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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."
women rule here

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one "

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I'll punch above my weight every fucking time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one "

This could be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.women rule here "

Power to the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as me punching above my weight (as I don't usually send a first message). I see it as them punching below theirs, for an easy win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi don’t be so small minded , physical attraction not everything xxx

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Ah go on i'll say it. I love big dick on a fit guy who is at least 6ft talland who licks my pussy and who makes me cum multiple times.

Sorry just can''t envisage anything better.

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I do it because I can lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Is it women's fault that some men are so desperate to get their dick wet they'll lower their usually high standards?

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't hot men give out a little charity sex now and then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please"

Have a few more sips .. I wanna hear more of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please"

If it's tea there's no excuse.

If it's JD and , I'll have it thanks.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

This old chestnut again

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

Vodka. I should be locked up from 9pm it’s all true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please

Have a few more sips .. I wanna hear more of this "

What she's saying is, some people don't see a person as better than them, so they'll happily have sex with them. Now, that's usually the really fit men with hot bods and handsome faces, as they have nothing to prove and don't have low self-esteem.

Ugly men will get fed up of messaging women far better looking than them and go for the ugly ones out of desperation.

When the ugly women turn them down they message men, for a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you trying to tell me that women are obligated to respond to us? BEcause I read about women in a book once and i'm pretty sure on page 2 it said that's not the case

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Well I guess it depends on if you know how much they weigh, and then how hard they punch; it’s then a simple matter of working out the power:weight ratio.

But a real gent wouldn’t ask a woman’s weight in the first place.

What about the women that know the difference between there and their?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just you, OP.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston


"No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one "
I think I'll join . 4 hrs left of a Nightshift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Perhaps we are..... but we still get laid when ever we want to be with really hot guys if we want them.

Can many guys say the same with hot girls?

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By *heshireMan37Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Every man on here and those that are not should by now realise woman are the one's who rule the world especially when it comes to the bedroom

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By *heshireMan37Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Every man on here and those that are not should by now realise woman are the one's who rule the world especially when it comes to the bedroom "

Meant women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is because of the any hole is goal brigade..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically, because there are so many more men than women here, it’s effectively a buyers’ market for women: they can afford to be a bit more choosy. Men can either be selective or not, and they have varying degrees of success with that approach.

I’m not even sure what “punching your weight” means, given that sometimes people can have a very different view of how attractive (or not) they are compared with how others see it. Some have a bulletproof self-belief in their magnetic appeal to others, others less so.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else!

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! "

I think this is referred too as sour grapes.....

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please"

Howling

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please

Have a few more sips .. I wanna hear more of this

What she's saying is, some people don't see a person as better than them, so they'll happily have sex with them. Now, that's usually the really fit men with hot bods and handsome faces, as they have nothing to prove and don't have low self-esteem.

Ugly men will get fed up of messaging women far better looking than them and go for the ugly ones out of desperation.

When the ugly women turn them down they message men, for a blow job.

"

Pmsl

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Don’t thinking punching above your weight exists if all parties want to sleep with each other they are all of the same weight surely?

Hate this obsession with others looks beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that!

Why obsess at others to looks if your not interested in them? It’s beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please"

Taken your drink, drank it myself and applauding you for that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably weigh more than a lot of men so when so find one that weighs more than me I'll go for it

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Pmsl! Get you eh....and this is why gags are used....stop the s**t coming out of ppls mouths....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

your opinion of where their weight entitles them to be punching is irrelevant. The opinion of themselves and those they are meeting is what counts...

I imagine your post is because someone you feel shouldn't have the audacity to have such standards has rejected you...suck it up buttercup...they don't give a shit what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be scared to . I'd be put off the really hot guys or ones who had verifications from really attractive women . I'd tell myself I am not what they want and they must just be desperate.

I am well aware I get more attention here than in the real world.

