FabSwingers.com forum: how has fab improved you

By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

What's one thing you have improved on since joining fab for me I would say oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's helped to increase my confidence and realise that some men really do like women of all shapes and sizes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve realised what I’m actually looking for !!

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Rach and shorty, after reading yours i feel like I should have been more thoughtful and reflective about what I learnt.

I feel a wee bit ashamed to have writen, That as mine pales in insignificance compared to your experience lessons.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Definitely improved my confidence, made me more daring and willing to try things I would never have done before

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It has improved my knowledge of certain aspects of sex no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree x

Made me realise people like you no matter if you have wobbly bits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have to attend every argument I am invited to, and I can say no without feeling bad even though "this is a sex site"

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

i been on fabs since 2011, on and off. Back then was better more open nicer people easier to get meets when you wanted etc. As time gone on its become apparant that fabs has changed me big time. Alot for the better but also the bad. Now fabs is all messed up kik shit adverts in chat rooms. People using the word stunning all the time for crap profiles or chat roooms. Fake profiles and verifications over the top. Half dont even meet now its all blah blah . So some aspects are good some are proper shite and too many young fake ones i think are set up by admin for popular means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing since joining loll

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I have become more confident and assertive.

Thank you FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs has made me a bad person haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has certainly helped me reflect on what I am actually looking for, rather than what I think I am looking for.

Also, anal.

Not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've improved as a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rach and shorty, after reading yours i feel like I should have been more thoughtful and reflective about what I learnt.

I feel a wee bit ashamed to have writen, That as mine pales in insignificance compared to your experience lessons."

No need to apologise hun. It's your post

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Just made me distrusting of everyone and everything said. I have less confidence now than I did. If anything I think its put me off sex...

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Blanchardstown

I’ve done a lot more charity work

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By *nozcumberMan
over a year ago

Honiton

Fab has made me more relaxed about being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I thought was a good sex life was actually rather a bland one. It's opened my eyes (and other things) to so many new experiences, pushing boundries on the way.

I'm a dominant type in everyday life, finding my submissive side was the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge confidence boost! It’s only ‘just sex’..but I’m good enough for that!

I am enough!

Sauce x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably my confidence with talking to women is the biggest improvement before i joined fab i struggled alot chatting to the opposite sex but nowadays im fine with talking to them and i do actually owe it to fab i love the forums such a great place to engage with people similar to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve alwats been confident online, but Fab has afforded me the opportunity to experiment further in real life. Much more still to learn and explore but plenty of time for that!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Just happier and being more confident about being open about myself, my wants and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better at spelling, grammar and quizzes and im quicker at typing

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I met the love of my life on here which improved my life, but sadly it didn't work out so also gave me heartache too...both sides of the coin.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely helped with my confidence

Also made me toughen up a little. Living a sheltered life previously I found out loads since being on here

1. Men will try / say anything to get in my knickers

2. What you see is not always what you get

3. Girls can be super bitchy

4. An orgasm - I kid you not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely helped with my confidence

Also made me toughen up a little. Living a sheltered life previously I found out loads since being on here

1. Men will try / say anything to get in my knickers

2. What you see is not always what you get

3. Girls can be super bitchy

4. An orgasm - I kid you not !

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number one ........really ,I find that hard to believe

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Confidence is sexier than a six pack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is sexier than a six pack."
well yes I agree six packs lead to beer bellies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it has improved me at all! But never having interacted on line before it has opened my eyes to a whole different life scenario

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By *rJackMrsDanielsCouple
over a year ago

norton

Definitely made us realise we aren’t they only weirdos around in fact we seem quite normal

It’s definitely improved our sex life and how we actually appreciate each other x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Made us more confident sexually and generally. Pushed our boundaries considerably - made us realise sex with other people while you're married doesn't have to be a hidden, guilty, cheating sort of thing; in fact that adultery just for fun has actually strengthened our marriage. In other words, monogamy doesn't really work for people like us.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s made me realise that I’m not some kind of freak for liking sex

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I wish I'd known about it a few years ago. My gut feeling is that I'd be enjoying the site more if I lived somewhere a bit more vibrant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its improved my confidance and helps me with my depression.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"its improved my confidance and helps me with my depression."

That's great!!

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"Definitely improved my confidence, made me more daring and willing to try things I would never have done before

Snap

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

My rimming skills....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest! You can't improve perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say that it hasn't improved 'me' but I realise what a sheltered life I lead pre fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stopped putting cheeky xx at the end of every post

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I used to think it was cute but found not many like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along with my confidence fab has made me abit more daring and willing to take chances shame that the chances i take end in rejection still at least i have my new found confidence thats not going away im soo confident now that i want to attend clubs which is something that gave me nightmares

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"What's one thing you have improved on since joining fab for me I would say oral. "

My confidence and outgoing-ness (if there is such a word). I used to be the sort of person who cared (too much?) about the opinions of others and how they saw me......these days I don’t care as much.....I’m like a jar of marmite.....you either like me or you don’t, either way, I’m still me and I’m going to carry on about my daily life doing what I want to do!

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Only have to look at my pics to see how its improved me,

Its turned me into a pvc and leather loving little sissy.

...and I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's made us more confident with our sexuality and open to new experiences. Also less judgemental of others sexual preferences, as long as it's consenting adults.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We're both more confident, relaxed and open about not just our sexuality but in general life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My patience has improved

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Made me more confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cynicism has increased 10 fold.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"My cynicism has increased 10 fold."

Happy to have helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My keyboard skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cynicism has increased 10 fold."

It's written in the code of practice for being on fabswingers.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't. If anything its made me more self conscious.

Self confidence takes a beating on here.

You very rarely get a reply, response or a look in and it takes its toll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly more knowledgable and open-minded. I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can now do the crossword in under 5 minutes

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've become a lot more confident in myself and have learnt not to google things that are said on here if I don't know what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It hasn't. If anything its made me more self conscious.

Self confidence takes a beating on here.

You very rarely get a reply, response or a look in and it takes its toll

Resilience training.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Motorway driving skills. I can expertly hog that middle lane for a hundred miles or more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've much improved at cooking paella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opportunity to meet and photograph some genuinely nice folk

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I’m now incredibly patient and better with rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here about a year ago, so changed our lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, so it was you......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo my blow jobs. And my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it certainly isn't anything related to sex..

But my confidence has grown a little... Something else keeps growing everytime I log on aswel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence massively with my looks and abilities

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Some really good pertinent responses.

It seems confidence is a big one for people.

I think I would add for mine that no matter what there is always someone who finds you or something attractive.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Made me realise there are plenty of women who agree with me that sex is a great hobby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's one thing you have improved on since joining fab for me I would say oral. "
realising men are hungry and we can boost egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dress sense

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