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Have you ever meet somebody without a photo

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By *rJackMrsDaniels OP   Couple
over a year ago

norton

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope!

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By *rJackMrsDaniels OP   Couple
over a year ago

norton

What was the outcome, pleasantly surprised or horrified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but thankfully she was very attractive working for the government, although I did have a phone chat to make sure it was a women and not a guy lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Not swinging but blind dates back in the day were similar I guess

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

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By *rJackMrsDaniels OP   Couple
over a year ago

norton

we would always have to speak to the female first in this scenario

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes we often meet others without seeing photos, but then we meet to enjoy sex not to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. For socials ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By *rJackMrsDaniels OP   Couple
over a year ago

norton

We feel like the connection has to be a little more than just be attracted to our meets, ideally already having our minds engaged by our potential meets so although we wouldn’t say looks are unimportant but definitely not top of our list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not going to happen. Need that attraction even for a social meet

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

yes I did got a bit of a photo only legs . it turned out to be one of the worst meets. drove to far as well.

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over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Holy shit, no way!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, did so last week and she was gorgeous

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope and nor would we

As a couple its hard enough to get four way attraction as it is.

Always swap pics early on

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. But my first social meet, someone met me without one! We're still seeing each other over a year later, so it didn't go too badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day before Fab, it was an add in Loot or Friday Ads, no pics, but always a phone call.

When you met in a Pub, you ended up smiling at a lot of strange people.

Never was disappointed, less time waters Ind a higher hit rate back then, but I was younger too!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

No, never in 15 years of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.....and I don't think I ever would....nor would I expect anyone to meet me without one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes a handful of times for socials. They all turned out well, didn't necessarily progress to a horizontal but were fun socials all the same.

I like an adventure.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

without face foto yes... it was the womans idea, she didn't want to see my face either, i went around door open and let myself in were she was waiting. she had her face covered i gave her oral and fucked her, was one of my very 1st experiences off here many years ago, but i must admit one of the best too

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes but in the days before there was no excuse not to have a recent digital photo of yourself ie before everyone had digital cameras and camera phones! I used to be really active on this forum most of the other users were from the US, Canada and Australia. I was only I

UK members and at the time I lived in London and had a pretty open invitation for people to come stay with me. Funnily enough despite the fact hardly anyone had a picture of themselves, on only one occasion was there any really blatant catfishing going in ie someone who told everybody they were famous catwalk model but they looked like they'd just lost a fight with a cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hrisUB3Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and many calls and personality checks later(around a month), we met and it went well. A second meet was arranged and it was explosive in the sexual variety.

Would I do it again ? ...

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I’ve met people on a different site where I’ve been undecided on the attraction after a pic swap but been talking into a social anyway. Never again, it’s a jingle in my pants reaction on seeing a face pic or it goes no further.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes on another site......was fine, chatted for a long old while then eventually swapped pics.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes met loads of people that I’ve never seen a pic of previous to meeting them when attending socials and club nights

When meeting them in person that way you can safely skip the pic formalities

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes I have and would do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good God no what if he/she is a right minger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, and many calls and personality checks later(around a month), we met and it went well. A second meet was arranged and it was explosive in the sexual variety.

Would I do it again ? ..."

Maybe not, that was in the days when ASL was was the icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake! "

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....

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By *rJackMrsDaniels OP   Couple
over a year ago

norton

Something exciting about the unknown but only if it turns out well I love the excitement when you click with somebody new or see a picture and you instantly what more. Obviously I still get this feeling with Jack

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them...."

I ask for face pictures before meeting, but not immediately. Just because there's no face in the first message doesn't mean they don't send one. (whether they're respecting wishes is another matter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo not a chance. This is where me and 'Mr A' disagree as he doesn't really mind what someone looks like for fucking however I really need to be attracted to someone to want to fuck them especially if there aren't emotions involved.

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Yes met loads of people that I’ve never seen a pic of previous to meeting them when attending socials and club nights

When meeting them in person that way you can safely skip the pic formalities "
We do mainly club meets and this works for us too

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By *oupleyouwouldntexpectCouple
over a year ago

Derby

no!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Yes! It was for a social with a couple who lived far enough away that they weren't going to be work mates or neighbours. They didn't want to swap face pics and neither did we at that point. We got on well with them over chat so we knew we clicked. Their body pics looked good too.

They were lovely! And really attractive too. We had a great social and met them a few times in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them...."

Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times back in the day of IRC and ICQ. It was exciting and went well but wouldn’t do it now.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....

Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!"

I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Meeting the actual person tells me much more than any photograph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....

Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!

I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s "

I met a guy off here for a social about 8 years ago. He looked at least 10 years older than his pics. I met him in a coffee shop in town and genuinely had no idea who he was when he came over.

He's still on here with the same pics! It's a shame as he was actually rather lovely. I just didn't like the deception. He claimed his pics were recent

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No.

But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo

Rookie mistake!

Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"

I insist on video calls now.

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....

Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!

I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s

I met a guy off here for a social about 8 years ago. He looked at least 10 years older than his pics. I met him in a coffee shop in town and genuinely had no idea who he was when he came over.

He's still on here with the same pics! It's a shame as he was actually rather lovely. I just didn't like the deception. He claimed his pics were recent "

Oh definitely. I have a very wide age range, and what many don't get is that I judge by the age they claim to be. So a recent photo is really the best bet.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Yes, around the time we started, never again, worse moment since we started this crazy wonderfull life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah did it the once but think I was one of the lucky guys turned out to be a really lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but that's for safety. I live alone and need to have a back up friend in case anything happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but that's for safety. I live alone and need to have a back up friend in case anything happens "

Makes sense xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though. "

Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.

It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.

Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though.

Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.

It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.

Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision "

Yes I also spoke to him on the phone first and asked him to describe himself. My gut told me there would be mutual attraction and I was right. That was when I first joined though, I have insisted on a face pic ever since

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Nope, only had one social tho.

I have sent a few messages to women without any pictures as their profile was interesting and I wanted to hear a little more about them but I would like to see a picture before arranging a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though.

Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.

It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.

Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision

Yes I also spoke to him on the phone first and asked him to describe himself. My gut told me there would be mutual attraction and I was right. That was when I first joined though, I have insisted on a face pic ever since"

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I rarely meet without camming with someone to see they match their photos and them me I can't see why anyone wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, couple of years ago. Well sort of. It didn't go well at all...

No pics on profile, not much of a profile at all really. She messaged first, and was local. We were both up for an impromptu meet, and we eventually sent a photo during messaging. However, her photo wasn't a recent one.

I ended up not feeling all too well, and the night came to a halt which was fine. Unfortunately, she then began stalking me both on Fab and other social media outlets. Absolute nutter. Must have enjoyed herself too much

So yeah, make sure they have photos and haven't escaped from an asylum chaps and chapettes :D

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

No so far, and certainly don't plan to either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way wouldn’t risk that! It’s hard enough making sure it’s a recent photo haha!

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Yes I have quite a few times. Most of the time it's good fun, not having a clue who you are meeting. It definitely adds to the excitement.

I've also had great sex with people I might not have met if I had seen a pic. Only a couple of disasters though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only in a club would never meet on a 1 to 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But it was to fulfill a certain fantasy. I haven't since, nor would I. Though the outcome was rather great with that guy, so we met quite a lot afterwards

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By *ornyjcMan
over a year ago

oldham

My big is cpls or ladys who don't have photos and demand one from you x

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