That said Fab is like a buffet, sometimes you just want to try something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s mainly due to a few things,

Men to women ratio

Some men have the any holes a goal attitude

Who decides what the punching above level is

For me it’s simple, if I’m not attracted to someone it doesn’t matter if it’s fab or the real world, I wouldn’t have any physical interaction with them.

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire

Very interesting! I think theirs a lot of punching above weight as everyone’s different!

But it’s mainly makes the best examples are guys who contact who clearly think you will go against your wants and desires just to have a quick fuck with them! Example we like black guys tall powerful clean living clean shaven black guys , who are localish

,Why does some white guy from Edinburgh sending a photo with a scruffy unkept beard and a joint hanging off his lip who is 5ft 4 leaving the message ‘hi wanna fuck’ think he’s even going to get taken seriously???

That is punching! Pmsl

Disclaimer - we don’t wish to offend any guy or the lovely folk of Edinburgh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like sour grapes to me.

Maybe someone can't even get a blow job off a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like sour grapes to me.

Maybe someone can't even get a blow job off a man "

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By *C2019Couple
over a year ago

packington nw leicestershire

Here here definitely at some point! We’re no oil paintings but we class our selves as good sketches! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do because i can

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Sounds like sour grapes to me.

Maybe someone can't even get a blow job off a man

"

Definitely agree!!

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

I guess it can be said for both side of the argument. What do they say..oh yes..“if you don’t ask you don’t get”!

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Hi don’t be so small minded , physical attraction not everything xxx"

That’s easy for a fine looking couple like yourselves to say !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi don’t be so small minded , physical attraction not everything xxx"

If I was on a dating site I agree

But it's a sex site so I disagree

Physical attraction is the reason I would meet or not meet.

Chrissie x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Think he got turned down by an uggoe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.

If i can ever find a site filled with beautiful and slightly desperate young women who are willing to jump in bed with me I'd be punching above my weight too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah.

If i can ever find a site filled with beautiful and slightly desperate young women who are willing to jump in bed with me I'd be punching above my weight too.

"

Good point well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your opinion of where their weight entitles them to be punching is irrelevant. The opinion of themselves and those they are meeting is what counts...

I imagine your post is because someone you feel shouldn't have the audacity to have such standards has rejected you...suck it up buttercup...they don't give a shit what you think"

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Think he got turned down by an uggoe "

Or thought a mature one would be more ‘grateful’ and still got turned down.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

What about all the men who send messages saying you’re gorgeous/stunning/hottest woman on here etc and sending a pic of themselves - does that mean that they think they are equally as gorgeous or are they punching above their weight too?

I do know the real answer and it’s no, they are blowing smoke up our arses cos they will say anything to get a response and think that we’re all totally gullible and believe that bollocks.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Beauty is subjective. People you find attractive are horrible to others. So the the punching above their weight thing is mute.

But these posts make me feel good. Someone cannot get a meet then gets sour grapes. Trust me not doing anyone a favour because you think they ugly but will meet them anyway .

We far from the supermodel looks but have no problem getting meets here and other sites with people, including elusive single women. You telling me they all doing us a favour and be grateful

Think should take a look in the mirror and reavaluate attractiveness

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

OP I think you got rejected by someone so you’re venting on here which isn’t a good idea. Women can choose who they want to meet and spend time with. So don’t have a strop because someone you messaged said “no thanks” as you’re not their type and they don’t want to waste any of your time as they get hundreds of messages all saying possibly the same as you.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Yeah.

If i can ever find a site filled with beautiful and slightly desperate young women who are willing to jump in bed with me I'd be punching above my weight too.

"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty is subjective. People you find attractive are horrible to others. So the the punching above their weight thing is mute.

"

Except its not outside neiche fetishism humans are pretty damn uniform in thier categorisation of beauty on a purely physical level

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please... "

Disgraceful behaviour

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour "

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Someone got a Frowny Face haven’t you OP? xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Awwwwwww, did you get turned down again and again OP?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve punched harder than Muhammed Ali.

