FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold bulls question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys...

cuckold couples when you are looking for bulls what do you look for to make the perfect bull ? Apart from obvious.

Same for bulls, what do you look for?

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By *oupleyouwouldntexpectCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Trust is a massive thing for us, along with him not being pushy / happy to go at our pace. Also someone very discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bull that truly understands the dynamics behind cuckoldry not just a guy that wants to get his end away x

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

A true bull is knows how to satisfy the male visually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our Male half has played bull a few times. He understands that the cuck is there to get just as much as the female, he also enjoys that the cuck is getting turned on watching the show.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"A bull that truly understands the dynamics behind cuckoldry not just a guy that wants to get his end away x"

Absolutely our thoughts ...... it’s not just like meeting a single guy for 3some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys...

cuckold couples when you are looking for bulls what do you look for to make the perfect bull ? Apart from obvious.

Same for bulls, what do you look for? "

While I don’t always play as a ‘bull’ I feel I can contribute.

I look for couples that are confident and know what they want. If I’m given a set of rules or guidelines on things that the male wants to see/lady wants to happen, I find that much easier to satisfy the couple then.

Although, being given free reign obviously can have its benefits!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I played as a Bull last year.

I specifically sought out a couple that on the face of it appeared deeply in love and had deep trust in each other. (I say face of it because you can only do so much research without meeting in person)

They were also excellent communicators so I was left in no uncertain terms what was off limits and what they both enjoyed.

Once I knew they had those boxes ticked it made for one horny summer.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"I played as a Bull last year.

They were also excellent communicators so I was left in no uncertain terms what was off limits and what they both enjoyed.

Once I knew they had those boxes ticked it made for one horny summer.

Damn my fat fingers that wasn’t the emoji I was going for.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"A true bull is knows how to satisfy the male visually "

This cuck agrees totally xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are struggling to find a bull who understands the cuckold aspect and not just wanting to get a quick lay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bull is a horrible phrase or descriptive. We are looking for a mature guy who understands what cuckolding actually is. A guy who will take me on long term as his lover and girlfriend. My husband is only allowed to be involved if I want him too. Mostly I probably won’t. True cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Bull I agree with cuckoldress69 , the understanding of cuckoldry is most important, the 3 way dynamics and the chain of thought connected to cuckoldry , good communication between all parties, the mindset has to be established 3 ways, the dilliberate acts need to be done in a way that excites all concerned. Good cuckoldry has vairious factions,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clendliness, respect, well dresses, smelling great in my case Armani code, clean shaven both top and bottom, a good understanding of both hotwife and Cuck, limits or any boundary’s set prior to the meet, have a good understanding of the mindset taylormade to the couple involved to carer for there idea of a good meet, establish a rapour with both, gain an understanding of what they are striving to accomplish. Always be on time and never let them down ,

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Being open and genuine. I like couples who take the time to chat and discuss what they both like and dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Bull has to be very intelligent to balance two very different needs, understand, play the mind games for the enjoyment of all 3,but be in control. Most important thing, the cuck mustn't cum, at least until the bull leaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Bull has to be very intelligent to balance two very different needs, understand, play the mind games for the enjoyment of all 3,but be in control. Most important thing, the cuck mustn't cum, at least until the bull leaves."

looks writing an code to develop 2056 bit encryption code or block chain technology would be easier then this task... Don't see fun

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The Bull has to understand that it is a couple that are involved, not just a wife having fun while the husband watches or waits at home.

The dynamic is difficult to define and is slightly different for each couple but when everything clicks it is a very powerful experience for everyone.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"The Bull has to understand that it is a couple that are involved, not just a wife having fun while the husband watches or waits at home.

The dynamic is difficult to define and is slightly different for each couple but when everything clicks it is a very powerful experience for everyone. "

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

It annoys me that cuckold porn usually always depicts a black bull, white hotwife and cuck, for me there should be no race element, this is a sub genre of cuckoldry and not a general reflection of the culture

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Respect for all involved and trust which is built up together with all not just one party. I need to know both partners are happy as came across situations where it's clear one partner wants it but the other doesn't that I do not like and would walk away from. If we've all taken the time to understand that everyone wants then the experience is so much beter for it. But overall most important I think respect that as a bull you are still an invited third person in someone's relationship even if the role play or scenario played out depicts otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what got you started in cuckolding? I think bull is just the easiest term

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree. Although my girl does want to try bbc and that comes from porn lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s a shame not everyone has the same respect as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for a couple that is has honest and open communication about what they want. A couple who appreciates it is a three way relationship where the cuckold is as equally invested in the relationship as the Bull and the Hotwife, that does not necessarily mean participating but is involved and understands the difference between cuckolding and a threesome or just some guy fucking his wife.

