FabSwingers.com forum: The newbie

By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I’ve just had rude encounter with a fellow Fab, but this one has got under my skin.

I’ve just arranged my first meet (exciting).... I’m not verified yet as everyone can see.. so she asked to call me first wihich is fine. so I sent my number over and we talked for 6 and seconds before she hung up without saying goodbye, then blocked me.. rude..has given me any faith for this sis..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t sweat it!

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Normally it doesn’t! It’s Like Water off ducks back, but this was gonna be my first.. meet and

also I was gonna take bottle of over!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I’ve just had rude encounter with a fellow Fab, but this one has got under my skin.

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Are you OK xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens, forget and move on x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Wow that’s a new one for me. It’s just an experience to learn from I guess. Along with all the other funny ones on here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Who did the talking in that 6 seconds? You sure it was a woman and not some joker of a bloke getting his kicks out of leading you on?

Sadly whatever the answer, it can happen OP, all you can do is chalk it up to experience and maybe spend more time getting to know someone through messages to get a feel for how genuine they are.

That said it's difficult to say without hearing both sides, and knowing the full story, perhaps she didn't like what you said, perhaps she recognised your voice, perhaps a million and one other things..

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Oh I’m fine.. bit annoying thinking ur getting lucky then a anticlimax...

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I sent her my num so we could have a quick chat any then decide.

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

The funny thing she only 5miles away so we probably live in same town! Probably walk past her in the street

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you hit the reply and quote button we'll know who you're responding to

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Am aloud to mention her name or profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To think.. she could have had a bottle as well?

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Don’t worry I’m drinking it we speak.. ??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Don’t worry I’m drinking it we speak.. ??"
whilst we speak

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Am aloud to mention her name or profile?"

No you're not - naming and shaming is against forum rules

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Sorry I’m slurring my words as I’m a little tipsy ?? . It’s that better grammar. ??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Sorry I’m slurring my words as I’m a little tipsy ?? . It’s that better grammar. ??"
yeah.

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I almost sent a pic of my driving license to friend on fab.. then to forward on to her.. feels im having proving my innocence.!

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By *urreyStud OP Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I no it’s data protection, I’m officially going to report her.. if everyone was like that on this site

We all be virgins ??

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"I no it’s data protection, I’m officially going to report her.. if everyone was like that on this site

We all be virgins ??"

Report her for what? Because she didn't like the sound of your voice? She panicked and changed her mind? At least you didn't turn up to find the house didn't exist or there were 2 burly men waiting to rob you!

Just get on with life and better luck next time.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’ve just had rude encounter with a fellow Fab, but this one has got under my skin.

I realise the conversation was short but could you have said anything to put them off?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I no it’s data protection, I’m officially going to report her.. if everyone was like that on this site

We all be virgins ??"

I know your disappointments but reporting her....that's a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I no it’s data protection, I’m officially going to report her.. if everyone was like that on this site

We all be virgins ??"

I am not sure why you would want to mention her name that really seems petty. Also not sure what you are going to report her over as rejecting you is not a reportable offence.

The fact is in the time you spent talking to her you either said something that she to offence to or she made a quick decision that you were not her type, she doesn't have to explain why you just have to accept it.

I will point out taking a bottle over is not the key to knicker access.

Saying things like "only 5miles away so we probably live in same town! Probably walk past her in the street" does put a lot off as they like to keep swining and vanilla life seperate.

Also drinking and chatting to people is also one to put people off.

Chalk it down to experience leave alone don't get your mate t ostalker her sending messages from you as you will just get yourself a bad reputation.

So draw a line under it and move on.

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