to meet me one at a time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ironic that when you see a couple on cam in a chat room and you take a peek there is actually a couple there....a couple of bollix."

yea the wifes always out or at work or getting the kids to bed ... blah blah blah ......

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Be interesting if all the singles were to be on say Fab Singles as to see ratios on here. We joined as couple for couples believing that was swinging, the lifestyle etc. We've had to block single males due to messages, wanna fuck you etc which is so not what we are after. Haven't found much in rudeness from couples but as we're not after hotel meet hookups off here it acts as a filter, so works for us. "

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1 "

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

Great idea x

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By *ambon2015Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Will the couples that have no manners please behave yourselves,You are spoiling it for us polite couples.We are never rude to anyone probably because we hardly get any messages! lol. True about a lot of the girls profiles we look at turning out to be coupled up people just trying a another angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

There was Fabflirts a few years back for singles, but the gazillion men to 34 women probably killed it off.

Rather than dedicated sites, if people just read profiles....

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

There was Fabflirts a few years back for singles, but the gazillion men to 34 women probably killed it off.

Rather than dedicated sites, if people just read profiles...."

That's the problem, so many don't but hey you soon learn who to interact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

There was Fabflirts a few years back for singles, but the gazillion men to 34 women probably killed it off.

Rather than dedicated sites, if people just read profiles....

That's the problem, so many don't but hey you soon learn who to interact with

Absolutely! But I have found recently that sometimes people message you when you aren't what they are looking for, but they like the cut of your jib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look for a couple as I like best of both worlds but hardly get any messages

mostly men xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

To be honest, we’ve noticed no difference on the rest of the site with attitudes to us and our interactions are much the same.

However the forum has become less couples friendly and more singles orientated.

A couples site only would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

To be honest, we’ve noticed no difference on the rest of the site with attitudes to us and our interactions are much the same.

However the forum has become less couples friendly and more singles orientated.

A couples site only would be good. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

To be honest, we’ve noticed no difference on the rest of the site with attitudes to us and our interactions are much the same.

However the forum has become less couples friendly and more singles orientated.

A couples site only would be good. (

Yep a couples only site would be fantastic

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly"

...or, with us, about an hour before we're supposed to meet, the she becomes we. That we really don't get - do they think we'll suddenly say, you know what, you're right, it was a couple we were looking for...?

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I always look for a couple as I like best of both worlds but hardly get any messages

mostly men xx"

Move south to, say,...Hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

That's why I'm glad there are filters, so I can block the people I don't want messaging me.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Glad it's not just us that feels a Fab Couples Swingers site is needed

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think it would be great to have a fab singles site, but then it would probably still be men outnumbering women 10 to 1

Exactly, but we feel there should be a fab couples site. So many men think your just here for a shag so you'll want them

There was Fabflirts a few years back for singles, but the gazillion men to 34 women probably killed it off.

Rather than dedicated sites, if people just read profiles...."

Oh that will never catch on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad it's not just us that feels a Fab Couples Swingers site is needed "

Why does it have to be run by Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple” "

We agree! We have chatted to so many women and we thing we have found the perfect one and just as were about to arrange a meet up pops the .... I will be bringing my fuck buddy, or husband with me to join in, but it never states on the woman's profile that she only meet with her bf/husband etc, if that's the case then why dont they have a couples profile instead of making people think it will be just the woman meeting as it's a womans profile, or atleast have it stated on the profile that this is what you prefer etc.

And we make an effort when we message a woman, we actually read the profile first before looking at any pictures to see if we match etc and if we so then we actually put some thought into any message we send as we ourselves know what a ball ache it is to get the crappy "read your profile I think were what your looking for etc" and they clearly didn't even read it lol.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Definitely feels like couples are the odd ones out on here.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

There are some absolutely lovely couples on here, but there are also the ones that message you expecting you to be some kind of performing monkey/free prostitute who then tell you that you shouldn't be here when you refuse their demands. It's why I no longer play with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely regarding messages, I have always found couples to be respectful and moralized. Single ladies in my limited experience have been manipulative and rude to me. I did say limited experience and maybe this is a result of the behaviour of 'single men' giving them a hard time.... and a few with big heads ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Purely regarding messages, I have always found couples to be respectful and moralized. Single ladies in my limited experience have been manipulative and rude to me. I did say limited experience and maybe this is a result of the behaviour of 'single men' giving them a hard time.... and a few with big heads ha ha ha!"
thanks for sticking up fo all the couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

This is absolutely spot on. Every meet bar 1 single guy meet we have had has been because of a club. We now say "we are going to this club and do you want to come"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple”

Report the profile, Admin will change it to a couple."

