FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

What iv come to learn about Fabs & Meets....

Jump to newest
 

By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

...if you dont meet at first opportunity the chance has gone !!!! Jeeze the amount of chances iv had but was at work or busy is mad !!! Now things moved on and so have they ffs ! Some are real world'ies !!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes good things come to those who wait.

I met someone at the first opportunity, it just happened to be 18 months from the first time we messaged each other. If it is meant to be, they'll wait.

I lost a good friend because she felt I was trying to fit her in at my convenience.

Moral of the story? Don't try to rush things. If it fizzles out because they have moved on, move on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offers Most days , but when I’m working and from guys , why arnt you ladies messaging me offering you services

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things are worth waiting for however most men on here prefer what is the easiest option ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Prefer to take my time and plan things in advance personally - gives a chance to get to know each other properly and build a connection and chemistry - if someone wanted to meet right away and wasn't prepared to wait then they weren't the right person for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for however most men on here prefer what is the easiest option ??"

The easiest option isn't always the best option. Anything that has worth is worth working for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Mauchline


"...if you dont meet at first opportunity the chance has gone !!!! Jeeze the amount of chances iv had but was at work or busy is mad !!! Now things moved on and so have they ffs ! Some are real world'ies !!!! "

Like most things in life; if it’s meant to be, it’ll be

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Believe me ive missed out on 2 probably 3 absolute stunners !!! Very hard to not think about it when coming on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Believe me ive missed out on 2 probably 3 absolute stunners !!! Very hard to not think about it when coming on here "

Perhaps not looking at it as "missing out" and thinking of it as if they weren't prepared to wait or arrange for another time, they weren't right for you is the way to go

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Prefer to take my time and plan things in advance personally - gives a chance to get to know each other properly and build a connection and chemistry - if someone wanted to meet right away and wasn't prepared to wait then they weren't the right person for me "

Gemini has got it just right

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What works out works out, my rule is play it by ear.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *OWERFLOWER1Couple
over a year ago

southeast essex


"Sometimes good things come to those who wait.

I met someone at the first opportunity, it just happened to be 18 months from the first time we messaged each other. If it is meant to be, they'll wait.

I lost a good friend because she felt I was trying to fit her in at my convenience.

Moral of the story? Don't try to rush things. If it fizzles out because they have moved on, move on."

Lovely words xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I get offers Most days , but when I’m working and from guys , why arnt you ladies messaging me offering you services "

"services?!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...if you dont meet at first opportunity the chance has gone !!!! Jeeze the amount of chances iv had but was at work or busy is mad !!! Now things moved on and so have they ffs ! Some are real world'ies !!!! "

Nah, that's not true for all. For some it will be, specifically those seeking instant gratification or those who need physical contact very soon to reinforce opinion, but I'd honestly say about a third of my meets have been with ladies I'd been in touch with for a while and often it wasn't the 1st chance of meeting them? I didn't meet the lady who I ended up coupling up with for weeks either as I work away often.

SOME will fizzle out sure, but that's just life really and isn't specific to Fab.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get offers Most days , but when I’m working and from guys , why arnt you ladies messaging me offering you services

"services?!" "

Quite! This isn't an escort site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"...if you dont meet at first opportunity the chance has gone !!!! Jeeze the amount of chances iv had but was at work or busy is mad !!! Now things moved on and so have they ffs ! Some are real world'ies !!!!

Nah, that's not true for all. For some it will be, specifically those seeking instant gratification or those who need physical contact very soon to reinforce opinion, but I'd honestly say about a third of my meets have been with ladies I'd been in touch with for a while and often it wasn't the 1st chance of meeting them? I didn't meet the lady who I ended up coupling up with for weeks either as I work away often.

SOME will fizzle out sure, but that's just life really and isn't specific to Fab."

Agreed.

I don’t think it’s a fab specific thing and also you have to understand that you won’t always be the only person someone is speaking to and meeting with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top