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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

I have always been on the skinny side of the weight scale and always seen it as a barrier.

When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.

Do you think im being silly or is this an issue others face?

It would be interesting to see what your thoughts are on this both male and female.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a body pic or two on display instead of just cocks and cum, so that readers of your profile can decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Just having cock pics doesn't always appeal. You need to have more body pics and maybe leave something to the imagination. Not all women want to see pics of hard cocks all the time. They like to see what else they are getting lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like skinny men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.

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Why do you automatically assume that. It suggests you may have a self image issue.I wouldn't worry about it. loads like slim men..that's slim,not skinny.god i hate that word

a slim man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Besides your body looks fine. Better than mine anyway lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have never really been comforwtable with my size I generally assume that im too 'slim'. Maybe im just being over critical.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I'm pretty slim.. Has its benefits and drawbacks

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

There are people of all shapes and sizes on Fab. There are some out there who like each of our body types but, with most, there has to be a certain attraction to the person as a whole not just their body.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I might be slim but i love my women curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be slim but i love my women curvy"
definitely in full agreement with you there. Love curvy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job some curvy ladies like their gents slim then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be slim but i love my women curvy"

go on, say fat, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good job some curvy ladies like their gents slim then! "
Glad to hear it x

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

lol jackand kate

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"I might be slim but i love my women curvy

go on, say fat, lol"

okay I admit i love them fat... happy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beauty of swinging is that there's someone for everyone, no matter what you look like someone will find you attractive.

As others have said, give people something to swoon at on your profile and you may find an increase in your uptake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The beauty of swinging is that there's someone for everyone, no matter what you look like someone will find you attractive.

As others have said, give people something to swoon at on your profile and you may find an increase in your uptake"

or just send 'em a tenner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look good in your body pic. Well toned and not skinny.

I agree about the cock and cum pics though. I think generally us ladies prefer something else than just that.

Most of us have something about their bodies they don't like. But luckily everyone has a different taste!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

I have always been on the skinny side of the weight scale and always seen it as a barrier.

When i speak to people on here i automatically assume they would not like me due to me being skinny.

Do you think im being silly or is this an issue others face?

It would be interesting to see what your thoughts are on this both male and female.

Thanks

"

everyone carries their own insecurities, my adviced is if you see someone you like mail them with pics and let them decide if they like you or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, when I was 21 I was 9 stone 10 to 12 depending on when I weighed myself. At over six foot that's a bit past slim I think you'll agree.

With the right training though you will eventually develop a more muscular physique at some point as your racing metabolism finally slows a little. I got to that stage just before 30, which is great now as while I can pack muscle on with hard training a beer gut just isn't happening. Trust me the build you have is best in the long run.

And until you reach that age enjoy yourself regardless. Being a particular shape or size doesn't stop you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only seeking slim/medium built guys, big built guys don't do nothing for Shaz.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are being silly, I suspect your lack of confidence is the real barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you are being silly, I suspect your lack of confidence is the real barrier"

you can say that about anyone tho

but what we may see as silly is very real to some people

Hes doing no different to when women come on here worried they may be to big

Its just lack of confidance that holds us back, slim or big there will be someone on here for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's amazing what insecurities people carry

my mate is 28/29 waist which for a 43 yr old is pretty good.

he is in the gym 5 nights a week and has the body a lot of younger men would kill for, let alone guys his age

big arms, solid chest, thin waist, yet he is totally self conscious that he is 'too fat' as despite his best efforts he has the tiniest of love handles which he can't shift for love nor money

all the guys think he's barking, but it is how he sees himself that is the issue, not how others see him

what seems a big deal to you i dare say would go unnoticed by the majority

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the posts. Didnt think get this much interest.

Good to hear your thoughts on the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the posts. Didnt think get this much interest.

Good to hear your thoughts on the issue"

ive got a couple of stone going spare if it will make you feel better

i know off loading it would make me feel better lol

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I have one or two them stones please.

I slim too always been, I am have the same thoughts as the OP.

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you are being silly, I suspect your lack of confidence is the real barrier

you can say that about anyone tho

but what we may see as silly is very real to some people

Hes doing no different to when women come on here worried they may be to big

Its just lack of confidance that holds us back, slim or big there will be someone on here for you "

That is what I meant though, he did ask if he was being silly to which I said yes, I was just at a friends and on my Iphone and couldn't be bothered to write more. Besides I would have only said what others including you have said so pointless but I stand by what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seen skinnier and from your picture its not going to set people alight but neither should it put them off. I think you are just one of many many men on here rather than something being wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur arent skinny ur just very lean

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