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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Depends what you said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously only good things

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Agree ,depends on how and what's said.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

Saying they are shite is brutal but she may respect your honesty.

Saying they are the best pics ever may sound cringeworthy and put her off.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Maybe comment on the quality of the pictures, instead of the usual 'nice tits love' comments...

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Obviously only good things"

Just don't take it too far... We had a first message with someone going in to great detail which ones he liked and why and how much he enjoyed wanking over them. Not for us.

V x

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Obviously only good things"
shouldn’t be an issue then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People often comment on our photos in a first message. We put them on our profile for people to look at, it's hardly surprising if people comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong, but it is quite dull and thoughtless.

People get compliments based on their bodies all the time on here, which you might think is a positive, but is seen by many people as a negative - it shows no interest in them as human beings, and merely objectifies them so it can be detrimental to your efforts to appear to be a decent human being despite you thinking you're being kind.

If I get a message saying, "nice body" or similar, I tend to say thanks but what else can you say? Errrr......thanks.....end of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It beats "hi, hows u"

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm flattered when people comment on our pictures (as long as they are positive comments!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?"

I suppose it depends on why you do it. If it's to honestly offer a genuine compliment in a polite way, I imagine most people would find it hard to object.

If it's to break the ice with someone for whom you tick their boxes and hope to build a conversation and rapport, that's a nice way to do it.

We get compliments on our pictures from people we are very clear have no interest for us and it kind of feels awkward to just say "thanks" and then move on because to take a conversation any further would pretty much be a waste of our and their time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's a compliment, I can see no issues

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Nothing wrong with that. Just beware of making presumptuous comments on what you'd like to do to said woman.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?"

Always say positive things, or don't comment.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve received compliments on my pics from complete strangers. Always welcome and I do thank them for taking the time to message.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Compliments always welcome.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?"
no not if it's a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women won't like it, some will, and some will be indifferent.

You won't know which is which, so go with whatever, and cross your fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like complementary messages based upon my photos. However, not if the message quickly reads "can I wank off to them?". Just too cringey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wrong but if its just a way of getting me talking i normally just say thanks and leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not wrong but if its just a way of getting me talking i normally just say thanks and leave it at that"
and have to say most of it goes in o e ear and out the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked many times for respectful admiration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong to comment on a woman’s photos on the first message?"

Not at all

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