I don’t get any sex in ‘real life’

*Puts bag back over head and goes man hunting to Wetherspoons*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

"

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."
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This sounds like sour grapes to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil "

It's undeniable and I'm not even sorry

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yeah.

If i can ever find a site filled with beautiful and slightly desperate young women who are willing to jump in bed with me I'd be punching above my weight too.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women hold all the cards in this game Sunshine !! lol , And rightly so ,

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please... "

Lol

Pass me 1 to while your at it.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Beauty is subjective. People you find attractive are horrible to others. So the the punching above their weight thing is mute.

Except its not outside neiche fetishism humans are pretty damn uniform in thier categorisation of beauty on a purely physical level"

Disagree or think we outside the norm a lot lol as well as our friends. Find supermodels unattractive. So thin men who spend hours at gym sculpting body. No thank you. Find normal everyday bodies attractive and know we not alone. Think the media has a lot to do with this, that you have to look a certain way or you unattactive. Unfortunately a lot believe it. Can 100% say that they lying.

On a none physical level. Find these people more arrogant which is not attractive. Although positive majority are not we personally do tend to tarnish all people like this as arrogant before even spoke. (Extremely wrong of us we know. But after bad experiances with people like this we cautious).

Guess we outside the uniform pattern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Same with a lot of men don't you think... Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women hold all the cards in this game Sunshine !! lol , And rightly so ,"

If that were true I could fuck any man I want to on this site.

And I can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil "

I'll prove it to you that women don't hold all the cards and have all the power on here.

Carter, would you like to have sex with me? If not, can you please say why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty is subjective. People you find attractive are horrible to others. So the the punching above their weight thing is mute.

Except its not outside neiche fetishism humans are pretty damn uniform in thier categorisation of beauty on a purely physical level

Disagree or think we outside the norm a lot lol as well as our friends. Find supermodels unattractive. "

Thsts not outside the norm.

Super models are clothes hangers for fashion items they are a means to an end they are not the focus.

For sexual attraction measure look at glamour models or porn stars both of which are radically differnt and more fuller figured.

But universally symmetry ranks highly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil

I'll prove it to you that women don't hold all the cards and have all the power on here.

Carter, would you like to have sex with me? If not, can you please say why."

Yeah sure you're funny and have been a person whos chatted to me since i joined but you will have to shave your arse if its hairy.

Im also a slag so you know bad choice of example :p

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi don’t be so small minded , physical attraction not everything xxx"
i consider it a big deal. Wouldn’t meet someone I am not attracted to physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil

I'll prove it to you that women don't hold all the cards and have all the power on here.

Carter, would you like to have sex with me? If not, can you please say why.

Yeah sure you're funny and have been a person whos chatted to me since i joined but you will have to shave your arse if its hairy.

Im also a slag so you know bad choice of example :p"

Fuck sake Carter, I chose you because I thought you had good taste

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Punching above there weight quality loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve punched harder than Muhammed Ali.

I don’t get any sex in ‘real life’

*Puts bag back over head and goes man hunting to Wetherspoons*"

Let me know which one and I'll have a drink ready for you via their app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil

I'll prove it to you that women don't hold all the cards and have all the power on here.

Carter, would you like to have sex with me? If not, can you please say why.

Yeah sure you're funny and have been a person whos chatted to me since i joined but you will have to shave your arse if its hairy.

Im also a slag so you know bad choice of example :p

Fuck sake Carter, I chose you because I thought you had good taste "

Yeah but ypu shpuld also know tjat i will always 100% do the exact oposite of what's expected of me :p

But yeah you're right, youre a fantastic person and a good friend but youre not my type.

If somone is willing to give uo what they want for a shag they don't just demean themselves they demean thier partner and that's not right in my book.

But i will admit as a younger and weaker man i have done it so i know it happens here.

I think a lot of people misunderstand men when it comes to "shagging anything" as they dont see both the hormonal and societal pressure to be that man.