You actually can't win on this! I was part of a couples profile with my husband, but he doesn't play, so I changed to a singles profile. But now that's not right either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages we don’t answer them all because we just don’t have time , we are never rude to anyone even the ones that don’t take the hint we are not interested .. we rarely send first messages .. we haven’t come across any nasty people on here.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"We get a lot of messages we don’t answer them all because we just don’t have time , we are never rude to anyone even the ones that don’t take the hint we are not interested .. we rarely send first messages .. we haven’t come across any nasty people on here.

Exactly the same for us .

Very rarely do or did we get any rude messsages on here . Infact the only rude messages we’ve ever had in almost nine years on fab have been from people using the forum before being blocked !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just finding the right couple for us which is the hardest part for us, the physical attraction and click and chemistry has to be there all ways so it’s not that easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *erri and GaryCouple
over a year ago

London

Cant honestly say that anything has changed. There are still the chancers who are single guys trading as couples and then there are the real couples who are lovely and real. But lets not forget the single guys who are honest about what they want and are upfront about it so at least we can decide who and what we want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple”

Report the profile, Admin will change it to a couple.

You actually can't win on this! I was part of a couples profile with my husband, but he doesn't play, so I changed to a singles profile. But now that's not right either!

If he doesn't play thats not the problem. Its the ones that are suggesting they are single until you arrange a meet and suddenly this bloke mysteriously appears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

Every single woman whose contacted us becomes a couple so quickly

Or another annoyance is when your searching fab “looking for single women who are bi etc” lots of profiles pop up, you see one you like read the bio and it says “part of a couple”

Report the profile, Admin will change it to a couple.

You actually can't win on this! I was part of a couples profile with my husband, but he doesn't play, so I changed to a singles profile. But now that's not right either!

If he doesn't play thats not the problem. Its the ones that are suggesting they are single until you arrange a meet and suddenly this bloke mysteriously appears.

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yes we’ve had the same a few times now, on a single females profile no meantion of a guy then comes to meeting is it okay to bring my friend or I know someone etc along them lines.

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If he doesn't play thats not the problem. Its the ones that are suggesting they are single until you arrange a meet and suddenly this bloke mysteriously appears.

yes we’ve had the same a few times now, on a single females profile no meantion of a guy then comes to meeting is it okay to bring my friend or I know someone etc along them lines. "

That’s so rude!

It’s why we’re so open about our couples profile and that when using our solo profiles it’s for a solo meet.

I’d never just assume to bring Syd or me to his meets. Yeah, just plain rude.

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he doesn't play thats not the problem. Its the ones that are suggesting they are single until you arrange a meet and suddenly this bloke mysteriously appears.

yes we’ve had the same a few times now, on a single females profile no meantion of a guy then comes to meeting is it okay to bring my friend or I know someone etc along them lines.

That’s so rude!

It’s why we’re so open about our couples profile and that when using our solo profiles it’s for a solo meet.

I’d never just assume to bring Syd or me to his meets. Yeah, just plain rude.

Nancy

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yes totally agreed and if that’s the case they should have a couples profile be it even if they are fwbs so that they can meet couples, we had our singles profiles but removed them because this suits us better and we don’t play alone. No hidden agenda just say it how it is and enjoy fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, ignorant.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What we are finding is more single lady profiles that are actually couples or women wanting to get to to the top of the hot photos pages.

We rarely use this site for private meets now. More for chatting and telling people who do want to meet us when and to which club we are going.

Still get plenty of interest (the chat rooms help on this front).

This is absolutely spot on. Every meet bar 1 single guy meet we have had has been because of a club. We now say "we are going to this club and do you want to come"

Chat rooms are great for getting to know people in your region. X

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We get messages but they are from guys who haven’t read the profile so they’ve just wasted their time really. The odd one or two guys who look promising are usually not free when we are or disappear altogether. Perseverance and low expectations are the key qualities I feel.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We get messages but they are from guys who haven’t read the profile so they’ve just wasted their time really. The odd one or two guys who look promising are usually not free when we are or disappear altogether. Perseverance and low expectations are the key qualities I feel."

"We get messages but they are from guys who haven’t read the profile so they’ve just wasted their time really" this is the way I see it it. They haven't wasted my time at all as I'm more likely to ignore there message or just read and delete it.

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over a year ago

I think it's obvious that no one group is unilaterally shit. But rather it's a minefield of competing expectations and desires. Sometimes they much up. The majority of times they won't

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If he doesn't play thats not the problem. Its the ones that are suggesting they are single until you arrange a meet and suddenly this bloke mysteriously appears.

yes we’ve had the same a few times now, on a single females profile no meantion of a guy then comes to meeting is it okay to bring my friend or I know someone etc along them lines.

That’s so rude!

It’s why we’re so open about our couples profile and that when using our solo profiles it’s for a solo meet.

I’d never just assume to bring Syd or me to his meets. Yeah, just plain rude.

Nancy

I (very) occasionally couple up with my FWB, but if that happens he or I make it clear from the word go. I've had the "oh by the way boyfriend" thing too. Sorry, no. If I agree to meet a lady, I expect to meet a lady.

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