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

"I look for a couple that is has honest and open communication about what they want. A couple who appreciates it is a three way relationship where the cuckold is as equally invested in the relationship as the Bull and the Hotwife, that does not necessarily mean participating but is involved and understands the difference between cuckolding and a threesome or just some guy fucking his wife. "

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are elements of cuckolding that are big no no s in the swinging lifestyle, for example in a threesome mmf normally there is no room for jealousy from the husband , if so then it’s no good, however in cuckolding the yearning to do what the Bull is doing and enjoying , coupled with the sight and sounds of the situation makes the cuckold mildly jealous but he turns the aspect into lust and a yearning to reclaim his wife further turning him on .

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"It’s a shame not everyone has the same respect as you. "

Respect is key in any cuckold scenario and also understanding that the brains of all involved need to be engaged as much as the bodies.

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *arried Bi KinksterMan
over a year ago

North West

"A bull that truly understands the dynamics behind cuckoldry not just a guy that wants to get his end away x"

^^^ This, plus friendly, attractive, funny... will chat for a while beforehand not just wanna wham bam without exploring kinks etc

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"It annoys me that cuckold porn usually always depicts a black bull, white hotwife and cuck, for me there should be no race element, this is a sub genre of cuckoldry and not a general reflection of the culture

Agree ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play as the bull many times and trust is being the key, I’m there for souly for there pleasure, making friends along the way too

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Attraction, Trust, Friendship & Giggles - with those in place the rest happens naturally.

None of our past playmates ever referred to themselves as "Bulls", and we never viewed them that way either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Bull has to understand that it is a couple that are involved, not just a wife having fun while the husband watches or waits at home.

The dynamic is difficult to define and is slightly different for each couple but when everything clicks it is a very powerful experience for everyone. "

100% this ....to many wannabes out there who dont have a clue at all

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire

For us at least 5ft 9 in height.

Nice cock

Must be black.

Must have a good assertive attitude and be friendly,

Dressed well.

Heavy spunker.

Loves hubby to watch.

Be smartly dressed .

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By *otHungGuyMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I personally look for a discrete couple who have both fully discussed what they are looking for, personal limits and can articulate their preferences. I’m there to meet both their desires and have had memorable times and met some great people through my experiences.

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

We all have slightly different needs and desires - so there's no such thing as a generic cuckold couple. Those differences make it even more exciting.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"Bull is a horrible phrase or descriptive. We are looking for a mature guy who understands what cuckolding actually is. A guy who will take me on long term as his lover and girlfriend. My husband is only allowed to be involved if I want him too. Mostly I probably won’t. True cuckolding. "

100% agree. It’s great fun with the right couple

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"For us at least 5ft 9 in height.

Nice cock

Must be black.

Must have a good assertive attitude and be friendly,

Dressed well.

Heavy spunker.

Loves hubby to watch.

Be smartly dressed ."
All bar one! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be 100 % confident it is what the lady wants. If she is confident and dominant over the cucks and fuck is totally in love with his wife it works best for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be black what a load of rubbish are you for real??? I was in the army for years with black guys showering next to me and some black guys have small thin cocks same as some white, the cuckolding porn videos you see over half bbc don’t get fully erect bending in the middle, it’s more the colour contrast that highlights the situation, all this hype about BBC rubbish, there’s massive white guys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really keen on the the term "bull" however just gonna add my 2p as someone who has played with a few cuckold couples.

Like everything every couples is dynamics and the dynamics may vary.

In my experience funnily enough I think it's more about the Cuck. Making sure Cuck is happy, happy Cuck leads to a happy Fuck (forgive me I just made that last bit up, lol)

I've done the humiliation thing before and all parties was fully engaged, but then I've done the whole "performance" bit, where I've shown Cuck exactly how to fuck his Hotwife.

I think it depends on the couple more than anything. Great question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mooooooooo now do ya understand

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