When were young we give in, but most grow out of it. I think thats why many women here prefer the 30+ bracket, something i personally disputed in my younger days on here too i will admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only sex. What's all this leagues, punching stuff? If two people want to fuck why worry about compared perceived attractiveness.

Someone pass this old bird another young gentleman suitably oiled up and grateful please...

Disgraceful behaviour

People like you are to blame.for the downfall of society!

And the high price of baby oil

I'll prove it to you that women don't hold all the cards and have all the power on here.

Carter, would you like to have sex with me? If not, can you please say why.

Yeah sure you're funny and have been a person whos chatted to me since i joined but you will have to shave your arse if its hairy.

Im also a slag so you know bad choice of example :p

Fuck sake Carter, I chose you because I thought you had good taste

Yeah but ypu shpuld also know tjat i will always 100% do the exact oposite of what's expected of me :p

But yeah you're right, youre a fantastic person and a good friend but youre not my type.

If somone is willing to give uo what they want for a shag they don't just demean themselves they demean thier partner and that's not right in my book.

But i will admit as a younger and weaker man i have done it so i know it happens here.

I think a lot of people misunderstand men when it comes to "shagging anything" as they dont see both the hormonal and societal pressure to be that man.

When were young we give in, but most grow out of it. I think thats why many women here prefer the 30+ bracket, something i personally disputed in my younger days on here too i will admit."

See, I am not his type, so I have no cards in my hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also would like to draw attention to the fact that some people weigh themselves incorrectly on here.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

If a younger, handsome man wishes to meet me then i will obviuosly enjoy it while im still fit and able.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

What makes you think that OP?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I also would like to draw attention to the fact that some people weigh themselves incorrectly on here."

I think they use the same rules of calibration that some apply to age calculations

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By *ockey64Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."
shit will hit the fan lol

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"I'll punch above my weight every fucking time. "

Me too, especially as I get away with it every time...

Been seeing a lot of sour grapes in Fab lately...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also would like to draw attention to the fact that some people weigh themselves incorrectly on here.

I think they use the same rules of calibration that some apply to age calculations "

We're crap at this measuring lark on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

If a younger, handsome man wishes to meet me then i will obviuosly enjoy it while im still fit and able."

Me too. Most message because they think they will be getting great sex; which is what I want. I'm great at sex, so why not do it with someone looking for the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just a guess but did you just get rejected by a woman YOU thought was a 5 at best? I suspect that she had more self respect than you gave her credit for.

Don't be that guy.

You know the one.

The guy who calls a girl a slag because she won't sleep with you.

I get it dude. You feel bad or unworthy of beauty so you aim for women you think won't reject you (beggars can't be choosers, right). And when they reject you it is like not being accepted to your third chose university.

Unfortunately these feelings are yours to manage and improve on but as long as you see human sexuality as a league table. You may find yourself relegated. Can't believe I just made a football reference.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

I'm guessing you've had a few knock backs ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go easy on op guys. We are all victims of the patriarchy and need help communicating honestly with each other.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You probably think that but I don't think it's true.

Sounds like you spat your dummy out, tbh at your age you should know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have been punching well above my weight for every person I have met from fab over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You probably think that but I don't think it's true.

Sounds like you spat your dummy out, tbh at your age you should know better "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You probably think that but I don't think it's true.

Sounds like you spat your dummy out, tbh at your age you should know better "
Burn!!

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By *rikey25Man
over a year ago

mids

There is no correlation between slim and pretty and the bedroom experience. Looks are often meaningless. Some of the most beautiful women I’ve been with were awful in bed.

Connection, humour, confidence, communication and a desire to please beat looks every day and night.

I’d swap a pretty face for a good giggle and feeling desired anytime.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"There is no correlation between slim and pretty and the bedroom experience. Looks are often meaningless. Some of the most beautiful women I’ve been with were awful in bed.

Connection, humour, confidence, communication and a desire to please beat looks every day and night.

I’d swap a pretty face for a good giggle and feeling desired anytime.

