FabSwingers.com forum: When does swinging become prostitution? Gatehouse are ok with it?

By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

https://www.theboltonnews.co.uk/news/17528760.therere-giving-bdsm-a-bad-name-bolton-swinger-complains-about-additional-services-at-club/

It seems some clubs are ok with or ignoring blatant prostitution going on in their premises. When did this become ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes two to tango. Well... in this case, one to ask if you're dancing and the other to ask how much?

As long as there are folks willing to pay there will be thise will supply. And someone to take their cut.

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"Takes two to tango. Well... in this case, one to ask if you're dancing and the other to ask how much?

As long as there are folks willing to pay there will be thise will supply. And someone to take their cut. "

That made us laugh!

Surely it has no place in swinging and is what brothers are for?

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

"Takes two to tango. Well... in this case, one to ask if you're dancing and the other to ask how much?

As long as there are folks willing to pay there will be thise will supply. And someone to take their cut.

That made us laugh!

Surely it has no place in swinging and is what brothers are for?"

Omg.- typo I hope. I'd never use my brother that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes two to tango. Well... in this case, one to ask if you're dancing and the other to ask how much?

As long as there are folks willing to pay there will be thise will supply. And someone to take their cut.

That made us laugh!

Surely it has no place in swinging and is what brothers are for?"

Happily, I haven't got a brother either. But if I did I (literally) don't fancy the idea ta

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I used to want to go to their gg night till I saw this.. and to be honest I wouldn't want to be associated with that now.

It's hard enough being a gg and make people see your not for sale.. without a club doing this

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"Takes two to tango. Well... in this case, one to ask if you're dancing and the other to ask how much?

As long as there are folks willing to pay there will be thise will supply. And someone to take their cut.

That made us laugh!

Surely it has no place in swinging and is what brothers are for?

Omg.- typo I hope. I'd never use my brother that way

we don't type the word BROTHEL like ever, so it obviously auto corrected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave them too it. Long as you aren't directly being affected, then I say leave them too it. It's their business at the end of the day. If you bothers you more then it should, maybe look at other clubs to go too?

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"I used to want to go to their gg night till I saw this.. and to be honest I wouldn't want to be associated with that now.

It's hard enough being a gg and make people see your not for sale.. without a club doing this "

There are many other venues you can do that at and have no judgements made thankfully!

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"Leave them too it. Long as you aren't directly being affected, then I say leave them too it. It's their business at the end of the day. If you bothers you more then it should, maybe look at other clubs to go too?"

We do but it brings down the seen in general

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I used to want to go to their gg night till I saw this.. and to be honest I wouldn't want to be associated with that now.

It's hard enough being a gg and make people see your not for sale.. without a club doing this

There are many other venues you can do that at and have no judgements made thankfully!"
yes but you still get people making accusations of greedy girls being paid to be there and things like this don't help. X

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes."

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves.

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves. "

If you can call them introductions. Fancy a fuck?

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By *ig_Wam_Bam OP Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes."

If you let them, just block there ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves.

If you can call them introductions. Fancy a fuck?

Well it beats “fuck now slag”. Think that’s the worst I’ve had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

If you let them, just block there ass"

My block list has 682 people on it. Says it all for the quality of some of the people on this site. Luckily, some are absolute gems.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

very true hun

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

What's a gg girl?

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Greedy girl x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves. "

Some could certainly do with a lesson in manners and respect

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves. "
they get short shrift from this tgirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to want to go to their gg night till I saw this.. and to be honest I wouldn't want to be associated with that now.

It's hard enough being a gg and make people see your not for sale.. without a club doing this "
gg= good girl?

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By *ooukMan
over a year ago

Skegness

the issue now is there many out there who are not swingers who see swinger clubs as sex clubs and are happy to pay if they cant get for free. at old club we used to tell new single males it £30 to get in but you may or not get play or go across the road and get what you really after as sometimes you can totally tell they're not in for the social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go there regular with my missus and have never witnessed anything of the sort. And having chatted to a few greedy girls they go there because it's a safe clean environment and know the staff will look after them

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By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

I've been to the GG events a couple of times. The only payment I have been asked for is the £15 entrance fee. I've also had lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are quick to judge I attend this non bitchy non gossip club and never have I heard of any money being exchanged for sex , these are malicious lies from a ex staff member so kindly untill you can verify its true takedown this pathetic post thanks

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

And when they have no luck with the ladies, try and treat the Tgirls even more poorly. It staggers me on how some men introduce themselves.

If you can call them introductions. Fancy a fuck?

Well it beats “fuck now slag”. Think that’s the worst I’ve had. "

I don't even get that, I just get 'fuck', without any punctuation to let me know it's a question.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Am Not surprised mfs

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By *angbang guyMan
over a year ago

chester sometimes derby

I’ve arranged countless gangbangs bad gg nights in my time, but now when I look at the organised events list for gangbangs there’s lots where the girl has been paid by clubs and individuals to ensure that the guys are pleasured therefore making a profit!

I know of several ladies that do this and have been approached by two offering to be the centre of attention for 400 pound a night !

