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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "

Porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Clue, as a younger guy i see more fun in being dominated by an older lady ahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete opposite im 31 and im looking for a mature women to dominate me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do love to be fem Dom mmmmm

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 31 and I like to play with men 40 plus and I get young lads asking for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love to be fem Dom mmmmm

Mrscxxx "

Id love to be dominated by you and the mr c yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love to be fem Dom mmmmm

Mrscxxx

Id love to be dominated by you and the mr m yummy "

Sorry misspelt mr m lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to ‘dom’ us younger ones as well.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Police Squad.

"Want to dominate older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "

Mummy Issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want to ‘dom’ us younger ones as well. "

They think arse to mouth is a first date lol

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Interesting dynamics ? Exchange of power ?

or just plain kinky !

no idea or maybe a combination of all those three and loads of other reasons.

personally I love a younger lady to dominate me, and I love to dom ladies my own age !

but then I am odd (or am I)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.

I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"They want to ‘dom’ us younger ones as well.

They think arse to mouth is a first date lol "

Fortunately they're rarely subtle enough to get anywhere except my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.

I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...) "

Hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guilty of said crimes, more mature women are just more attractive for me, i do prefer to be Dom by older women but taking turns is fun. I can only speak for myself but Yh older women all day

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By *ecketwaitMan
over a year ago

London

"They want to ‘dom’ us younger ones as well.

They think arse to mouth is a first date lol "

Wait... it isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, more often, found they wanted to be dominated, personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want to ‘dom’ us younger ones as well.

They think arse to mouth is a first date lol

Wait... it isn't?

At least cinema first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.

That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can switch and I do for hubby but that’s it really have never had another Dom with us I don’t think either of us would enjoy it tbh

Mrscxxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.

That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.

Oh, but they're real manly men and we'll go weak at the knees at their bravado... uh, proposition. Fetch the smelling salts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.

That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.

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ive had that actually uhm no block list I don’t like let me Dom you as an opening message I usually reply to all messages but not that Mrscxxx

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I've never been asked by a Domme to be their sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about an equal partnership between an older woman and younger man? I've had a few of those, luckily

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By *limDickinsMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I don't really want to dom anyone, but half the time I get messaged it's from a couple that wants me to be their dom/bull. There's a lot of demand for young doms it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has to start somewhere. The older Doms were young once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how young do you like I’m 21;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m really not very submissive I can be for hubby in the right circumstances. We do switch but I definitely have more Dom in me than he does.

A fantasy of mine is to have him and another man in complete control but he wouldn’t allow another Dom male in the bedroom

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't really want to dom anyone, but half the time I get messaged it's from a couple that wants me to be their dom/bull. There's a lot of demand for young doms it seems"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about an equal partnership between an older woman and younger man? I've had a few of those, luckily"

Would love to have one of those, something about older women just excite me more, shame all the ones I’ve spoken too bottled meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See for me being Dom gives me the power and control that I need. When I do sub for hubs I hate being degraded there is being a Dom and there’s being a dick my ex was Dom but he was an arse with it and I hate that

Mrscxxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"See for me being Dom gives me the power and control that I need. When I do sub for hubs I hate being degraded there is being a Dom and there’s being a dick my ex was Dom but he was an arse with it and I hate that

Mrscxxx "

Being degraded isn't necessarily part of being submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well being dominant in the bedroom is fun, so I don't blame them.

That being said, just randomly asking someone to ask is cringy as hell. If they aren't interested in bdsm/power exchange then it's about as useful as asking a vegan out to a hot dog eating contest.

ive had that actually uhm no block list I don’t like let me Dom you as an opening message I usually reply to all messages but not that Mrscxxx "

Yeah that's sign #1 of a fake dom, bit of common sense says chat to the person first to see whattheir deal is, being a dom isn't the same thing ever time so it's just funny to watch people think they are hot shit from day 1.