"

Me too

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Did an old wobbly bird like me turn you down

Poor love. It must be so hurtful. I hope you sent her a message to let her know you wouldn’t fuck her with someone else’s cock if she begged you.

We must learn our place and if you men don’t tell us to set us right we’d be all over the fucking place.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Oh dear!

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Age is not important... and so punching above weight is irrelevant!

There is someone on here for everyone what ever your delicacy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women hold all the cards in this game Sunshine !! lol , And rightly so ,

If that were true I could fuck any man I want to on this site.

And I can't. "

I'll bet you could fuck as many as you want tho ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charming!

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one "

We’ll join you. Pass the , would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charming! "

Women love a charmer.

A wise woman once told me

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Pussy power mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way exactly i dont think so in the slightest as there are people who love mature women and there are mature women on here that just look incredible

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By *icandAliCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

So, you are saying that women beyond a certain age are punching above their weight when it comes to them looking for a fit younger man? News flash, some older women are desired by younger men. I should know, my husband is 13 years my junior!!!

So no, i dont agree with what you are saying. Id say you are bitter from rejection, prob from a mature lady !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you are saying that women beyond a certain age are punching above their weight when it comes to them looking for a fit younger man? News flash, some older women are desired by younger men. I should know, my husband is 13 years my junior!!!

So no, i dont agree with what you are saying. Id say you are bitter from rejection, prob from a mature lady ! "

Definitely agree with this i being a lover of mature ladies i infact prefer them they teach me all kinds of knowledge i never knew about my last few partners/meets have all been with mature ladies hell the last meet i had was with a 50+ year old and she blew my mind and body

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd like to know what the OP classes as mature being 46 himself!!

He hasn't come back to this thread has he? I bet he's regretting it now.

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By *icandAliCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'd like to know what the OP classes as mature being 46 himself!!

He hasn't come back to this thread has he? I bet he's regretting it now."

What a prat!!! Hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know what the OP classes as mature being 46 himself!!

He hasn't come back to this thread has he? I bet he's regretting it now."

Sorry to look but your pics are fantastic

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! "
yes it's not a good thing to say out loud the reality is women are in driving seat so the amount of guys who throw themselves at them for the obvious reasons give them the pick of the crop to choose from ,its the intelligent women who don't pick the guys that in life wouldn't look at them twice but hey we live in a society that promotes choice ,it's not their fault that here the women have it ,choice through numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charming!

Women love a charmer.

A wise woman once told me "

And there are precious few on here, I can tell you!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Is that your chat up line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

"

You'd be looking for virginal, clueless women?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

"

of course we are the undateables.

Sigh.

V x

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else!

I think this is referred too as sour grapes....."

As in me or his comment?

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! yes it's not a good thing to say out loud the reality is women are in driving seat so the amount of guys who throw themselves at them for the obvious reasons give them the pick of the crop to choose from ,its the intelligent women who don't pick the guys that in life wouldn't look at them twice but hey we live in a society that promotes choice ,it's not their fault that here the women have it ,choice through numbers "
choice though. Its that stupid mentality that you're in a higher 'league' than someone or because you value certain traits to be beneath you. Self righteous BS!!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

"

What would they be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?"

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners "

I love that you've answered for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him. "

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Sometimes they punch below their weight, for which I'm eternally grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him.

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question"

I didnt see anything obnoxious in Topsy's question

Or indeed, anything obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him.

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question

I didnt see anything obnoxious in Topsy's question

Or indeed, anything obvious."

Ok.

If you see no differnce between a shag and a partner then fair enough but that's unusual espeicaly on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him.

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question

I didnt see anything obnoxious in Topsy's question

Or indeed, anything obvious.

Ok.

If you see no differnce between a shag and a partner then fair enough but that's unusual espeicaly on a swinging site"

I would hope to be treated with the same level of respect whichever one I were

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

I sense u have been knocked back OP....don't worry...sure u have broad shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him.

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question

I didnt see anything obnoxious in Topsy's question

Or indeed, anything obvious.

