FabSwingers.com forum: Watching your man enjoy another girl

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a couple me being the female I've always wanted to see my bf be with another girl while I watch but feel that this is frowned upon yet find it more acceptable the other way round?? What do people think??

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

On my bucket list xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread...

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread..."
it's my fantasy but yes ladies always think it's for my mans gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on your relationship and how you act

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread..."

I can assure you its not why do people find this so strange but find it acceptable the opposite way round???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people will believe this the male half of the couple Posting in this thread...it's my fantasy but yes ladies always think it's for my mans gain"

But it's my gain its something I want in our relationship seems so unacceptable this way round but I live in hope still xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're happy to go along with it then who cares what we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m seen hubby with another lady ...easily the horniest thing ever . I know understand why he likes to see me with another man ...best thing ever

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By *plfromcorkCouple
over a year ago

cork

We're just back from a wedding and have female friend here, could get interesting but herself is pissed as a fart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you guys are having a fun night!

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not just you, I love to share him with another girl and watch them playing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s amazing seeing this. It’s the thing that can make me the horniest I can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it. Watched him have 3sum with a couple as well.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I’m very much the cuck quean I’m my relationship love watching him enjoy other women gets me extremely hot for him we always have fantastic night of sex afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not heard of it being frowned upon. If that's what you want then do it; don't worry about what other people may think.

If the women want proof you're ok with it you can have a quick phone call.

My long term partner sees other women and some have chatted to me too.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I’m very much the cuck quean I’m my relationship love watching him enjoy other women gets me extremely hot for him we always have fantastic night of sex afterwards "

This is me too. So hot to see Mr R playing with other women. It's always on my terms. I can see why people think it is the male posting, but there are genuine couples who are into this. Trying to arrange some play where he plays on skpye and I watch . Any tips greatly received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would love to find a couple that want this and the wife take pics as the hubby and I pleasure Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t hold back and ended up playing with myself whilst he did.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We both love watching one another with a sex-partner and if the 3rd person agree we alway take pics. We almost always join in afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that.

It destroyed me inside. I did it to make him happy.

Maybe I'm different but if I had a boyfriend and anyone tried it on, I'd go for her. I don't do sharing.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Got to admit it's something I wouldn't like, which is why we're only a soft swing couple.

Now if I could convince him to play with another man though...

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

My wife love this too. I feel a lucky man. But as the fab way still hard to find a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t hold back and ended up playing with myself whilst he did."

This is definitely my thing. If only I could find him a single lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is happy being in the same space as another couple but gets the green eye if a woman wants to take it to the next level with me.

I am happy watching her play with another male and she is happy to do this too funny enough!

Any advice on how to lower the green eye in her would be much appreciated as then it wouldn't feel like a one way street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is happy being in the same space as another couple but gets the green eye if a woman wants to take it to the next level with me.

I am happy watching her play with another male and she is happy to do this too funny enough!

Any advice on how to lower the green eye in her would be much appreciated as then it wouldn't feel like a one way street.

Have you talked to her about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its work in progress, no reason to be that way. We do have a really good marriage 10 years plus. I have never even give her the reason to be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is an odd paradox that despite my analytical disposition I have been unable to reconcile.

You are quite correct when you say that it appears more frowned upon when a woman enjoys seeing her man with another woman than the other way around. Now, I can make a logical case for why it's less common. Women are (on average) less visual creatures than men. Not less shallow by any means, but they find purely visual stimuli to be less appealing than men. Therefore it follows logically that they would take less pleasure from pure observation of any sex act than a man would and consequently this kink is less common in women than men.

As for why it's more frowned upon... Inconclusive. Some strange interaction of kink and modern feminism? Possibly but it wouldn't explain other submissive female kinks which remain common.

You have stumbled upon something I can't get my head round at all, which in a sociological context is a rare thing

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

When I was in a couple I loved my boyfriend fucking others... men and women. Never a shred of jealousy. It’s sexy and fun.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in a couple I loved my boyfriend fucking others... men and women. Never a shred of jealousy. It’s sexy and fun.

V x "

This ^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love sharing Mr with another woman. It’s hot as hell! xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L does, them again I like watching L with another girl.

However best is when we both play with another girl.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Miss loves seeing me with another woman as she is playing with the male.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Oh Lordy. Yet another Post from this fake profile

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By *amp and dragonCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I can’t wait to see my hubby with another woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (female) very much enjoy sharing my man with another female, I love to watch him and listen to him, reach out to touch him and my tummy flips in excitement as he looks at me when he is with her.

I am quite comfortable with this in a FFM or couple situation as swinging is our joint enjoyment, it's for us as a couple to enjoy and not one person gains more than the other. If that ever became the case then we would stop playing.

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