Hopefully enough rejections will get the message across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "
depends what you class as an older woman as you stated you're only 31 not many people would class you as an older woman, older woman to me seems 50+ I could be wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "

Its funny as they cant. I have found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a 'dom' is in

Like beards, it'll pass

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Be ause they can't dom anyone their own age?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

it's a weird mum son thing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"it's a weird mum son thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx depends what you class as an older woman as you stated you're only 31 not many people would class you as an older woman, older woman to me seems 50+ I could be wrong though "

32 tomorrow actually but no I’m not old I know that but still get younger men wanting to Dom like 18-30 obviously there younger than me

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it"

Oh believe me I can Dom

so can hubs very well if the mood hits

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it

Oh believe me I can Dom

so can hubs very well if the mood hits

Mrscxxx "

I was talkin' bout the young 'uns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it

Oh believe me I can Dom

so can hubs very well if the mood hits

Mrscxxx

I was talkin' bout the young 'uns

Yes but it depends on witch end of the scale one puts there selves at don’t it? I class my self as a bright young woman others may see me as old

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the author of 50 shades has a lot to answer for tbh

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I think the author of 50 shades has a lot to answer for tbh

This the utter tosh that it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the author of 50 shades has a lot to answer for tbh

This the utter tosh that it is! "

Yes! I'm glad it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the age old story, them that can do, them that can't talk about it

Oh believe me I can Dom

so can hubs very well if the mood hits

Mrscxxx

I was talkin' bout the young 'uns

Yes but it depends on witch end of the scale one puts there selves at don’t it? I class my self as a bright young woman others may see me as old

Mrscxxx "

Trouble with older people is they don't look at the profiles of those they are addressing

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "

To make themselves feel masculine....just one thing that popped into my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather it be the over way around the older lady dom me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the author of 50 shades has a lot to answer for tbh

This the utter tosh that it is!

Yes! I'm glad it's not just me "

Mmmm 50 shades is amazing if I could have a man like mr grey I’d be happy :p

Hubby pleases me in every single way but doesn’t have mr Greys bank account that’s what I find the most sexy. But on the other end of the scale I’ve been in an abusive relationship and my ex was a complete and utter t**t waffle he was horrible he de graded me, put me down isolated me from freinds and family even threatened to kill me if I left him. What he did wen I was left him was much worse but not for fab forums. I know he’s on here because he’s on my block list after sending me a freind request

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s mr grey

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx

Porn!"

Definitely also I think in the last few years. "That book" has a lot to answer for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Here’s mr grey "

Uhm not like the mr grey in my fantasies

Mmmm talk dark and handsome with big hands hubs fits well when I imagine mr grey I see hubs with black hair

Mrscxxx

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

dom's are just idiots - young or old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word dom or sub on a profile is often an instant block for me, just incase. I don't want nor want to be either, particularly. Especially with someone I don't know. I am definitely never a sub for sure though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"dom's are just idiots - young or old"

I mean, that's not true. There are a lot who play at it who could seriously hurt someone. But those who do it seriously and carefully don't deserve the same brush as the morons who want to slap me around and call it bdsm.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"dom's are just idiots - young or old

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dom's are just idiots - young or old

I agree

Mrscxxx

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.

I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...) "

Trust me 63 is not old lol

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.

I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...)

Trust me 63 is not old lol"

you look stunning xx

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Want to domainte older women? Am only 31 and have loads of messages from younger guys wanting to Dom me

Mrscxxx "

Ok why don’t we flip the situation why do some women on their profiles state they want to Dom or ruin young guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe they're dominant and assume you're submissive.

I want to know why 27 and 28 year olds sometimes call me old. I'm 33, come back in 30+ years if you want to call me old! (and then they'll be old too, so...)

Trust me 63 is not old lol"

I said 30+ though, not 30. Sorry, no offence intended! Just kind of picked a number there. (I actually meet people in their 60s, so I agree, ha)

Most of my feeling when I get these messages is, you're the same age as my siblings/ cousins, piss off!

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