I’ve always done this for fun not profit but it’s getting worse

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes."

have to disagree on that both treat each other like free prostitutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes."

Do we? I don’t remember doing that.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes."

not a very fair comment this at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

If you let them, just block there ass

My block list has 682 people on it. Says it all for the quality of some of the people on this site. Luckily, some are absolute gems. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys treat the women on here like free prostitutes.

have to disagree on that both treat each other like free prostitutes."

Fair point. Couples too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been the Greedy Girl at the Gatehouse for just 12 months. In fact it was my first anniversary on Friday.

Contrary to what is being bantered about, I have never received ANY money from the Gatehouse. It clearly states, and has done since I became the original Greedy Girl at the Gatehouse, that I have no financial involvement or take any money from the Gatehouse.

I seriously take offence at being labeled a prostitute.

Just because I enjoy sex and love gang bangs, does not make me a prostitute.

There are, and have been 8/9 girls who come to the Gatehouse to play for their pleasure.

These malicious accusations are from an disgruntled EX member of staff and her recent partner.

That particular guy used to come and play with me on Mondays and Fridays every week and he never paid me one penny (or pounds) to have sex with him.

They resigned from the Gatehouse because they were into another type of fetish and somehow now want to try and destroy the good name of the Gatehouse and the Greedy Girls.

Other swingers clubs have these events so how come they're nit mentioned?

I've been to several clubs as a single girl and a Greedy Girl and my preference by a long chalk is the Gatehouse. It's clean, safe and secure and that's why other girls happily come along and join in the fun.

I can't help anyone thinking the way they do but I can certainly say from me, the resident Greedy Girl that I've never received any payments for playing at any club and particularly the Gatehouse.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I used to want to go to their gg night till I saw this.. and to be honest I wouldn't want to be associated with that now.

It's hard enough being a gg and make people see your not for sale.. without a club doing this gg= good girl?"
gg = greedy girl

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I have been the Greedy Girl at the Gatehouse for just 12 months. In fact it was my first anniversary on Friday.

I seriously take offence at being labeled a prostitute.

Just because I enjoy sex and love gang bangs, does not make me a prostitute.

There are, and have been 8/9 girls who come to the Gatehouse to play for their pleasure.

These malicious accusations are from an disgruntled EX member of staff and her recent partner.

That particular guy used to come and play with me on Mondays and Fridays every week and he never paid me one penny (or pounds) to have sex with him.

They resigned from the Gatehouse because they were into another type of fetish and somehow now want to try and destroy the good name of the Gatehouse and the Greedy Girls.

Other swingers clubs have these events so how come they're nit mentioned?

I can't help anyone thinking the way they do but I can certainly say from me, the resident Greedy Girl that I've never received any payments for playing at any club and particularly the Gatehouse. "

I've actually seen it advertised by club people that some greedy girls are taking people 121 after in private rooms for £20...That's what I don't want an association with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If money is involved and sex is involved it's all ultimately prostitution ,you pay to get into a club don't be so naive you Tarts

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By *eordiedanielCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"If money is involved and sex is involved it's all ultimately prostitution ,you pay to get into a club don't be so naive you Tarts

I suspect some rant aposed to paying if it means they get the kind of sex they want

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My only personal experience of this is. Where I have been contacted, by event organisers. Saying something along the lines of. Play is guaranteed with at least one of the females. Sorry I'm not interested in that type of event. I'm want someone to play with me, because they want to. Not because they are been paid to do so.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"If money is involved and sex is involved it's all ultimately prostitution ,you pay to get into a club don't be so naive you Tarts

But you don't go to a club to get sex. So your paying to get in. Not for the sex

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By *ensual massagerMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"If money is involved and sex is involved it's all ultimately prostitution ,you pay to get into a club don't be so naive you Tarts

But you don't go to a club to get sex. So your paying to get in. Not for the sex "

Totally correct. Unfortunately, clubs have to be staffed, cleaned, rent, rates, electricity, gas, water rates besides washing of towels etc. Getting stock in whether it's soft drinks, tea coffee, crisps, chocolate (no alcohol sold but customers can bring their own) plus a host of other expenses. Do you really expect clubs to open for free when hotels charge and facilities available.

Yes, weirdly enough, clubs do charge entrance fees. Unlike most clubs, there's no membership fee for single guys. It's all one price depending on the day. Monday and Friday daytime is £15.00 entrance and no membership fee. Extra staff are brought in to ensure the safety and security of the Greedy Girls. That's the extra cost. On all other days or nights it is £10.00 entrance and no membership fee. The Gatehouse is non judgemental and is open to everybody whatever their particular desire is. It has a day for men only (Tuesday) and greedy girls specifically on Monday and Friday daytime. Thursday daytime is tie and tease bdsm. All other events, other than Monday and Friday daytime are £10.00. There are no additional costs except room hire on particular events or refreshments.

There is availability to hire the club solely for any individual for a day or night providing its available.

The club does also cater for individual events of your needs obviously at a cost plus a member of staff.