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How come young single males don't get a chance??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"
they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two line profile and you ask why your not getting meets...?

Older ladies and couples do meet younger guys.... We just need to feel they are worth it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!

What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.

Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.

Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I was counting the profile header as part of the 3 lines of text...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I certainly can't complain at all. I've had some great fun and met some lovely people. Its all down to how you introduce yourself. You must be polite and friendly. If the first thing you say in your greeting is 'hi, fancy a fuck' then your not going to get anywhere. As they say, first impressions count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile certainly needs to be better than it is. Its amazing how far proper spelling and punctuation can go. You need to sell yourself, make yourself appealing to whoever you're wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this helps you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"

Because we have kids your age...simples

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

there are couples and singles thay meet guys like you. They are bombarded by single guys all day long. Well known fact its always harder for a single guy on any sites like fab.

You need to sell yourself to people which will make them take some interest in you. I heard the rooms are also a great place to chat with like minded people. Get yourself to socials in your area. Then with any luck you will start to get recognised and start getting taken seriously. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go for younger guys...just 30 is younger to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

can't have it both ways....

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/uk/76194

if people are going to play the "age" card... just like anything else... you are going to alienate as many people as many people as are going to be attracted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short profile that says nowt, can't accomodate and fuzzy pics - think that's more the problem than your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!

What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.

Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.

Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend!"

nicely put! you don't need to display a face pic though...but i'd advise sending it in messages to women you do want to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't get a chance because from what i have seen they spend all their time winging about not getting a chance and not putting in any freaking effort to grab that chance they are so desperate for....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"

They do, just prefer someone with a profile! Z

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By *usup4funsouthMan
over a year ago

tidworth

Do realise there's 100s of single men on this site so couples and females have a good choice. Gotta put some effort in to fella. I no I aint had any meets but I'm trying and even I no the meets just don't fall on ya lap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We give single guys a chance

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Personal choice perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked his profile. Its still the same. Hasn't listened to a word we've said. Oh well.....

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

if the person doesn't fit what other people are looking for then they won't talk more in regards to meeting. if you go to tesco to buy a mango, you want a juicy ripe one you wouldn't go and choose an unripe tomato would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol thats funny

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Like Femme said, they do. I know lots of young lads on here that are filling their boots. And its all about perspective, I'm young to some on here lol!

What women don't tend to go for though is a profile like the one you have. Three lines of non-descript text screams "no imagination" to most ladies and you have two photos of your cock and not a lot else plus a photo where you can make out bugger all. You don't have to have a face pic in your public gallery (I don't and I do ok) but try for a bit of variety.

Your profile is your shop window, try and make it interesting and seductive. At the moment yours is like a shop window that is getting refurbished with nowt but an old stepladder and a spread dustsheet in it.

Spice it up a bit and you will reap the rewards my friend!"

Big ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz all the old fat hubbys are jelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.

Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.

The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!

Cynical but it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.

Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.

The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!

Cynical but it works "

guess you get loads with that attitude (possibly about t orun dry...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.

Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.

The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!

Cynical but it works "

Assuming you're not messaging anyone that reads forums!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not messaging anybody now.....duh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not had a meet for 2 months and i'm a female lol. Your luck will change good things come to those who wait

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.

Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.

The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!

Cynical but it works

Assuming you're not messaging anyone that reads forums!! "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm not messaging anybody now.....duh...."

LOL good one hiding your profile though. Poor guys can't check it out to see your amazing success rate!

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

Its already been said you need to extend your profile and stand out from the crowd there are hundreds of guys on here looking for the same i am bombarded every day on joint and single profile by single guys and we do meet the ones who stand out to us but the ones who lie and talk utter bs are never asked back again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not had a meet for 2 months and i'm a female lol. Your luck will change good things come to those who wait "

ah, sure thats your choice, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not messaging anybody now.....duh...."

im shocked.

how could you deny the female populous of fab your insightful regalings of the worlds problems and solutions.

who knows, they may even fancy you as much as you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there."

Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i meet a younger male.

i like to see good photos and a good profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol "

old your 36 LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow amout of women on here who have knocked me back as I am too old for them as they are just looking for hot young stud muffins haha dont no what the ops problem is lol

old your 36 LOL"

I no hun but trust me there are loads of fems on here (and some older than me) who only go for lads less than 30yrs old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there.

Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam..."

Haha why thank you for your approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"
alot do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there has to be some kind of rationale in choosing a young guy. I believe most people have one and use it. You would be quickly elimited for lack of effort.

If they are looking for young they are looking for a bit o pazaaaaaz!!!!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like younger guys ..Just not boys . At least older than my kids.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I like younger guys ..Just not boys . At least older than my kids."

I think what people look for is someone who comes across as a 'sorted guy', and has respect and patience, as opposed to arrogance and impatience. Discretion will also see you go far. Not everyone has that, but there's no reason if not, why not.

I'd lose the out of focus pic, and put a series of body shots and put the face and cock pics in the private bit. Flesh your profile out, and get on the map. It's going to be hard work, the sort of effort that sees many fall by the wayside. The exception to that can be you.

Good luck

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have spoke to a few younger men than my criteria i met 1

one guy was younger than my criteria and he was mature a decent profile and not thinking with his cock all the time ( till later)

the other guy was immature who thought a hole was a goal and thought his cock was the answer to everything ( i didnt meet)

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Some of us prefer them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"

Well as it goes ALL the ones we have approached on here are only looking for pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some of us are really not interested in young guys or girls for that matter, its our choice and preference, something we are entitled to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??

Well as it goes ALL the ones we have approached on here are only looking for pics!!"

shock horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Blocked the OP simply because he can't read and obviously hadn't read our profile. The one line message was like a million other one hit wonders that may or may not have been a cut and paste mail drop. " Fancy a meet" doesn't cut the mustard when we say we are not looking for people under 35. Think before you write, don't write just because you are horny and above all read the profile of the people you are writing to.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i've been on this site for ages but no luck

whys is it mature couples or females don't go for younger guys??"

some do some dont...what are you doing to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got to play the women here at their own game. Even the ugly fatties here have profiles with a list of demands as long as their arm (or the circumference of their gut haha)so to stand a chance with the very attractive looking women you've got to sculpt your profile in to something very appealing.

Don't be scared to look at other guy's profiles - see if they are successful, look at verifications and see the type of women they are meeting then you have a benchmark for your own profile.

The biggest tip is don't be afraid to lie! It's a site where anonymous people fuck each other, it's not a dating site and you owe these people nothing. A dime to a dozen they'll be lying too. Just make the lies plausible!

Cynical but it works "

Am I the only one who thought this post was bloody hilarious?!

You may not like it, but you gotta admit the guy's got balls! Nice work!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Its a bit of pot luck mate and who seems to be local to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a bit of pot luck mate and who seems to be local to you."

I have set my mail filters for over 30's, because as good looking as they are, I don't have enough in common with a 20 something to have much of a meaningful conversation. Also I'm not as confident with younger guys I feel that they might be more critical of my appearance than an older guy.

Don't forget many women in their forties have sons who are in their twenties, that's a no no as well!

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Im younger than you and i can honestly say your profile doesnt really stand out and catch my eye. Its not an age thing you just need to use the site to its full potential and put yourself out there.

Whereas your profile on the other hand certainly stands out and catches my eye Madam...

Haha why thank you for your approval "

I think your profile is fab and when I was 19 I think I would have put the same as you, infect if I was single I would put now what you have ( I am the girl of couple obviously )

Xx

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Its a bit of pot luck mate and who seems to be local to you.

I have set my mail filters for over 30's, because as good looking as they are, I don't have enough in common with a 20 something to have much of a meaningful conversation. Also I'm not as confident with younger guys I feel that they might be more critical of my appearance than an older guy.

We haven't set one but this would be our reason I wouldn't have anything in common with a male my age or tbh any younger than 30, I do find that couples may be a little different expecily when they are married or have families but it's not just about the sex is it it's about the talking and getting to know one an other

Don't forget many women in their forties have sons who are in their twenties, that's a no no as well! "

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By *rica77Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

I really cant go for men (boys) who are the same age or younger than my kids, my eldest is 30 so therefore meeting up with a guy 30 or less is just not on. Sorry. I get quite a lot of messages from under 30's who say how mature they are...or age is just a number.

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