Ok.

If you see no differnce between a shag and a partner then fair enough but that's unusual espeicaly on a swinging site"

Unusual? Oh yes, my love. I am most definitely that.

I am also able to read threads properly and understand context

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By *otcouple65Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! What one person considers attractive may not appeal to someone else. I think being on here allows you to be more accepting and consider people that you wouldn't necessarily consider in real life. I find it's refreshing to focus on personality and sometimes it's just a case of clicking even though they are not your type physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see it as me punching above my weight (as I don't usually send a first message). I see it as them punching below theirs, for an easy win.

"

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners

I love that you've answered for him.

Well it was an obnoxiously obvious question

I didnt see anything obnoxious in Topsy's question

Or indeed, anything obvious.

Ok.

If you see no differnce between a shag and a partner then fair enough but that's unusual espeicaly on a swinging site"

Right there. That’s why it’s almost impossible for women to get a great swinging experience on here. That exact attitude.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People sleep who they want to sleep with. I get abuse for punching above my weight, I get abuse for fucking guys my detractors deem inadequate. Idgaf. I'm having fun.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! What one person considers attractive may not appeal to someone else. I think being on here allows you to be more accepting and consider people that you wouldn't necessarily consider in real life. I find it's refreshing to focus on personality and sometimes it's just a case of clicking even though they are not your type physically.

"

Couldn't agree more Its far more enjoyable to meet people on the same wavelength mentally, than have a so-so meet with someone who might be deemed by some to be more physically attractive.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've lately surprised myself and decided go embrace it.

If they are above my weight then oh well x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Some people do not understand swinging or how this site works ..

What I find attractive about ladies sexually is there dirty mind ..

If it sex you’re after, there’s nothing better than an older experienced lady who knows what she’s doing ..

If I was looking to date someone I’d be looking for totally different characteristics..

What would they be?

I suppose he means a deep personal compatibility raher than a shallow sexual compatibility.

You know like how 99% of people differentiate between one night stands and thier partners "

Thanks

That’s exactly what I mean .. you put it better than me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! yes it's not a good thing to say out loud the reality is women are in driving seat so the amount of guys who throw themselves at them for the obvious reasons give them the pick of the crop to choose from ,its the intelligent women who don't pick the guys that in life wouldn't look at them twice but hey we live in a society that promotes choice ,it's not their fault that here the women have it ,choice through numbers choice though. Its that stupid mentality that you're in a higher 'league' than someone or because you value certain traits to be beneath you. Self righteous BS!!!"
only certain men perceive them to be punching above and only certain women's egos make themselves feel superior ,it's an egotistical life ,if you've got it flaunt it

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"only certain men perceive them to be punching above and only certain women's egos make themselves feel superior ,it's an egotistical life ,if you've got it flaunt it "

Really you think enjoying this lifestyle is all about ego-stroking? Seems a very odd perspective

I thought it was simply having consensual fun with likeminded people, preferably without massive egos!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Suppose if you'll stretch to 99yrs old like some then yeah they will be

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"only certain men perceive them to be punching above and only certain women's egos make themselves feel superior ,it's an egotistical life ,if you've got it flaunt it

Really you think enjoying this lifestyle is all about ego-stroking? Seems a very odd perspective

I thought it was simply having consensual fun with likeminded people, preferably without massive egos!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"only certain men perceive them to be punching above and only certain women's egos make themselves feel superior ,it's an egotistical life ,if you've got it flaunt it

Really you think enjoying this lifestyle is all about ego-stroking? Seems a very odd perspective

I thought it was simply having consensual fun with likeminded people, preferably without massive egos!"
no but the ops question or thread involves egos

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"no but the ops question or thread involves egos "

You're the one who stated "its an egotistical lifestyle"

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model.."

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything..

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

So as a mature woman should I settle for someone my own age who doesn't take care of themselves and has an old head on their shoulders.

Give me a younger attractive fun guy anyday.

