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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.

The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.

Now wait a minute...

I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"

Thoughts please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had the same myself.

we sent a couple a message a little while aog and got nothing back, now they have sent a friend request out of the blue, and i went to send a message to be greeted with 'you sent these fuckers a message. you sure you want to waste more of your time?' site message.

sent anyway, be a giggle sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with your gut - it's rarely wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo are these new mesages or is it we havnt come across them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooo are these new mesages or is it we havnt come across them?"

I've no idea either - I might email someone totally random purely to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete all winks and friends invites without responding, and would block those I have no intention of meeting.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always go with your gut - it's rarely wrong "

Agreed...besides even if they are genuine and can't be bothered to write a simple message, even just as a return, you have ask yourself, is this a sign of things to come and will it frustrate me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.

The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.

Now wait a minute...

I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"

Thoughts please. "

we block those that send friends invites who we dont know.. it states this on our profile so we know they haven;t read out profile - so they are not for us.

go with your instincts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol"

.

Hmmmm, the joy of automated messages!

Nevermind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple sent me a friendship request. I don't accept requests without a message as I like to have an idea of the person who added me. I sent a message stating this and got no reply so I deleted the request.

The same couple have sent me another request. Once again, I decided to send a message, only to be greeted with a site message saying that I should think twice before messaging.

Now wait a minute...

I think that's a little unfair considering I'm the one being approached! Shouldn't there be something similar when it comes to invites? Also, should I just block this couple as my gut is telling me "pic collecters?"

Thoughts please. "

wait till they are offline add look at their photos then delete them again

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They're new site messages for when you message someone and you don't get a reply. Probably created with single males in mind so I'm glad to see other groups receive this message too! lol"

I think they were created with pests in mind to be honest. No point in me messaging a couple who don't want to meet single females, is there?

If I get a friends request without a message, i just delete them. If they friend request again I leave them for a couple of days, then delete them. Some people on here have very short memories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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wait till they are offline add look at their photos then delete them again "

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I automatically delete friends invites if it is from someone we havnt spoken to.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"ooo are these new mesages or is it we havnt come across them?"

they are a good idea, cos make you think twice before typing message.

But, yes agree it should work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/84416

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till they are offline add look at their photos then delete them again "

Glad I am not the only one to do this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same dilemna myself re a message!

Check the link below - didn't think i'd get quite as much of a negative response but hey! lol

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/84653

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I automatically delete friends invites if it is from someone we havnt spoken to.

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yup...cant understand why ppl do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the same dilemna myself re a message!

Check the link below - didn't think i'd get quite as much of a negative response but hey! lol

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/84653"

Yes! and in your thread AND this thread you ignored the link people gave you that explains the update!

Third time lucky maybe...

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/84416

kat

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