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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fall in love

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Why is that your very sexy ladie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is that your very sexy ladie "

I’m still married!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Let him join you then lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We were both married albeit separated, when we fell in love ... so why not?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let him join you then lol"

Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must not cum

Wooden stool, wooden stool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I better mention he isn’t a fab member before I get in trouble!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must not cum

Wooden stool, wooden stool

Imagining wood is unlikely to prevent me from cumming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let him join you then lol

Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.

Life's too short, gotta be happy lovely ... wish I could take my own advice lol. Here if you fancy a natter xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must not cum

Wooden stool, wooden stool

Imagining wood is unlikely to prevent me from cumming!

Haha brilliant

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can you stop yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself? "

I ran away last time I felt like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let him join you then lol

Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.

If that's the case why the problem of falling in love? No doubt the other party wouldn't have a problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this! "

What do you want to do this time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?"

I don’t want to hurt him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him. "

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility."

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Just what we say, so far we've just kept our swinging to sex and kept the love for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then dont run away and be honest with everyone...including yourself

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Follow your heart

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Follow your heart "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good. "

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Follow your heart "

It scares me.

And I’ve never had any kind of relationship with a man before, only sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this? "

The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Awwwww lord, really feel for you....but as others have said follow your heart, don't a couple years down the line regret what could have been....go for it kid, good luck xxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?

The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable. "

A bit like brexit then.

I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.

Best of luck to you all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?

The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable.

A bit like brexit then.

I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.

Best of luck to you all x"

Fuck. I hope it doesn’t end up like brexit!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?

The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable.

A bit like brexit then.

I genuinely hope that things work out for the best for all concerned.

Best of luck to you all x

Fuck. I hope it doesn’t end up like brexit!

. It won't there's at least two sensible people who talk to each other in this equation

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By *EROY12Man
over a year ago

LOUGHBOURGH

Don’t follow heart think things through

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Don’t follow heart think things through "

This

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You need to be sure that feelings are reciprocated or it could go badly wrong.

Use judgement as above.

Hope it works out for you.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Fall in love

It can creep up and bite you on the arse when you least expect it...

Best of times, worst of times.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

it's never to late to be " happy ever after " I am told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a curry when running low on toilet roll?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day op love is a powerful emotion you can't control who you fall for its wether your willing to deny yourself and stay in a relationship that ain't working for you

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I must not waste time on fab s forums??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a well known phrase applicable here.... If you play with fire, you're gonna get burnt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must not waste time on fab s forums?? "

Good luck with that one!

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I must not play in the dark room at a club

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Eat peas

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I must not cum

Wooden stool, wooden stool

Imagining wood is unlikely to prevent me from cumming!

PMSFL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let him join you then lol

Not as much fun as you’d imagine as my marriage is just a friendship now.

You are very lucky to have him as a friend I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fall in love

It can creep up and bite you on the arse when you least expect it...

Best of times, worst of times."

It certainly can for sure ànd bites you very hard too!

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By *nozcumberMan
over a year ago

Honiton

The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step.

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Read and reply to posts such as thi...........s

Fuck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The mere fact that you are considering love with another means you are not in the right place now. Whether you are going to be with the 'love' or not you still need out of where you are. Be fair to them and yourself then decide if being with the 'love' is the best next step. "

The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.

I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.

Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.

He’s happy. I’m happy.

He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Follow your heart

This

No...it's lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum too quick !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Follow your heart

This

No...it's lust"

He is very lustable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.

I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.

Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.

He’s happy. I’m happy.

He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way. "

It is such a powerful emotion and can unlock so many feelings.

I'm sure many on here will be feeling for you and the others in your life. I for one wish all of you a happy life and hopefully you all remain friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The exit negotiations are doing much better than the brexit ones. It’s a sad time for sure.

I’ve had a long chat with the chap in question and explained what he’s facing if he wants anything with me.

Discussed the dynamics of dating a trans woman too.

He’s happy. I’m happy.

He used the ‘love’ word in a text today but I’ve told him I’m not ready for that. Not by a long way.

It is such a powerful emotion and can unlock so many feelings.

I'm sure many on here will be feeling for you and the others in your life. I for one wish all of you a happy life and hopefully you all remain friends. "

Thank you for that. A lot of work to do on the house to maximise our cut. We need to keep working together to do that. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must not slip out while she's cuming

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must not slip out while she's cuming "

Don’t you fucking dare

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Ancient chinese proverb says follow your heart for it knows the way there......should you get lost, then follow your head, for it knows the way back.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I remember the time when I was married when we had a Barbeque. I over heard my then wife say to a mutual friend, "Michael and I aren't so much lovers as best friends."

That was the problem, that's when I started my adventures. It cost me my marriage to a lovely woman who is the mother to my children. It caused me some shit times however I also had some great times

I tried to say to my now ex that we should become lover again however she was complacent. All I can say is follow your heart, if your current partner just wants you as a friend you probably need to be up front and ask what are we going to do? Or take the route of the new man if you think he'll stand by you or just go independent and take it from there.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Fall in love

A lot easier said than done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I remember the time when I was married when we had a Barbeque. I over heard my then wife say to a mutual friend, "Michael and I aren't so much lovers as best friends."

That was the problem, that's when I started my adventures. It cost me my marriage to a lovely woman who is the mother to my children. It caused me some shit times however I also had some great times

From my experience, the next lover or two after a long relationship never last long. I’ll need to put some distance between the old and my heart before I’ll be ready for much else than passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you stop yourself?

I ran away last time I felt like this!

What do you want to do this time?

I don’t want to hurt him.

Is that a probability? I typed possibility firstly but it's always a possibility.

I guess it is. He’s making all the right moves even though he knows my situation. I don’t want to run away though. It feels too good.

How does the third person in this scenario feel about this?

The one I’m married to? We’re discussing exit strategies so we come out still as best friends and financially stable. "

You both deserve to be happy. Sounds like it's going well.

See how it goes with this man. Don't run away from him. X

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Does it not hurt your wife posting about your feelings for someone else, when I split from my husband seeing that would have hurt me

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By *ommon_usernameMan
over a year ago

home

I must not .... fart while on a meet

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We had a rule after meet number two!

No babies and no feelings!!

Almost two years later and no babies so one out off two seems ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it not hurt your wife posting about your feelings for someone else, when I split from my husband seeing that would have hurt me "

According to her, we were over 18 months ago. She doesn’t use fab so she isn’t going to see this. I don’t hide things from her anyhow.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

A man who can make you smile like that is worth the risk

One step at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fall in love

I've already fallen in love with your legs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no what you are saying about not falling in love,but I have falling in love with my dom opps not meant to of done that I have tried to put him in the back of my head but he still comes to the front xxx

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I must not play with mr sofa golden vag without permission

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