I would be happy to meet a guy my

age if I could find one that had that certain something about him.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

So as a mature woman should I settle for someone my own age who doesn't take care of themselves and has an old head on their shoulders.

Give me a younger attractive fun guy anyday.

I would be happy to meet a guy my

age if I could find one that had that certain something about him.

"

You’re not much older than me and I’m far from ready for the knackers yard .xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm inclined to think a lot of the time it's not women with the egos here. We're just meeting people we want to meet. It's the guys who do so much moaning about how women are unworthy.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

These threads always amuse me.

The women are happy, getting lots of cock.

The men are happy, getting laid.

The only ones not happy are people like you who post these sniffy little threads.

Funny old world hey.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."
oh to perfect!.... Op you must have a very high opinion of yourself to come out with a statement like that

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"No comment.... But I'll grab the popcorn and settle down for this one "

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Can we stop with the 'punching above their weight' shite please? Noone is in a better league than anyone else. No one has the right to push their 'beauty standards' on to anyone else! yes it's not a good thing to say out loud the reality is women are in driving seat so the amount of guys who throw themselves at them for the obvious reasons give them the pick of the crop to choose from ,its the intelligent women who don't pick the guys that in life wouldn't look at them twice but hey we live in a society that promotes choice ,it's not their fault that here the women have it ,choice through numbers choice though. Its that stupid mentality that you're in a higher 'league' than someone or because you value certain traits to be beneath you. Self righteous BS!!!only certain men perceive them to be punching above and only certain women's egos make themselves feel superior ,it's an egotistical life ,if you've got it flaunt it "

Going round in circles with this one. I'm out!!! Have a good day beautiful people xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything.."

Why would a 45 year old have more experience than a 25 year old?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

So as a mature woman should I settle for someone my own age who doesn't take care of themselves and has an old head on their shoulders.

Give me a younger attractive fun guy anyday.

I would be happy to meet a guy my

age if I could find one that had that certain something about him.

You’re not much older than me and I’m far from ready for the knackers yard .xx"

I can tell your not, your profile made me smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Yes, it's just you

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything..

Why would a 45 year old have more experience than a 25 year old?"

Is that a serious question? Lol

Older women have a calm confidence too ..

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Hi OP, no it's not just you but as people have already said, women rule these sites and that's just the way it is, because there will always be guys in abundance.

However on this site everyone is so scared to have anything other than the current PC opinion that you're going to find yourself pissing into the wind on this one I'm afraid, apart from the ones who will secretly agree with you but won't dare say it.

Average guys seldom "punch above their weight" on here.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything..

Why would a 45 year old have more experience than a 25 year old?

Is that a serious question? Lol

Older women have a calm confidence too .."

A very serious question. Many women I know in my age bracket have been married for years and only had sex with a couple of men. Many of my younger colleagues have been free from the sexual constraints placed upon my generation and have done and seen way more than I had at their age.

How many years someone has been alive has no bearing on experience of anything at all, but then you’re a youngster so by your own admission, you won’t have had much experience of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything..

Why would a 45 year old have more experience than a 25 year old?

Is that a serious question? Lol

Older women have a calm confidence too ..

A very serious question. Many women I know in my age bracket have been married for years and only had sex with a couple of men. Many of my younger colleagues have been free from the sexual constraints placed upon my generation and have done and seen way more than I had at their age.

How many years someone has been alive has no bearing on experience of anything at all, but then you’re a youngster so by your own admission, you won’t have had much experience of that. "

I mean this with no disrespect..... but until coming into the lifestyle.... I really didn’t think people were having sex over 55+...

I’m no fool but I never looked at my Parents, Aunties/Uncles , and grand parents as horny rabbits.....

So what he is trying to say is that maybe a older woman is more in tune with her body and can direct a man to pleasuring her better than a younger woman.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 44 and shagging a 32 year old, I feel I'm deffo punching above my weight with him.

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By *illieporterWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

Haha oh dear

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

Why not if you can why wouldn't you..

