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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!

What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?

I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation

Big shigh rolls eyes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met with a few couples and all except one both took part. The one couple, they were both in the house but the guy just left us to it and wasn’t even in the same room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few guys wanting to watch. Without exception, they always try and join in. We now avoid them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I rarely fancy the male half of a couple so thought it was a good compromise lol lessons learned just wondered if it was just me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!

What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?

I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation

Big shigh rolls eyes !!! "

I'm the Male half of a couple and I'd generally agree. Anita is planning to experiment with solo meets with women, and I'll not be going. If I was going to attend, then I'd expect to be taking part. Most likely, she will set up a single ladies profile and just contact women.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!

What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?

I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation

Big shigh rolls eyes !!!

I'm the Male half of a couple and I'd generally agree. Anita is planning to experiment with solo meets with women, and I'll not be going. If I was going to attend, then I'd expect to be taking part. Most likely, she will set up a single ladies profile and just contact women.

Cal"

Great approach all clear and if pre agreement that all join in that’s fine !! Just the expectation of the bending of rules in most of my exspereinces puts me off agreeing to that again

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Sometimes, I'm happy to just watch my wife enjoying herself, but its normally something that's agreed before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not part of a couple, but for me sitting in a corner dressed in a sharp tailoured suit sipping scotch whilst watching a couple get lost in each other putting o a private show just for me is a huge turn on for me. Making eye contact every now and then just to give encouragement. No wanking or anything...just quietly watching, mesmerised by their sexual depravity.

#pvtshowbliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr normally sits and watches. For us it's the build up after hes watched me enjoying myself it's the after sex where he's been frustrated. our meets it's just about me playing, the mr doesnt normally play just watches unless he plays with me.

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Somewhat of the different side of the situation but I’ve met a few couples who have wanted to be watched and I’ve been more than happy to, usually I’m allowed to masturbate and leave when I’m ready! Never have a pushed the boundaries and yes, I’ve joined in but only when asked to

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By *ervertsCouple
over a year ago

halesowen

I’m quite happy just watching, and often do.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Would be quite nice having a guy tied up in a chair watching me having fun

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

My guy stays fully clothed, does not play with himself and only ever watches from the sidelines.

Sometimes taking any previously agreed to pics , he doesn’t even try to direct , he just enjoys watching me enjoy.

I think if you go to a meet and it’s agreed that the other half doesn’t take part it’s kind of rude for them to put you in an awkward position by moving the goalposts mid meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few single women over the years and we've always been clear before the meet that it's both of us playing. Some women prefer this, and those that don't we don't meet. As long as everyone is completely honest at the outset it works just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met and watched couples in the past,but i always have a meeting first and discuss what there bounderies are ,then there can be no misunderstandings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be quite nice having a guy tied up in a chair watching me having fun"

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Derby

We are both exhibishinists ( sp). We love being watched. We love being joined in with. We don't mind watches / touchers eithers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby with never agree to just watch, it frankly bores him and I’m not into putting on a show generally, with us it’s either everyone involved or no play x

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Had a few guys wanting to watch. Without exception, they always try and join in. We now avoid them "

I like watching only

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"I rarely fancy the male half of a couple so thought it was a good compromise lol lessons learned just wondered if it was just me

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love watching

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Would be quite nice having a guy tied up in a chair watching me having fun"
love that idea interested message me

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Hi love watching only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the male part of the couple wants to watch us at it with his mrs who are we to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough to watch a husband and wife a couple of times and got to film as well. It was made clear from the start that there'd be no touching or joining in. We all knew where we stood and it worked well. Afterwards the wife put on a show for me so I could wank off!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We're set up this way, I (he) watch and never join in, never have. It's the third person view point I want to see Mrs N in, impossible If you join in so, no, that wouldn't be an issue with us, op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to watch just sit in the room get naked and watch and wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of interested people,just a matter of getting them together .

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lots of interested people,just a matter of getting them together . "

Found the same myself lots out there and polite ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time we attended VA a guy watched us as Mrs rode me to a big orgasm. Was funny when he applauded at the end!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had several meets where the guy just watches us and wanks with no offer to join in.

Would love a female watcher to watch us and play with herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time we attended VA a guy watched us as Mrs rode me to a big orgasm. Was funny when he applauded at the end!!!"
I would love to watch you but i am outside your age range

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By *it62Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Have always been content to watch and not join in.

Had occasions when exactly this has happened and had occasions where I have been asked to take part.

Always agree first what the 'rules' are.

Always happy to be a respectful voyeur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with watching and wanking

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Hubby is happy to only watch me with another guy but not with another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never got the watching bit myself and won't play with couples where only one plays unless she's on her own.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire


"I’ve yet to experience that this is actually the case to that point am thinking of avoiding couples completely !!

What’s everyone’s experience of purely sat quietly in a corner or actually just watching like agreed?

I’ve found touching filming photos to the extreme of getting kit off and standing there waiting for invitation

Big shigh rolls eyes !!! "

It's not for me. While I love to see S getting excited, and will.sometiems just be holding, kissing and looking I to her eyes, I couldn't just sit and not be involved as I wouldn't be able to keep my hands to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(The husband) prefer to watch(fully clothed), I'm very much a voyeur, my pleasure is watching others enjoy themselves.

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By *notherHornyGuy2019Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

I have had two meets where the idea was just for me to watch, which I would of been more than happy with.

However on both occasions I was invited to join in. So I can't claim to be the exception to the rule (maybe the wannabe exception)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet where I'm some performance act for a man. If I want to meet the woman then it's me and her only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching hot couples playing

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