Bet you would do ten rounds with 25 model..

Definitely choose someone 45 over someone 25 !!

Experience really is everything..

Why would a 45 year old have more experience than a 25 year old?

Is that a serious question? Lol

Older women have a calm confidence too ..

A very serious question. Many women I know in my age bracket have been married for years and only had sex with a couple of men. Many of my younger colleagues have been free from the sexual constraints placed upon my generation and have done and seen way more than I had at their age.

How many years someone has been alive has no bearing on experience of anything at all, but then you’re a youngster so by your own admission, you won’t have had much experience of that.

I mean this with no disrespect..... but until coming into the lifestyle.... I really didn’t think people were having sex over 55+...

I’m no fool but I never looked at my Parents, Aunties/Uncles , and grand parents as horny rabbits.....

So what he is trying to say is that maybe a older woman is more in tune with her body and can direct a man to pleasuring her better than a younger woman....."

Thank you

That’s exactly what I’m saying..

I’ve been with females of all ages ..

Younger girls are so insecure about there bodies, possibly media to blame..

They don’t think they look beautiful or sexy so they change bits about themselves to conform..

Older ladies say “ this is me , I’m happy with me “ and are so much more relaxed and confident sexually..

My opinion please don’t shoot me !

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"I'm 44 and shagging a 32 year old, I feel I'm deffo punching above my weight with him.

"

Nice to see some honesty ..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm 44 and shagging a 32 year old, I feel I'm deffo punching above my weight with him.

Nice to see some honesty ..

"

I'm 33 and shag guys in their 50s and 60s. It'll be all over the shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In hear the women can have who ever the want , a friend started her new profile and within a day she had over 700 messages and she didn’t even have any public photos to see what she looked like ?

How desperate are us men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't hot men give out a little charity sex now and then?"

Everyone wants to get into heaven by doing a good deed. Bless 'em.

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By *REEDOMatVACouple
over a year ago

Suffolk/ Essex

I think that at the moment in time that the relationship (whatever that relationship is) is happening the people involved are invested in each other enough that they arent thinking about who's 'punching'. Everyone has their own opinion of them self and people that I may find beautiful may not hold that view of themselves in their own heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In hear the women can have who ever the want , a friend started her new profile and within a day she had over 700 messages and she didn’t even have any public photos to see what she looked like ?

How desperate are us men ? "

Hmmmm... cheers for speaking on my behalf there, but desperation? Nah. And as for the OP? I absolutely hate that punching above shit. If you really click with someone I don't give two fucks about what anyone else thinks.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Sounds like he got turned down by someone older than him that he expected would be welcoming him into her bed with gratitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t we “punch above” on here isn’t that the point on here! men I’m sorry if you thought that just because “A woman” joins this site they will fuck anything! we have standards in every day life & on here thanks

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation."

Aww bless...you're so funny!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all punch above our weight only downside is the rejection. If you don’t what’s the point unless you’re trying for just an easy shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who thinks this but are some of the women particularly the mature ones punching well above there weight on here or am I wrong, just an observation.

I agree to a certain extent. But if 2 people are prepared to meet, regardless of our onlooking opinions, is there really a ‘weight’? Who are we to judge if 2 people are attracted to each other? Apart from the fugly ones who find each other and fuck for the sake of it regardless of attraction someone take my drink off me please

Have a few more sips .. I wanna hear more of this

What she's saying is, some people don't see a person as better than them, so they'll happily have sex with them. Now, that's usually the really fit men with hot bods and handsome faces, as they have nothing to prove and don't have low self-esteem.

Ugly men will get fed up of messaging women far better looking than them and go for the ugly ones out of desperation.

When the ugly women turn them down they message men, for a blow job.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha of course some are! But in the world of fab where the female of the species rule supreme, why on earth shouldn't they?

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Sorry perhaps I'm doing this all wrong. Should I be turning down any hot guys that message me because I'm obviously not worthy of their attention?

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